In this episode of The Observatory, James ‘Fish’ Gill joins the show to talk about love and awareness, conscious communication, and how it helps transform relationship conflicts. Jame Gill is a heart coach, yoga teacher, and transformational facilitator based in Perth, Australia. He supports couples, businesses, and community groups to regrow trust, connection, and understanding. Hear the simple practices for evoking safety during conflicts, including the art of validation. James also talks about the things that stop us from being masterful when validating others and the three questions to lead us deeper behind what we might assume to be malicious intent.

Timestamps

[02:10] The practice of conscious communication
[08:26] Simple practices for evoking safety in us during conflicts
[08:32] #1 The art of validation
[11:25] Validation 101, which supports emotional intimacy and safety
[15:07] The things that stop us from being masterful when validating others
[27:16] The threats that are vacuumed out by validation
[37:11] The ability to validate your intentions
[40:42] Fighting for mutual understanding
[46:40] Tapping into the neutral space in a relationship
[57:38] The homework for the week
[01:06:30] Three questions to lead us deeper behind malicious intent
[01:20:25] Bringing love and awareness to the very places it’s most ached for

Notable quotes:

“The more hyper-irrational we become, and the more engaged we become around firing off our little Facebook messages that are oppositional, the more we create the culture of opposition and judgement.” - James Gill [08:54]

“If someone has to be wrong in repair, then it’s not repair.” - James ‘Fish’ Gill [35:25]

“If I am holding in my left my experience and in my right your experience, and if I am really committed to bringing love and awareness to both, it’s only a matter of time for things to open between us.” - James ‘Fish’ Gill [01:01:35]

Relevant links:

Website: https://www.leadbyheart.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/james_fish_gill/

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In this episode of The Observatory, Scott and LaRae join the (inner)action Podcast to share their journey to self-discovery. Hear how music unfolds in Scott’s life outside the drum circle, LaRae’s musical journey,  her experience during the Hour of Determination, intergrading the two worlds of music and meditation, and how we can let go of the need to be right. They also share their story behind the Observatory Podcast, how the name came about, how it has helped them discover themselves better, and the concept of God within instead of outside.

Timestamps

[02:35] Scott and LaRae’s relationship with their true selves
[06:14] The power of language
[08:56] How music unfolds in Scott’s life outside the drum circle
[12:33] Letting go of the need to be right 
[18:00] LaRae’s musical journey 
[21:18] Integrating the two worlds of music and meditation
[26:49] Tips to being present 
[29:50] LaRae’s experience during the Hour of Determination
[36:09] LaRae’s experience of using her voice for the first time in 10 days
[41:58] The story behind The Observatory Podcast 
[45:44] The origin of the name ‘The Observatory.’
[50:13] How the Podcast has helped Scott and LaRae discover themselves better
[57:31] What next with The Observatory Podcast 
[01:01:44] The Concept of God within instead of outside
[01:08:24] Tapping into your presence 
[01:20:18] How Scott and LaRae help each other on their journey to self-discovery
[01:27:44] The most important takeaway from the podcast 

Notable quotes:

• “Anyone can start anything in life. It doesn’t matter your age, you can start anytime.” - Scott Wright [06:34]
• “There is a rhythm to life just like there is a rhythm to a song.” - Scott Wright [09:14]
• “There is much more to things than what meets the eye.” - David Dashaun [50:20]
• “Heaven is here, and Hell is also here. You are the one who decides where you want to live. Do you want to live in heaven, a life of beauty or Hell, a life of disconnection, sadness, and fear?” - Scott Wright [01:02:37]
• “When we set up a belief system that is exclusive and not inclusive, it creates separation.” - Scott Wright [01:04:50]

Relevant links:
(inner)action Podcast Apple Podcast

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In this episode of The Observatory, Scott and LaRae Wright share their support of those who are bringing about healing modalities for men, and one is The Men’s Council in Utah by Mike Canales and Adam Heaps. In this sacred space, men embark on a journey of self-discovery, connection, and deep healing. Hear what to expect in the Council, who should attend, and its uniqueness. Scott also shares how the Men’s Council influenced his personal life and the things that are helping most men tap into their spirituality.
 
