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  • Kids, Identity and Thanksgiving (S3 | E143)

    Kids, Identity and Thanksgiving
    with Tessa and Amir
    (Season 3 | Episode 143)

    [TESSA] On the surface it is a joyous American celebration. Thanksgiving. Yet dangers lurk in this annual gathering of family around the table.

    Today we spend some time working through the relationships we have with our older children. When the ties are strained or even broken Thanksgiving can be a dark holiday. In our wonderfully open society, it could be that kids come out at Thanksgiving. Or we learn that they are exploring new sexual and relationship paths that we might not have anticipated. You cannot open a TikTok without seeing new self-expression that might be foreign to our 50+ Open Nesters. And that comes home this time of year.

    If you have stories that you want to share on this topic, continue the conversation by jumping on our private Facebook group. Or send me a note at [email protected].

    KIDS, IDENTITY, THANKSGIVING (S3 | E143)
    About Tessa

    Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

    Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster.

    Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

    Please email Tessa to make a connection. And visit her page here on the Open Nesters Website. If you like, please answer the question:

    What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

    • Adventure
    •  Freedom of Expression
    •  Exploration and Fun
    •  Body Movement
    •  New circles of friends
    •  Deep love relationships
    • 19 min
    • The Emotional Path with Dr. Dawson Church (S4 | E173)

      The Emotional Path
      MIND SPIRIT MEDITATE with Dr. Dawson Church
      (Season 4 | Episode 173)

      [Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we have an enlightening conversation with Dr. Dawson Church, a leading expert on the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and neuroscience. We delve into the rich themes surrounding the idea of open nesting, a mindset that encourages exploration and growth as we navigate what many refer to as the ’empty nest’ phase of life. Dr. Church introduces the concept of resilience, emphasizing how our later years can be filled with vitality, purpose, joy, and connection.

      Dr. Church begins by sharing insights from his extensive background, which includes growing up in diverse cultural settings and immersing himself in spiritual communities. This foundation paved the way for his interest in psychology, particularly his research into PTSD and elevated mental states. He highlights the unique brain structures that facilitate happiness and emotional well-being, explaining how meditation and other evidence-based practices can help individuals tap into their inherent capacity for joy.

      EPISODE TIME-CODE
      5:51 Personal Journey and Life Background
      8:48 Resilience Through Adversity
      13:57 Building Resilience and Meditation
      18:42 The Importance of Compassion
      22:21 Finding Your Own Meditation Style
      27:13 Exploring Brain Regions and Meditation
      30:59 Engaging with Passion and Intent

      We explore the rituals Dr. Church employs in his daily life, including meditation and movement practices, which not only enhance his mental state but also contribute to his overall resilience. He reflects on his personal challenges, including the devastating Tubbs Fire and its aftermath, illustrating the power of meditation and emotional training as tools for navigating adversity. These experiences inform his belief that while we cannot avoid suffering, we can cultivate resilience that enhances our ability to cope effectively.

      The discussion shifts towards practical strategies, as Dr. Church outlines the importance of establishing a baseline practice of meditation and a crisis intervention technique, such as acupressure, to regulate mental states. He passionately encourages listeners to embrace meditation as more than a fleeting state of relaxation, but as a way to fundamentally alter the structure and function of their brains for long-term well-being. He emphasizes that even a short daily commitment can lead to significant changes in happiness levels and emotional resilience.

      WRAPPING UP (THE EMOTIONAL PATH)

      Dr. Church also discusses the relevance of optimism in the aging process, citing research that suggests optimists live longer and achieve greater happiness. He provides a refreshing perspective on aging, drawing from studies of the so-called “blue zones,” locations known for their high populations of centenarians, where the inhabitants thrive in their later years. We examine how consistently choosing gratitude and compassion can enrich our lives as we transition into new stages and roles.

      Dr. Church acknowledges that meditation isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach, encouraging listeners to explore various styles that resonate with their individual preferences—be it movement, sound, or traditional sitting meditations. He shares heartfelt anecdotes about his own family’s dynamics and the challenges of supporting loved ones through difficult times, highlighting the delicate balance between offering help and allowing others the freedom to find their own paths.

