Sometimes we have people who pour so much into us and we respect them so much, we feel like we have to take everything they give us. That's not always the case. Some people have nuggets to offer but not a lifestyle that coincides with yours. Be led by your heart, purpose, and convictions first; see what lines up with you and what doesn't. I think as a Christian, this is especially important. But even if you aren't, it's still important to know that you don't have to replicate someone 100%, because all of them may not be worth replicating.