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What if your worst headaches were more than just headaches? Join me, Tracy Wallace, as I unravel my battle with migraines, shedding light on the unexpected turns and lessons learned along the way. Discover how a gentle nudge from my husband led to a pivotal doctor's visit, confirming that my debilitating pain was, in fact, chronic migraines. I'll walk you through my journey with daily medication, particularly Topamax, and how its side effects—both challenging and somewhat amusing—became part of my new normal.

Managing migraines isn't just about medication. I'll share the financial hurdles of affording prescriptions Relpax and the tough decisions on when to use these precious pills. Through this episode, you'll get a glimpse into the everyday life of someone juggling chronic pain and the importance of seeking medical advice sooner rather than later. With a mix of personal anecdotes and practical insights, my hope is to offer support and a touch of humor for anyone who faces similar struggles. Tune in and let's navigate this together!

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Ever thought a simple clogged sink could unravel a web of home maintenance nightmares? Discover how a routine plumbing fix turned into an unexpected adventure in homeownership on the latest episode of Only Child Diaries. I’m Tracy Wallace, sharing my firsthand experiences of dealing with a pipe disaster, the surprising complications that followed, and the crucial lessons I learned along the way. From managing a significant leak to navigating the world of plumbing repairs, this episode is packed with candid stories and practical insights that will resonate with anyone who's ever faced the unpredictable challenges of maintaining their own home.

But the real question is, how does a person become GOOD at this home ownership thing?  How do you learn all that you have to learn so that you A) don't spend all your money and B) don't lose your mind? 

But that's not all—we need your support to keep the Only Child Diaries podcast thriving! Follow us on your favorite platform, leave us a rating and review to help others find our show, and spread the word among friends who might enjoy our stories. Plus, connect with us on Instagram at Only Child Diaries and on Facebook at Only Child Diaries Podcast for more updates and behind-the-scenes content. Your engagement means everything, and we can’t wait to share more of our homeownership journey with you. Thanks for tuning in!

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Imagine a world where black-and-white TV brings you more joy than the latest high-def series. We're taking a nostalgic trip back to one of the greatest comfort shows of all time, "I Love Lucy." I'll be sharing my personal love affair with Lucy, from the days it brightened my childhood to how it continues to be my go-to comfort on streaming services like Pluto TV. We'll uncover some fascinating behind-the-scenes gems, focusing on the delightful contributions of Lucille Ball's close friends, Barbara Pepper and Hazel Pierce. Their recurring bit parts and stand-in roles add a unique and charming layer to the classic series that you won't want to miss.

But that's not all—let's also revel in the impeccable style and unmatched talent of Lucille Ball herself. Join me in appreciating her stunning wardrobe, her iconic red hair, and her remarkable athleticism that brought her physical comedy to life. Lucy’s dancing skills and energetic presence made her performances a joy to watch, and I'll share some of my favorite moments that still make me laugh out loud. So grab your dinner and get comfortable because you're invited to enjoy some classic "I Love Lucy" episodes with me. And stay tuned for next week's exciting new topic—you won't want to miss it!

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Ever been playfully accused of looking like an "old lady" by a cheeky four-year-old? That's exactly what happened to me, Tracy Wallace, sparking a mix of laughter and self-reflection. And let's face it, angst!  Join me as we navigate the uncharted waters of relating to children when you're not a parent yourself, reflecting on how my upbringing as an only child has influenced my interactions with the younger generation. With humor and a bit of soul-searching, we'll tackle the complexities of aging and self-perception, sharing insights on how to resonate with kids and what it means to embrace our age with grace.

This episode isn't just a stroll down memory lane; it's an honest look at the bridges and barriers between us and the pint-sized members of society. We're bypassing the typical "how to" guides on adulting and instead, sharing authentic experiences and the lessons learned along the way. Whether you're an only child or not, you'll find a kindred spirit in the stories shared, a laugh in the quirks of intergenerational exchange, and maybe, just maybe, a newfound appreciation for the wisdom that comes with every candle on the birthday cake. No guests, just real talk and a whole lot of heart as we peel back the layers of what it means to grow older without losing our youthful spark.

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This week we're finally back with our peppy intro music .  The shadow of loss has draped itself over recent days, with the departure of my cherished horse, Dallas, on March 17th. Yet, in the gentle sway of life's unyielding pendulum, I find a glimmer of hope and the resilience to carry on. Join me as I navigate the terrain of grief with a touch of humor and unfiltered honesty, sharing how the remembrance of those we've loved and lost can be woven into the tapestry of living.