      In wrapping up the episode, Dr. Church speaks about the exciting quest for understanding brain functionality related to emotional states and suffering. He invites listeners to embrace the notion that life remains full of possibilities, regardless of age, and emphasizes the transformative potential of mindful practices. Our conversation encapsulates the spirit of open nesting, inspiring the pursuit of a life that not only survives but thrives, filled with love, joy, and a commitment to self-discovery.

      Listeners are encouraged to explore Dr. Church’s work further, including his teachings at Omega Institute and other venues, as well as to engage with the resources he provides for cultivating resilience and well-being. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that we hold the keys to our happiness and can choose to fill our lives with joy, connection, and abundance at any stage.

      Resources for You

      We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

      Open Nesters Resource Page

      The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

      About Tessa

      Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

      Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

      Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

      Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

      What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

      • Adventure
      • Freedom of Expression
      • Exploration and Fun
      • Body Movement
      • New circles of friends
      • Deep love relationships
      • 34 min
      • Aging and Eroticism (S4 | E172)

        Aging and Eroticism
        with Anne More
        (Season 4 | Episode 172)

        [Tessa] In this episode, we engage with Anne More, a returning guest whose insights on aging and eroticism resonate deeply with our journey as open nesters. We explore the concept of “open nesting”—a vibrant approach to life after children have left home.

        This discussion is enriched by Anne’s expertise in boundaries, sensuality, and the celebration of aging. Our focus is not just on surviving this stage of life, but thriving by opening ourselves up to new possibilities in relationships, passions, and self-discovery

        We dive into the importance of celebrating our bodies as we age, acknowledging the physical changes that come with time. Anne shares her wisdom on shifting the conversation from self-judgment to acceptance, emphasizing the power of surrender in our journey of self-love. We reflect on how it can be challenging to embrace the changes our bodies undergo, particularly when influenced by societal standards and expectations regarding beauty and youth. Through compassionate dialogue, we explore how close interactions with nature can foster a sense of belonging and acceptance for our evolving selves.

        EPISODE TIME-CODE
        1:09 Embracing Aging with Anne More
        6:10 Celebrating Our Changing Bodies
        10:22 Nature’s Role in Acceptance
        14:20 Navigating Relationships in Aging
        18:48 Expanding Definitions of Sex
        21:26 The Art of Shibari
        27:56 Reflections on Aging and Gratitude

        Anne introduces practical exercises to expand our relationship with pleasure, urging listeners to engage in “solo pleasure” practices that prioritize self-exploration over performance. We discuss the transformative potential of mirror work, where we learn to appreciate our bodies as they are, redefining beauty through the lens of age and experience. This practice encourages us to find joy in the present moment, letting go of past comparisons and future anxieties.

        As we navigate the complexities of intimacy, Ann emphasizes the significance of communication and the erotic blueprints, which guide couples towards a deeper understanding of each other’s desires. Our conversation explores the dynamics of giving and receiving in relationships, highlighting the potential for empowering shifts, particularly in the context of evolving sexual landscapes as we grow older.

        WRAPPING UP (AGING AND EROTICISM)

        Furthermore, we explore the realm of kink and shibari, recognizing how these practices can cultivate trust and vulnerability within partnerships. Anne eloquently describes the healing aspects of being bound and the exploration of power dynamics, and how these experiences enable deeper connection and intimacy.

        Throughout our discussion, gratitude emerges as a central theme, a tool to reframe our perception of aging. We celebrate the wisdom that comes with experience and recognize the beauty of self-acceptance, finding appreciation in the journey rather than focusing on the limitations. Ann encourages us to lean into our vulnerabilities and to allow ourselves to receive support from others as we step into our roles as elders.

        Together, we acknowledge that aging is a dynamic process filled with uncertainty and joy. By reimagining our relationships and embracing the fullness of our identities, we can forge deeper connections with ourselves and one another. This episode serves as an invitation to every open nester out there to cultivate resilience, explore intimacy in new forms, and embrace the endless possibilities that lie ahead.

