From statistics to stories: how data, language, and history reveal the realities of abuse.Kayla and June unpack the scope of childhood sexual abuse through national statistics—and explore how ideas like “gaslighting” and “Stockholm syndrome” have shaped our cultural understanding of trauma.

Sources from Today’s Discussion

📊 Statistics

We referenced data from two trusted organizations providing national insight into child abuse and assault:

• National Children’s Alliance — National Statistics on Child Abuse: https://www.nationalchildrensalliance.org/media-room/national-statistics-on-child-abuse/
• RAINN — Statistics on Children and Teens: https://rainn.org/statistics/children-and-teens

🕰 Historical & Cultural Discussion

Our conversation explored the origins of two phrases that are repeated often: Stockholm Syndrome and Gaslighting.

• “Is Stockholm Syndrome a Myth?” — Article about Kristin Enmark, the 1973 bank robbery in Stockholm, and the origin of the term Stockholm Syndrome: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-08-23/is-stockholm-syndrome-a-myth/102738084

• Gaslight (1944) — The classic film that inspired the modern term gaslighting: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0036855/

📚 Recommended Children’s Books

“It is hard to deceive a child who has already been taught the truth.”

Early, open conversations about safety, consent, and body awareness are powerful. Prevention education at these early ages can make all the difference.

All of the books below are written for ages 4–7, but they can open meaningful discussions with older children as well.

• I Said No! by Zack and Kimberly King
• Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept by Jayneen Sanders
• Laura’s Secret by Laura Coel
• Who Has What? All About Girls’ Bodies and Boys’ Bodies by Robie H. Harris

🧩 Other Resources

• National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit online.rainn.org for confidential, 24/7 support.

• National Child Abuse Hotline (Childhelp): Call or text 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) or visit childhelphotline.org for help or resources.

You are worth what it takes to heal, and you are never alone.

❤