Timestamps

[02:00] The Men’s Council in Utah
[03:29] Scott on his tattoo
[05:08] The meaning of the DOGU symbol 
[09:45] The difference between spiritual and physical warriors for men 
[17:00] The similarities of what people are going through 
[19:20] The virtual Men’s Council in January
[21:42] What to expect in the Men’s Council
[25:10] The unique thing about the Men’s Council 
[27:25] How the Men’s Council influenced Scott’s daily life 
[33:26] Things that are helping most men tap into their spirituality 

Notable quotes:

• “One of the most powerful gifts of gathering is people come, share, and be authentic. It’s in the sharing that we see each other.” - LaRae Wright [16:10]
• “There is no arrival. It’s just the continual unfolding of one's self.” - LaRae Wright [22:47]
• “The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.” - Scott Wright [23:30]

Relevant links:

The Men’s Council Website: https://www.theenergystack.org/mens-council
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theenergystack/?hl=en
Adam Heaps: https://www.instagram.com/adamheaps
Mike Canales: https://www.instagram.com/mikecanales_
 
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In this episode of The Observatory, Pallavi Kanoi joins the show to discuss her business of selling natural tea and how she balances her personal and business life. Pallavi the Founder of Oh Cha, a boutique tea brand that sells numerous tea flavors with distinct aromas and delectable tastes. Hear how Pallavi got into the business of natural tea, how the business aligns with her life, and how she incorporates the Eastern philosophies of yoga and meditation. Pallavi also shares the family ecosystem in the Indian culture and her experience in the Galapagos Islands.
 
Timestamps

[01:00] Pallavi Kanoi’s background information
[02:41] How Pallavi balances business with personal life
[04:36] How Pallavi got into the business of natural tea
[07:36] How the business aligns with Pallavi’s personal life
[12:07] The Ten Thousand Small Business Program 
[16:11] The family ecosystem in the Indian culture
[20:28] Pallavi incorporating the Eastern philosophies of yoga, meditation, authentic living 
[28:13] Post-election meditation and coping with post-election stress 
[30:27] The place where we find peace within ourselves 
[34:00] The experience in the Galapagos Islands 

Notable quotes:

• “Loneliness is a bad thing. So, go and be with the elderly.” - Pallavi Kanoi [17:21]
• “Learn to live your life from the inside out because most of the time, we live our life from the outside in.” - Scott Wright [26:24]
• “We are so much similar than we are different.” - LaRae Wright [35:04]

Relevant links:

Pallavi Kanoi Website: https://ohcha.in/
Amazon.com Storefront: Amazon.com: OH CHA - Indulgent Teas: Home page
Instagram: 
https://www.instagram.com/oh_cha_/
https://www.instagram.com/pallavi_somani


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In this episode of The Observatory, Yazmany, a tour guide on the Monserrat Ship, joins the show to discuss the magic of the Galapagos Islands and how we are connected with nature. Hear how the Galapagos Islands impacted his life, how people can respect nature, and his experience with the woman who was authentic with nature. Scott and LaRae also share their great experience with the Monserrat Ship.
 
Timestamps

[01:24] Yazmany’s experience with nature
[04:04] Scott and LaRae’s experience with the Monserrat Ship 
[04:27] How the Galapagos Islands have impacted Yazmany’s life
[10:36] Respecting and caring for nature 
[14:11] Yazmany’s experience with the woman that was authentic with nature
[22:00] The magic of nature in the Galapagos Islands 

Notable quotes:

• “We are nature and nature reflects that to us.” - LaRae Wright [08:10]
• “Just because everything is living in harmony doesn’t mean it is not hard.” - LaRae Wright [08:50]
• “When your body is in contact with nature, everything becomes magical.” - Yazmany [25:51]

Relevant links:

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https://www.instagram.com/yazmany.pachay
https://monserrat-cruise.info/galapagos-cruise-itineraries/
https://www.instagram.com/galapagosadventouring
https://www.instagram.com/guidinggalapagosexpeditions
https://www.facebook.com/share/19cN78kAkG/?mibextid=LQQJ4d
Google - https://g.co/kgs/QxpaFxR

In this episode of The Observatory, Guillermo Martinez joins the show to discuss the flutes that he makes and how they transform lives on a deep level. Hear how Guillermo got into music, the artists that influenced his musical journey, how he got into making musical instruments, and the easiest way to play the flute. He also shares his journey into drumming, the different music that connects your body with the ethereal space, and how music calms the mind in all the chaos of the world.
 
Timestamps

[01:09] Guillermo Martinez’s background information
[04:19] How Guillermo got into music
[07:23] The artists that influenced Guillermo’s musical journey
[18:30] The importance of breath control in playing the flute
[20:01] The easiest way to play the flute
[22:44] Different flutes for different purposes
[24:12] Guillermo’s thoughts on the different frequencies
[41:22] The music that is connected to the ethereal space
[47:18] Can music calm your mind in all the chaos of the world?