This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the profound impact of loss and the absence it carves in our lives. As I recount personal stories alongside my husband, Bill, we confront the reality of saying farewell to not only treasured pets but also friends and family who have left too soon. Delicate yet resolute, I reflect on the process of grieving without the comfort of conventional religious or spiritual practices. I invite you, our listeners, to share in the lessons learned and the strength gained from these experiences, honoring the delicate balance between mourning and celebrating the memories we hold dear.

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As the sun sets on another day, I find myself walking the familiar path of reflection and remembrance, a journey many of us know all too well. This week's episode is a heartfelt exploration of the persistent echoes of loss, marking the 8th week without Dallas and how a blend of work and family has become a beacon of light in darker times. I also pay homage to Gina, my dearest friend of 32 years, on what would have been her 65th birthday.  while discussing the complex emotions that arise when joyous occasions like a Knott's Berry Farm visit remind us of those no longer here. The unexpected loss of local news station KTLA's reporter Sam Rubin also serves as a reminder that every day is a gift.

I share with you my own steps towards healing, understanding that the process is as gradual as the changing of the seasons. Next week, we'll shift gears to tackle a fresh topic, but for now, let's hold space for the stories and memories that keep the spirits of our loved ones alive. Join me as we find solace together in the shared narratives of life, loss, and the slow but steady journey towards light.

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This week I'm continuing my journey through the loss of Dallas, my cherished horse. Here we are, seven weeks later, unraveling the layers of grief that have enveloped my days. I explore the surreal void left by Dallas's absence, the haunting quiet of routines we once shared, and the tangled emotions that come with giving away some of the leftover horse supplies I still have.  I was also just surprised that I became such a mess.  When I say mess, I mean MESS.  But these days are going to happen from time to time.  

In this conversation, we confront the challenges of grief, emphasizing the necessity for patience and kindness towards oneself in these turbulent times. I divulge the personal strategies that provide me with a lifeline on the most trying days—immersing in my work, finding peace in the garden—and acknowledge the invaluable support from friends that lightens the load. I'm also reminded of my late friend Gina who passed away six years ago this month. Loss is loss, but it comes at different times, in different ways, and is processed somewhat differently each time.  I hope that by sharing MY journey, I can help someone else who is going through the same thing.  

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Navigating the ebb and flow of grief is a journey few can walk alone. As I recount the ongoing process of healing after the loss of my beloved Dallas, I share not just the sadness but also the strength found in the weeks thereafter. This episode is an intimate reflection on personal loss, the struggle with pet care, and the unexpected challenges life throws our way. Late-night vet visits with Bubbie, my cat grappling with health issues, have tested my resilience, yet it's in these moments that the importance of self-care and the significance of small victories come sharply into focus.

Music holds the power to unlock our deepest emotions, and I open up about how a simple music video can bring forth a wave of longing for a cherished companion no longer with me. A conversation with a friend who's walked a similar path offers a profound sense of connection and understanding. We delve into the complexities of the bonds we share with our animal friends, exploring themes of companionship and support. This heart-to-heart is a candid exploration of the ways we cope, the solace we find in each other, and the shared love that unites us in our experiences with our beloved animals.  

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The journey through grief is as unique as the bonds we form, and this episode is a candid exploration of my own path, marked by both sorrow and unexpected moments of joy. Reflecting on author and philosopher Judith Butler's insights, I delve into the profound disorientation that comes with the loss of someone integral to our identity. Join me in understanding the intricate dance between the pain of missing a loved one and the small victories that life still offers, like the heartwarming dog parade that brought a smile in the midst of healing.

Amidst the ebb and flow of emotions, this week has been about grounding myself in the simple pleasures, such as the social goings-on at the neighborhood dog parade with my loyal companion, Brownie. There's a touch of the bittersweet as I navigate the complexities of grieving while also savoring the fresh air and community spirit that brings a semblance of normalcy. We even managed to snag Second Place for the Overall Competition!  Whatever happens, life does go on.

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As I reach the four week mark after the loss of Dallas, I find myself in denial.  Denial over his passing.  And denial that the grief doesn't exist I guess.  It's been hard to process continually and yet I know somehow I must process it, as painful as it is.   

I open up about the time in 2007 when Dallas fell ill, sharing the story of our struggle and my profound gratitude that arose from those challenging days.  I learned about then, or was it before with one of my dogs, to cherish every moment and soak up my time with him.  I watched so many of our friends at the barn lose their horses over the years and knew it could happen quickly and without warning. 

I'll share with you the distraction and the literal grounding my garden has afforded me.  I learned about a woman who started a company called Meet Me in the Dirt to fill her own holes from grief.  What a great name, right?  And I'll talk briefly about my new job and how that's helping to keep me busy as well. 

Life goes on whether we want it to or not.  Join me as I navigate through grief.  Loss is something we all experience.  

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