The New School Of Motherhood Podcast

What if parenthood isn't something to survive, but an invitation to grow into the person you're meant to become?

In this first episode of Growing Together, I sit down with Jason Seeman, founder of Raising Fathers, for an honest conversation about the unseen initiations of parenthood. We share the pivotal moments when we each realised we needed to grow—and how our children became our greatest teachers.

Jason opens up about standing in front of a bathroom mirror 30 hours into his first child's labor, spiralling internally while his partner needed him to be a pillar in the storm. I share about the moment I realized I couldn't be both the hurt little child and a mom at the same time, and the choice I had to make.

This is a conversation about surrender, self-love, and what it means to grow together with our children.

In this episode:

• The moment Jason realized he needed to grow as a father (and why it happened later than he'd recommend)
• Why seeking control during birth is often a sign we're seeking comfort, and what our partners really need from us
• How children shine a mirror to all the places we still need to love and heal ourselves
• The challenge of letting go of goal-driven identity in postpartum (from 60-second handstands to 3am wake-ups)
• Why you can't have a to-do list with kids (and what that teaches us about presence)
• How to integrate your old self with your new identity as a parent (without thinking it's gone forever)
• What it means to be a good leader for your children by first doing the inner work yourself

⁠If this episode moved you, begin here. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Mother They Remember⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is a guided reflection for women who are ready to meet the mother they are becoming, not just survive the one they've been handed.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

About your hosts:

Jason Seeman is a fatherhood guide, educator, and facilitator with over a decade of experience creating and facilitating education programs that have impacted over one million people globally.

Raising Fathers is raising a new generation of grounded, connected, and present fathers.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply for the True North Fatherhood Prep program⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mandy Cai⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is the founder of The New School of Motherhood, a philosophy platform built on a single conviction: motherhood isn't where you lose yourself. It's where you find the truest, most powerful version of her. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This episode was produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠Six-Two Studio

In this first solo episode, I'm talking about why we need a completely different approach to motherhood. Most of us prepare for pregnancy and birth with apps and baby gear lists, but no one's teaching us the most fundamental thing: how to actually become the mother we want to be.

I share my own experience of going into motherhood, how I realised there was this massive gap in what we're taught, and why I refuse to accept that mothering from depletion or sacrifice is just the way it has to be.

This episode is about seeing motherhood as an opportunity for deep personal growth and leadership. It's about breaking free from the patterns we inherited, learning to hold ambiguity, and building the kind of relationships with our children where they actually want us around when they're adults.

If you're preparing for motherhood or already in it and feeling like there has to be a better way, this conversation is for you.

If this episode moved you, begin here. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Mother They Remember⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is a guided reflection for women who are ready to meet the mother they are becoming, not just survive the one they've been handed.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

About your host 

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mandy Cai⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ is the founder of The New School of Motherhood, a philosophy platform built on a single conviction: motherhood isn't where you lose yourself. It's where you find the truest, most powerful version of her. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠Begin the guided reflection⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to her newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠Connect on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠Follow on Rednote / 小红书⁠⁠