Notable quotes:

• “Intent is important. You have to build your skills, diaphragm, breath control, and fingering to play flutes.” - Guillermo Martinez [17:26]
• “You are playing properly when your mind is not present.” - Guillermo Martinez [18:08]
• “It takes thoughts to bring things into form. Without thoughts, nothing will ever come into form.” - Scott Wright [44:12]

Relevant links:

Guillermo Martinez Website: https://www.quetzalcoatlmusic.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000044892238
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/quetzalcoatl13/

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In this episode of The Observatory Podcast, Hugh Vail is an explorer at the intersection of nondualism and psychology, providing a framework for embracing one's Authentic Self. He shares his transformative journey of personal growth through rewilding experiences. The discussion begins with Hugh's initial foray into rewilding and the profound growth he has encountered since then. He candidly discusses the trials and errors he faced, particularly with horses, and highlights the importance of intuition in guiding his path. Hugh's unique ability to create spaces for introspection allows others to explore their inner selves, emphasizing that everything is in a state of transition. The conversation explores how rewilding has taken Hugh to unexpected places and its impact on those around him. Themes of accountability, vulnerability, and authenticity are woven throughout Hugh's journey towards aligning with his true self. 

Timestamps

[06:51] The first rewilding experience
[11:22] The growth Hugh is encountering
[15:27] Trial and errors Hugh experienced with horses
[19:01] How Hugh followed his intuition
[20:58] Hugh’s gift of opening a space where people can see and go into themselves
[23:28] Everything is always in transition
[26:46] Rewilding experience that took Hugh to a place he never expected
[33:02] The impact of rewilding on Hugh and others around him
[38:14] Accountability, vulnerability, and authenticity as part of Hugh’s journey
[41:48] The real meaning of accountability
[52:30] Hugh’s current judicial system
[59:24] The journey towards true self and authenticity
[01:06:44] Ego is protective
[01:14:29] Living in the moment
[01:16:42] The future of rewilding
[01:20:44] Repair and revival of our relationships


Notable Quotes

• “There is always something underneath that layer of onion that gets to come up.” - Scott Wright [11:12]
• “We are never given more than what we have the capacity to handle.” - LaRae Wright [17:44]
• “No man ever walks in the same river twice for he is not the same man and it is not the same river.” - Hugh Vail [23:36]
• “The highest experience that we can have on earth is to get in alignment with our true self.” - Hugh Vail [24:48]
• “Your shadows are a part of what makes you whole.” - Hugh Vail [28:49]
• “We need a culture and a society that not only has the judicial system but also has like a healing system.” - Hugh Vail [54:43]
• “Self-awareness is the foundation for authenticity.” - Hugh Vail [01:01:27]
• “The greater the pain, the greater the lesson.” - Hugh Vail [01:15:23]

Relevant Links

Book by Michael A. Singer - The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself: https://www.amazon.com/Untethered-Soul-Journey-Beyond-Yourself/dp/1572245379

Connect With Hugh VailInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hughvail/?hl=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/hughvail/

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In this episode of The Observatory, Scott and LaRae Wright illuminate Tom Hirons's poem "Sometimes A Wild God," tracing Scott's initial encounter with the work and its lasting impact. They talk about the concept of life experiences as teachers, with Scott sharing personal insights on how holding onto shame and guilt can amplify negative emotions. LaRae opens up about her emotional landscape, providing a personal context for their discussion. As they read through the powerful verses of "Sometimes A Wild God," Scott and LaRae unpack the universal theme of inner wildness and our struggles confronting our battles. They explore the importance of dissipating negative energies and embracing the subtle aspects of our nature that often go unnoticed. 

Timestamps

[02:20] Where Scott first encountered the poem
[04:15] Seeing experiences in our lives as teachers
[06:52] LaRae’s emotional landscape
[11:11] The poem: Sometimes A Wild God by Tom Hirons
[19:40] The wild that is in all of us
[22:46] Wrestling our battles
[26:26] Dissipating negative things in our negative space
[28:30] Subtleties we need to step closer into
[32:40] Final remarks on the poem

Notable Quotes

• “Sometimes the things that we hold in a place of shame, guilt or darkness, it multiplies and gets bigger.” - Scott Wright [05:51]
• “It’s one of those poems that just continues to unfold and unfold and meet you where you are.” - Scott Wright [18:59]
• “The natural man is an enemy to God.” - Scott Wright [20:36]
• “Wherever our attention goes or what we give energy to, grows.” - LaRae Wright [24:06]
• “Anything that we hold in darkness brings darkness to us.” - Scott Wright [26:34]
• “When we allow the energy of holding something in a negative space to dissipate, it kind of loses its hold over you.” - Scott Wright [28:17]

Relevant links:

Poem: Sometimes A Wild God by Tom Hirons https://tomhirons.com/poetry/sometimes-a-wild-god
Feral Angels Press: Sometimes A Wild God by Tom Hirons https://feralangels.com/books/sometimes-a-wild-god

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In this episode of The Observatory, Merrilee Morgan, a Residential Real Estate Sales expert at Summit Sotheby's International Realty, 2023 Chair of the Greater Avenues Community Council, and Certified Life Coach, joins the conversation to explore the profound connection between our homes and our personal journeys. Merrilee shares her unique insights on understanding your home's true value and potential, emphasizing that it goes far beyond market prices and physical attributes. Drawing from her extensive experience in real estate and life coaching, she discusses how our homes serve as sanctuaries of memories, canvases for dreams, and reflections of our evolving selves. The conversation delves into various aspects of homeownership, from the emotional tapestry woven into living spaces to the importance of adapting homes for different life stages. Understanding your home's value and potential goes far beyond bricks and mortar or market prices. It's about recognizing the emotional tapestry woven into every corner of your living space. 

