This week the Not So Perfect Couple go solo and recap their guests the Better Lover May. They talk about their takeaways, what they tried, what they didn't, and how it has I'mproved/impacted their love life. 

If you haven't tried anything from Better Lover May yet, then now's your time. 

This week the NSPC sits down with Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt. They dive into what is intimacy, how do you get into your heart to become a better lover? How do you make yourself better FOR your partner. This is a can't miss!

Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those who have suffered heartbreak and are ready to live unapologetically, and attract an open-hearted, ideal relationship. Her vulnerability and courage landed her a featured weekly column on the GoodMenProject, featured as an Icon of Influence, and as Guest Expert on Huffington Post, People Magazine, Forbes, CBS & FOX and The Jenny McCarthy Show. This Ivy League grad is the Author of 6 books, has interviewed Whoopi Goldberg and Alanis Morissette, and Hosts the edgy Podcast “Intimate Conversations” where listeners learn how to find the relationship they deserve. A certified coach with close to 5 million viewers on YouTube, Allana was asked by Leeza Gibbons to coach her during Dancing with the Stars. While supporting non profits like Rise of the Butterfly to end human trafficking, Allana offers private and group coaching plus retreats so that her clients have a thriving intimate relationship with themselves first, which naturally attracts and enhances their ideal partnerships.

The NSPC sit down with the author of the best selling book..She Comes First. You can figure out what this episode is all about! It is perfect for the better lover May! This guest and episode, is kind of a big deal!

Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with recent features in The Atlantic, The New York Times, The Economist and NPR amongst others. Ian contributes regularly on the topic of sex for CNN Health. He lectures frequently on topics related to sex and relationships, with recent presentations at New York University, Yale, Princeton and the Ackerman Institute. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First (Harper Collins) which has been translated into more than a dozen languages. In addition to being a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT), Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists and is also a member of the American Family Therapy Academy(AFTA).

The Not So Perfect Couple sit down and have a very in depth and detailed conversation about the art of the blowjob. Fascinating tips and tricks are shared by their guest, and fair warning, they talk about butt stuff...

Their guest is Patty Contenta she is the owner of the World renowned Arthur Murray Laval Dance Franchise. She began her career in the ballroom dancing community 20 years ago with the Arthur Murray Dance Studio in Montreal. As a Professional Dancer, Choreographer, Judge, Master Examiner, International Dance Consultant, she has transmitted my passion for dance to students around the world.

Her mission is to have everyone who walks through the door of her Arthur Murray Laval Dance Studio, be instilled with a deep desire to be moved and ultimately be inspired to discover how dancing will touch their hearts and change their lives.

She is also the founder of Sensuality Secrets, the author of Desirable And Deserving e-book and Sexy In Seconds DVD Program that helps women who are struggling with their body image reconnect with their femininity, confidence and sensuality through the art of body language and dance.

Her mission is to have women release their resistance by expressing their sensuality. Patty provides techniques that will lead them to be more playful, build their self-esteem and exude a natural confidence while creating an inviting environment that will make them more magnetic.

The Not So Perfect Couple kick of Make Your Sex Life Better Month with the Perfect Guest, Shari James! They dive into things like erectile disfunction, premature ejaculation, and how men can do things to improve all of this.

As a holistic health coach Shari works with men who are struggling with erectile dysfunction and do not want to take male enhancement pills, have taken them and did not get results or cannot take them because of side effects. 

She also helps men with Premature Ejaculation who want to last longer and become multi orgasmic. 

Borrowing from Shari's expertise as a registered nurse, practitioner of the five elements of Chinese Medicine, and Mastery of Tantra. 

Shari's approach is a blend of traditional Western medicine and Eastern healing practices which provides a grounded, accessible and holistic approach.

For more check out www.shari-james.com 

Paddy and Sam have a very timely conversation with their guest this week, Susie Miller. They discuss keeping your relationship together during quarantine, and how COVID-19 is affecting relationships all around the world. 

Susie Miller is a speaker, author, and coach committed to helping high performers thrive in the relationships that matter most. For over 30 years, she has helped people uncover the deeper issues that keep relationships from thriving, and then develop the skills to win at work, succeed at life, and grow deeper in their faith. 

Susie is the author of Listen, Learn, Love: How to Dramatically Improve Your Relationships in 30 Days or Less!, and has written for large publications been a guest on numerous popular podcasts, as well as appeared on NPR. She hosts the podcast: Thrive in Relationships.

As an experienced communicator and consultant, Susie has worked with companies, organizations, and individuals to maximize their relationship capital at work, home, and play. As a lover of people, she connects with authenticity and gives them hope! Susie, and her husband John, have been married for 36 years, have 3 adult children, and an adorable grandson.  They currently live and work full time “on the road”, traveling the country in their tiny house/RV fifth wheel.  Connect with her at SusieMiller.com.

In this weeks episode of the Not So Perfect Couple Paddy and Sam go into detail about their own unresolved disagreements.

The reality is, there are a number of things you'll always disagree with, with your significant other. The important thing isn't the disagreement, it is how you handle and resolve these disagreements.

Paddy and Sam share the steps you need to take to handle such things, and why it's ok.

This week the Not So Perfect Couple sits down with their friend Csilla Veress. This conversation couldn't come at a more perfect time, since we are all trying to keep ourselves healthy. You'll love this conversation they have.

Csilla Veress ND, LAc, is primary care doctor currently practicing at TrueNorth Health Center, in Santa Rosa, CA. The focus of her practice and outreach is to educate and inspire individuals to reach their highest potential, through helping them achieve optimal health, combining nutrition and lifestyle medicine. 

Dr. Veress regularly lectures at TrueNorth Health, hospitals, colleges and corporation events, on the impact of whole food, plant based nutrition, water fasting and lifestyle modification in preventing and treating chronic illness. 

Dr. Veress is a contributing writer for NPLEX, helping elevate excellence for ND board examinations. She is an author of the sleep module component of The lifestyle Medicine Core curriculum offered by the American College of Lifestyle Medicine   She has also written several articles for Health Science Magazine and has been featured on various podcasts.

Find her at drcsillaveress.com

In this weeks episode with the Not So Perfect Couple, they share with you something they've developed for a client of theirs on how to deal during this quarantine. 

In this episode, they dive into 5 things to keep your relationship alive during the lockdown! Truly game changing information from Sam and Paddy!

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: The audiobook is LIVE! To celebrate, Sam & Paddy are giving away 2 free copies of it to the first people who reach out to them on Facebook and say they are willing to write a review in exchange for it! Don't miss it!

The Not So Perfect Couple has returned...why? Because we are all quarantined and Sam and Paddy wanted to get together and discuss what to do to improve your life and relationships with this extra time we've all been gifted.

Paddy and Sam have different takes on how to approach this pandemic, how to calm the mind, how to keep yourself out of the negativity, and so much more. 

If you're struggling through this time, make sure to join the NSPC on this episode to feel a bit more "together"

Also, make sure to grab their new book to help you through this time, it will help with your patience, your love, and connection.