The Nobody Guide to Life: Personal Growth and Spirituality Tips and Tools You Can Use Right Now

It's the season of pulling weeds around here, and I was talking to someone recently about how to pull them in a mindful way. That inspired me to revisit this episode...E5...from April, 2018. I hope you enjoy!

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I want to show you how easily you can incorporate this powerful tool of mindfulness into your everyday life. I didn't intend to go down this path today, but when I crossed the mundane task of yard work with the extraordinary power of mindfulness, well...I knew I had to share it with you.

I describe for you how a mindful mindset accompanied me around the yard this morning as I got tools from the garage, watered trees, and raked debris. Sound boring? It's anything but. It was actually quite extraordinary.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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What if you died, came back, and realized that life wasn’t about judging ourselves or others but, instead, being loving? What if you realized that life was about seeing in ourselves and others all that is divine about being alive?

Tricia Barker did leave her body through a near death experience during a life-saving surgery and saw angels helping physicians operate on her. She flat lined, and she knew she was “technically dead.” Was there sorrow? No. Only a spirit of adventure, and a knowledge of the truth of kindness and everlasting love.

In Tricia's book, Angels in the OR, she shares the story of her powerful transformation. She gives us details of her near death experience and the insights she brought back from the “other side” – including a description of God, angels, and the life review.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“Angels are just a reality to me now.”

“My spirit form had lifted out of my body…my back was opened up, my hip was opened up…blood was spilling everywhere.”

“Yes! We go on! I knew I was seeing the doctors. I was seeing the full room…the angels were at the foot of the bed…intelligent…profoundly caring.”

“I am this spirit form…I am this thing that continues on.”

“[While out of my body] I saw my stepfather get a candy bar, and that proves consciousness goes on.”

“I felt one with everyone walking the street [in Austin].”

“I felt God as an energy of love.”

“How can you see into the hearts of people and…spread love more?”

“I couldn’t wait to get closer to God.”

Links:

Book: 

Angels in the OR: https://amzn.to/2W1cQmJ and on Audible: https://amzn.to/2qfln7B

The Self, The Other, & God: Poems: https://amzn.to/37PKH4Q

Website: 

https://triciabarkernde.com/

YouTube Channel: YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyIstVbBhilo1gdUmazkReQ

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TriciaBarkerNDE

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/triciabarker_nde/

Twitter @TriciaTeacher

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I’ve been getting a lot of questions lately about my personal mindfulness/meditation practice. So, I thought I’d put up a replay of E13 (6/10/18) for a review of four key steps to mindful meditation.

Can't stop thoughts? You can still practice mindful meditation. Hear a 4-step approach to accepting thoughts in meditation and discover how this simple process can work for you, even if you can't stop thinking about thinking! Dive into the concept of mindful meditation and learn a little about its history. Find out what thoughts and toddlers have in common. Find the inspiration to start your a new practice, or reinvigorate your existing practice.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), on Instagram (@japlosker), or join the conversation at our Facebook group, Simple Spirituality (http://bit.ly/SimpleSpiritualityGroup). Discover even more at thenobodyguidetolife.com or find videos and episodes on The Nobody Guide to Life YouTube Channel at http://bit.ly/TNGLYouTube. Find the book, "The Nobody Bible: Uncovering the Simple Wisdom in Ordinary Life" at https://amzn.to/2Hgf7jH.

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From a life of poverty and abuse to the glamor and celebrity of the Las Vegas Strip, Linda Smith has lived quite a life. But when her son was born with special needs, that’s when her true passion and calling kicked in and Linda made an enormous impact, raising hundreds of millions of dollars to help those in need.

Linda taught herself to dance. She found the courage to find her voice. She overcame a harrowing 17-year journey of setbacks and politics to win a victory for what was right for her son, Christopher. And, she wrote Unwanted: How a Mother Learned to Turn Shame, Grief, and Fear into Purpose, Passion, and Empowerment. Now, nothing can stop her from raising others up. Hear about a life trajectory that led to the Christopher Smith Foundation and a legacy of love and support that will last for generations.

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For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“When I look back…I don’t know that I would change much, even though it was, at times, horrific.”