Timestamps

[03:16] About Merrilee Morgan’s job[
05:33] Things we need to know about our houses
[10:23] Working through the process of getting your house
[13:59] Patterns Merrilee has seen over the years about homes
[21:44] Ageing in place[26:56] Making decisions while in your right mind
[32:21] Providing services from a higher vibration
[33:42] Observing ourselves
[37:27] Finding what resonates with us
[40:58] The biggest mistakes women make in their homes
[42:39] Placing value on our homes
[48:47] Ceremonies for children ready to leave their homes
[54:43] Your home as a safe space
[57:07] How to connect with Merrilee Morgan

Notable Quotes

• “Everyone is very different in how they want their home to be in expression of themselves.” - LaRae Wright [04:24]
• “Your homes evolve as you become more aware of who you are.” - LaRae Wright [11:50]
• “It’s so good for our mental health to have light.” - Merrilee Morgan [24:12]
• “Things do work out, they do come together and everybody ends up getting what is rightfully theirs.” - Merrilee Morgan [30:04]
• “It’s not about you, and the more you make it about you the more it’s going to be about you inside of you.” - Scott Wright [36:31]

Connect With Merrilee Morgan

Website: https://www.merrileemorgancoaching.com/
Sotheby's International Realty Affiliates: https://www.sothebysrealty.com/summitsir/eng/associate/820-a-545-4030842/merrilee-morgan
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/merrilee-morgan-27570414/

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In this episode of The Observatory, George Bumann, a professional sculptor and wildlife ecologist, joins the show to discuss communicating and listening to the world and nature and how it's constantly communicating with us. George shares insights from his book "Eavesdropping on Animals: What We Can Learn From Wildlife Conversations" and explores the importance of creating a relationship with nature. The conversation delves into instances of listening to nature, techniques for achieving stillness, and the connection between music, listening, watching, and the natural world. George, whose sculptures can be found in prestigious collections across the United States, brings a unique perspective that combines his artistic background with his deep understanding of wildlife ecology.

Timestamps

[01:51] About George Bumann
[04:00] The book - Eavesdropping on Animals: What We Can Learn From Wildlife Conversations
[07:20] Creating a relationship with nature
[16:31] Instances George observed listening to nature
[25:29] Allowing nature to be what it is
[31:30] Using our senses to focus more when we are still
[35:28] Techniques to get into stillness
[44:22] We are never well in isolation
[49:21] Yellowstone environment experience for George
[58:40] Connection between music, listening, watching, and nature
[01:03:52] George’s experience when he was dancing around the fire
[01:12:23] Getting into spaces where we explore

Notable Quotes

• “In a lot of cultures the birds are the messengers, they are the ones that bring the messages to the clan or to the tribe.” - Scott Wright [13:51]
• “You can learn with the plants, you can learn with the animals have to teach us but that’s the big thing, is most of us just do not know how to listen anymore.” - George Bumann [14:54]
• “If you are darting your eyes around, the only thing you are seeing is the one thing you are looking at.” - Scott Wright [33:48]
• “Our culture, even our science has become so reductionist and focused on particular things.”  - George Bumann [35:38]
• “Those broader ways of observing contexts gives you the relationship.” - George Bumann [35:52] 
• “We live in the land of the free but we are not free.” - George Bumann [01:04:34]
• “Conversations can happen on so many levels beyond words.” - LaRae Wright

Resources Mentioned

1. The Book: Eavesdropping on Animals: What We Can Learn From Wildlife Conversations - George Bumann : https://www.amazon.com/Eavesdropping-Animals-Learn-Wildlife-Conversations/dp/1778400205
2. The Book: Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants - Robin Wall Kimmerer: https://www.amazon.com/Braiding-Sweetgrass-Indigenous-Scientific-Knowledge/dp/1571313567
3. The Book: The Music Lesson: A Spiritual Search for Growth Through Music - Victor L. Wooten: https://www.amazon.com/Music-Lesson-Spiritual-Search-Through/dp/0425220931

Connect With George Bumann: 
https://www.georgebumann.com/
https://www.facebook.com/george.bumann.3/
https://www.ayellowstonelife.com
https://www.ayellowstonelife.com/language-of-the-wild/

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