In this episode, I spoke with Kelly Gordon, Creative Director at the sex toy company Hot Octopus. As someone with spinal muscular atrophy, Kelly has always been an advocate for inclusivity. Her goal is to break down stigmas and promote open conversations around intimacy and pleasure.
We discussed her journey working in male-dominated industries like football before focusing her efforts on diversity and inclusion. This led her to co-found WITH NOT FOR, a company improving disability representation.
Kelly then explained her role at Hot Octopus, leading branding and creative. She shared the company's commitment to inclusive imagery, ensuring customers of all abilities can explore pleasure on their own terms. We talked about common myths that sex toys are just for women or indicate someone is "broken." Kelly described products designed specifically for men's anatomy and needs.
Finally, Kelly offered suggestions for anyone exploring sex toys for the first time. We discussed the lack of sex education focusing on consent, safety, and mutual pleasure rather than just biology. Removing shame and stigma allows for more fulfilling intimate lives. Overall, Kelly delivered an enlightening perspective on promoting intimacy, inclusivity and breaking down taboos.
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Timestamps
00:24 Welcome back to NQPC episode 45
01:41 Kelly’s Story
06:44 Did you work with any famous footballers
08:49 Being a woman in a boardroom
14:08 Box Ticking and Disability Kudos
16:19 Running 3 Companies
19:25 How do you manage your time
25:15 Trying to be Matcho29:08 The Apprentice shut me down
41:31 How Octopus - Sex Toys
57:56 When you know what HOT OCTOPUS is about
59:59 How to tell your kids you work in the Sex Industry
01:02:43 Sex Education was terrible
01:07:10 The Last Question
01:08:05 Where to find Kelly?
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