“You can lay down and die…or you can kick into gear.”

“We have to be kind and say nice things to people.”

“Show people what you have inside of you…believe in yourself.”

“All they want is a chance at a life we all take for granted.”

“With Chris, I went down the path that he laid out for me.”

Links:

Website: http://lindaslife.com/

Christopher Smith Foundation: https://www.christophersmithfoundation.org/

Opportunity Village: https://www.opportunityvillage.org/

Book:

Unwanted: How a Mother Learned to Turn Shame, Grief, and Fear into Purpose, Passion, and Empowerment https://amzn.to/2mnQdcr

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January 1, 2020 is on the way, and with it comes New Year’s resolutions. That’s right…those things we promise ourselves we’ll get to on January 1, but then leave behind on January 2. But what would happen if we focused on today instead of the year? What if we resolved to do something small that we could find a little time for each day to help us build to something bigger, instead of picking some goal that’s really big to begin with?

In this episode, we’ll share a little about what we want to do in the new year, and how we’ll be approaching resolutions a little differently. Who knows? Maybe you’ll be inspired to go small this year, right along with us!

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“I have never really been able to keep a New Year’s resolution myself.”

“If you’re going to join a gym, join in February, because there’s a lot more parking.”

“We set ourselves up for failure before we even start.”

“Instead of setting a New Year resolution, maybe a New Year’s Day resolution…what can I do today?”

“I pick something I can do easily…any day of the week…something that I have control over.”

“Don’t go for the biggest change.”

“Be open to the evolution of what’s best for you.”

Info:

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Facebook Group: The Nobody Guide to Life

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No matter if you’re vegetarian, vegan, pescatarian, or a carnivore at the holidays, this is the show for you. From school lunch trays, to two holy brothers, to Melissa chasing J. A. around with a spoonful of tomatoes, there’s something here for everyone.

It’s holiday time! And that means billions of people will have billions of different experiences of all that this season brings. But one thing that unites so many of us? Food! From ancient times, gathering around a communal meal has held tremendous power. Food can be exciting, it can be daunting, it can be nourishing, but whatever it is for you, it’s part of this time of year.

Food is a big deal in our household, and we’ve come to realize there is a way to experience this holiday season besides either strict discipline or unabashed indulgence. It’s about deciding what experience you want to have over the holidays and committing to that, while also understanding others have their own expectations.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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"Food is a big deal in this household."

"It’s not about how we look. It’s about how we feel…we want to feel calmer. We want less anxiety."

"Many of us have stories around family life or friend life that are linked to food."

"We know a lot more now about how certain foods affect our human bodies…what works for J. A. doesn’t necessarily work for me…we have fun with it."

"It’s up to you how you want to approach the holidays…and to hold space for others."

Info:

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Facebook Group: The Nobody Guide to Life

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When life brought her an opportunity to live a dream, Patricia Brooks took it. And it took her far away – from the United States to the south of France. Patricia had to find the courage to walk away from her corporate job so she could take a bold new step forward. And she did.

Patricia went on to write “Live a Bold Life: Your 30-Day Mission to a Fearless Future” and host The Courage Catalyst podcast. Now, she helps inspire others to find their courage and live without regrets. Listen in and see if you can take that next step you’ve been wanting to take.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“I had the dream in my heart…but I did not believe I could do it.”

“I had to get the belief that I could do it.”

“I lost 75 pounds, and that’s when everything changed.”

“There’s a lot of internal work that comes out of writing down your thoughts and feelings.”

“Decide, and then take action.”

“We do so much…we achieve so much…but we forget it.”

“My mission is to help as many people as possible…not have regrets…”

Links:

Books:

Live a Bold Life: Your 30-Day Mission to a Fearless Future: https://amzn.to/2ZZFxDj

Growing Bold: How to Overcome Fear, Build Confidence, and Love the Life You Live: https://amzn.to/2NZIywl

Website: www.thecouragecatalyst.com

Podcast: Discovering Courage http://discoveringcourage.com/index.php/episodes/

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From hospice to cosmetics, Jennifer Leigh has done it. She followed her calling to healing, then to her garage to create a line of skin care products. But when it all went down, and she felt like she couldn’t perform for anyone anymore, Jennifer decided to get back up. She re-entered the world of consulting and became a “pitbull in a dress” and took her life in a new direction – a direction of living through inspiration, intuition, and spiritual growth to create a new life.

