The Notbook

Hello, our dearest bookworms. This week. The Notbook Podcast will be participating in the #podcastblackout initiative led by @cult45podcast, standing aside to amplify the voices of people we stand with.

So instead of horror dating stories, please use your reserved hour for us to listen to the following podcasts, to learn about the horror of the systematic racism that is still happening today:

Ways for Canadians to help:

https://blacklivesmatter.ca/donate/

http://www.acrossboundaries.ca/

https://www.change.org/p/mayor-jacob-frey-justice-for-george-floyd

Black Lives Matters. #saytheirnames #8minute46seconds 

Helloooo Bookworms! Welcome to episode 6 of season 2!

This week's stories are the opposite of the spurglar stories - when men try to force women into having babies, a behavior known as Reproductive Coercion, a form of abuse that isn't talked about enough. Also, our giveaway is still underway! Please send us your stories for a chance to win one of two $25 Amazon gift cards!

On another note, this week has been utter chaos, while we're not a political podcast, we stand with the #blacklivesmatter movement, and demand #justiceforgeorgefloyd #justiceforall

Lots of love,

Amy & Nana

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Helloooo Bookworms, welcome to episode 5 of season 2!

This week, our theme is Hatfishing

Hatfishing: When someone on a #datingsite wears a hat in all their pictures to conceal the fact that they are bald or have bad hair.

I'm sure you all know what we're talking about here! Our first story is told by a hatfisher, so we get to see his perspective! Our second story, is about a girl who is fine with her date's hatfishing.. but something else threw her off. Tune in to hear all about it! 

We also have our first giveaway!! If you want to win an Amazon giftcard from us, follow us on facebook and Instagram, tag 3 friends in our most recent post and send us a horror story you want us to share with the other bookworms! We're so excited about this and can't wait to read all of your stories!! The winner will be announced next Sunday!!!

Amy & Nana

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References:

https://www.thecut.com/2017/08/if-youve-never-seen-your-dates-hair-is-he-hatfishing-you.html

https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/in-defense-of-hatfishing

Helloooo Bookworms! Welcome to episode 4 of season 2!

This week, we look at a couple of online dating horror stories, horror stories that a lot of us can relate with: whether the date grows obsessive, becomes manipulative,  starts stalking, or is just... creepy. We then dive into obsessive behaviors and our own experience with dates like these (while briefly discussing Nana's mommy issues).

Let us know if you can relate to any of these stories, and hope you learn a few things about first date safety before getting out there post COVID!

Amy & Nana

#TheNotbookPodcast #datingduringapandemic #spurglar #spurgling #babytrap #datinginTO #love #season2

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Helloooo Bookworms! Welcome to episode 3 of season 2 & happy mother's day to all the mommy bookworms!

We can't imagine how hard motherhood is, but we can only imagine the joy and love a mother has for her baby, they would do anything for them... anything!

This week, we learned all about the art of spurgling -  the act of A woman tricking a man into having a baby. Listen to this week's episode as we dive into the history and the many different methods of spurgling, and why someone would become a spurglar. We also have a story from a self-confessed spurglar, and a story from a man who was spurgled (nope, not the same sperms).

This week's episode was very eye-opening for us, we hope you enjoy it as well!

Amy & Nana

#TheNotbookPodcast #datingduringapandemic #spurglar #spurgling #babytrap #datinginTO #love #season2 

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Helloooo Bookworms!

Welcome to episode 2 of season 2 where we look into a story about a powerful woman who took one read at her engaged ex's heartfelt message and read through him like a book, closed that chapter and moved on with her life. Listen to this week's episode as we dive into what we would do in this situation, as well as why humans are wired to chase after "the one that got away" even if things were not always rainbows and butterflies during the relationship. 

We hope this episode helps some of you who are trying to get over an ex, orrrrrrr just gives you guys a couple of laughs as we go into some of our past regrets (cringe). 

Amy & Nana

References: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/valley-girl-brain/201902/is-the-one-got-away-real

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/what-does-being-the-one-that-got-away-mean-heres-how-the-experts-explain-it-12155044

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It's so good to be back Bookworms and welcome to Season 2 of The Notbook Podcast!!!! 

For you magical creatures who have been with us since the beginning, words cannot describe our appreciation for you!!! And for everyone who's just joining us, welcome to a world of dating horror stories, true love and a whole lot of cringe!! Tune into the premier of Season 2 where we've introduced a new format focusing on one topic or story per episode. At the end of each episode, we will either have a guest to help give us another viewpoint of the situation or we'll include a snippet called the "What the **ckness." 

What better way to kick off the new season than with an episode on Dating During a Pandemic!!! Everyone around the world is facing this pandemic, likely in a lock-down situation, so how the heck are we supposed to date during this time?

1) Our first guest dives into how he's had to modify his dating ways completely. He is someone who is usually technology averse, but is now 'forced' to join an online dating site because we don't know when our lock down will be over in Canada! 

2) Our second guest dives into how she is keeping her relationship healthy with her man, while maintaining social distancing because he is a front line worker. 

3) Amy goes into how her and Kevin are surviving in a 600 sqft apartment downtown, and how she's preparing for Kevin to start residency in a couple of months!

4) Nana talks about how her and Lyman are managing spending time with each other 24/7 and Lyman starts gaming for the first time during their relationship! 

We hope this episode brings you a bit of togetherness, hope and laughter during these challenging times. We're all in this together, and remember, love will always find a way!

Amy & Nana

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Happy Holidays Bookworms! 

We have an extremely special episode that we're so excited to share with you over the holidays! 

Tune in to hear a couple of crappy holiday dating stories for some sh*ts and giggles, but make sure you stay for our love story at the end! If you're reading this, and have NOT listened to any of our Single Pringle Mingle episodes, STOP RIGHT NOW AND GO LISTEN! Ok.. have you listened to them? Ok cool cool, come back now and click play because boy do we have a surprise for you all! Tune in and listen to our guests tell the love story of the week, but make sure you have some tissues ready to prepare for all the feelings and emotions! 

Make sure to listen to the ENTIRE episode because there are a couple of surprise stories at the end including a bonus love story, and a blooper story if you stay long enough - NSFW warning.

We hope this episode brings you a bit of warmth, joy and hope about love over the holidays! Thank you all for tuning in, and we'll see you next year on Season 2!

Love,

Amy & Nana

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Hello beautiful Bookworms! Welcome to our 37th episode: End of an Era. This week's episode marks the end of our first season, we want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for tuning in every Sunday in the past SEVEN months. This has been a crazy adventure for us, and we're so happy to be sharing stories and a part of our lives with you, and we're just getting started!! That's right! Season two is in the works, and we're spicing things up! We have more details in the episode this week so listen and let us know what you think of our plan for season two! 

Of course this episode is full of crazy dating stories, we've got a girl that calls her mom and paypal customer service during a first date, an open marriage mess, a single dad that likes to make human sized pizza cutters, and more. Of course this week's episode ends with a sweet love story, a story of a man that mended his hear by breaking his back. Oh yea, it's an eventful episode.

We really hope you enjoy this week's episode! If you did, please take a moment to rate, and subscribe to keep up with our latest episodes! #TheNotbookPodcast #datinghorrorstories #datinginTO #love !