When we lose so much, we gain so much more. Listen to Jennifer Leigh’s journey from life performer to life embracer through development of intuition. Maybe get inspired to listen to your intuition on your life journey.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“I always felt like…a loner."

"I always wanted to help people.”

“It was all about pouring love into people’s lives and helping them heal however I could.”

“It was divinely orchestrated.”

“We know we have different doors, but we don’t always take the right door.”

“I love being able to use my intuitive gifts on a daily basis.”

“The handcuffs came off one by one.”

Links:

Website and other media:

www.gracefulandgumption.com

IG: @gracefulandgumption

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What if you could turn stress into joy? What if there were simple techniques to lessen the pressure and tension of everyday life and overcome worry? What if gratitude could become more than just a passing idea, but a part of your everyday life – a part that can help you live a better life, right now?

Dr. Rozina Lakhani, author of Stress to Joy: Your Toolkit to Restore Peace of Mind in Minutes, has some specific steps and relaxation exercises developed from years of practice with clients in her psychiatric practice. Learn some of these techniques and take advantage of a free offer for listeners of the show.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“The W.H.O. designed stress as the epidemic of the 21stCentury?”

“I want to bring tools to people before they start suffering.”

“I see this shift in their energy…a smile comes on their face. I ask them to write them down to give them courage.”

“There’s a basic formula: ACR. A stands for ‘acknowledge’…C Stands for ‘calm down’…and R represents ‘reflection.’”

“All of us have an ‘emotional coping account.’”

Links:

Books:

Stress to Joy: Your Toolkit to Restore Peace of Mind in Minutes: https://amzn.to/313dJKJ

Free audiobook: http://stresstojoy.com/jafree

Websites:

https://drrozina.com/

https://www.stresstojoy.com/

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Mindfulness is such a helpful tool for adults to deal with the stresses and strains of work, parenting, and all the other responsibilities that come with life. But is it any less important for children? What if the techniques of mindfulness could be introduced earlier – to prepare children in the first stages of life to handle what will come later? And what if our calm demeanor could help a child relax or be more aware?

For James Butler, author of Mindful Classrooms and Mindfulness in a Jar, and founder of Mindful Classrooms™, getting mindfulness education into the classrooms is exactly what his mission is all about. James used mindfulness in his own life to help with some personal struggles, and now he wants to share the gift with others. Listen in as James shares his passion for mindfulness as a tool for empowerment, stress relief and self-care, and learn a powerful breathing technique for all of us to use to stay more mindful – at any stage of life.

For more information, find us on Facebook and Twitter (@nobodysview), or join the Facebook conversation at Simple Spirituality. Discover even more at www.thenobodyguidetolife.com or find the book at https://amzn.to/2sEkdjO.

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“Something clicked that my struggles were seeping into the classroom…this isn’t cool…my five- and six-year-olds don’t need my stuff as well.”

“I was able to see to the root of [my students’] behavior and not take things personally.”

“I was other to see others based on my own self-awareness.”

“[Students] were responding as opposed to reacting.”

“There was definitely a seismic shift in my classroom…it was incredible…I [thought] this stuff is magic!”

“Mr. Butler, my amygdala’s going crazy! I need to do some mindful breathing.”

“Just our calm demeanor helps our students deactivate.”

“No matter your belief system, you want your kids to relate and to get along.”

Links:

Books and products:

-Mindful Classrooms™: Daily 5-Minute Practices to Support Social-Emotional Learning (PreK to Grade 5) https://amzn.to/2MA8rnq

-Mindfulness in a Jar®: 101 Exercises to Help Children Focus and Calm Their Minds: https://amzn.to/2MBiHf6

-Coloring Book and Reflections for Social Emotional Learning: https://www.freespirit.com/counseling-and-social-emotional-learning/coloring-book-and-reflections-for-social-emotional-learning-james-butler-becca-borrelli

-Website: https://mindfulclassrooms.com/

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