        Aging and Eroticism (S4 | E172)
        Resources for You

        We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

        Open Nesters Resource Page

        The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

        About Tessa

        Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

        Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

        Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

        Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

        What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

        • Adventure
        • Freedom of Expression
        • Exploration and Fun
        • Body Movement
        • New circles of friends
        • Deep love relationships
        • 36 min
        • Playing with the Unexpected with Laura & Izzy

          Playing with the Unexpected
          with Laura & Izzy
          (Season 4 | Episode 171)

          [Tessa] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast we’re playing with the unexpected!

          What a rich conversation with Laura and Izzy!! This is a dynamic couple who embody the evolving landscape of relationships after Laura’s children left the nest. The discussion dives deep into the challenges and triumphs of navigating life in Act 3, exploring themes of family obligations, autonomy, and the complexities of a non-traditional partnership.

          Laura, previously married with two grown children and grandchildren, reflects on her relationship with Izzy, whom she has been with for 16 years. Their journey has required patience and understanding, particularly as Laura managed her close ties to her family while Izzy approached life with different expectations rooted in his experience as a non-parent. We delve into the intricacies of cohabitation without marriage, highlighting how their relationship has thrived through clear communication and mutual respect despite their differing family circumstances.

          EPISODE TIME-CODE

          4:10 Navigating Family Dynamics

          8:45 Embracing Polyamory
          30:47 Lessons from Life and Improv
          34:46The Role of Trust in Relationships

          38:56 Wisdom of Experience

          Izzy Gesell, M.ED, CSP (Certified Speaking Professional)
          Organization Alchemist, Humorologist, Facilitator, Keynoter, Author

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          Izzy shares his perspective, illustrating the tension that can arise when balancing individual desires with the practicalities of shared life. The couple discusses how they created a shared entity in their relationship, recognizing that their individual needs sometimes conflict. They candidly address the challenges they faced and how they overcame them, culminating in their unique framework of coexistence that honors their individuality while allowing for shared dreams.

          A significant turning point in their relationship came when Laura embraced the idea of polyamory, which Izzy had been interested in exploring. The two recount their thoughtful journey towards opening up their relationship—how they set parameters, communicated openly about their feelings, and navigated jealousy. Laura recalls the growth in her understanding of Izzy’s needs, leading her to realize that his relationship with another partner could actually enhance her own experience.

          WRAPPING UP (PLAYING WITH THE UNEXPECTED)

          We also talk through the role of improvisation in their lives, exploring how the principles of applied improv can serve as a valuable tool for navigating uncertainty and change in relationships. Through playful interactions, we illustrate the essence of “yes, and” thinking—tapping into curiosity and openness instead of rigid expectations.

          This attitude has allowed Laura and Izzy to adapt to life’s unpredictable nature with humor, resilience, and authenticity.

          Playing with the Unexpected with Laura & Izzy
          Resources for You

          We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

          Open Nesters Resource Page

          The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

          About Tessa

          Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

          Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

          Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

          Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

          What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

          • Adventure
          • Freedom of Expression
          • Exploration and Fun
          • Body Movement
          • New circles of friends
          • Deep love relationships
          • 42 min
          • Your Pleasurespan

            Normalizing Sexuality, Aging and Menopause
            What is Your Pleasurespan?
            (Season 4 | Episode 170)

            [Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive deep into the vibrant world of open relationships with returning guests CJ, Linwood and their partner April. Our conversation explores the transformative experiences of modern relationships, particularly as they relate to the concept of “open nesting.” We are reminded that entering this new chapter of life offers not an end, but endless possibilities, exciting adventures, and rich connections.

            EPISODE TIME-CODE
            4:58 Building Trust in Relationships
            15:10 The Concept of Pleasure Span
            20:59 Prioritizing Health and Pleasure
            36:40 Breaking the Cycle of Shame
            47:59 Expanding Our Pleasure Span

            CJ shares her journey since last appearing on the podcast, highlighting how her relationship with Linwood has evolved over time. The introduction of April as a new partner brings forth a discussion about trust, connection, and the beauty of forming bonds that go beyond traditional norms. We explore how the trio navigates their relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding among all parties involved. The conversation invites listeners to rethink their approaches to intimacy and relationships, expanding their definitions beyond societal expectations.

            April provides insight into her experience as she integrates into an established partnership. She emphasizes the joy of meeting partners’ family members and the normalization of their unconventional relationship dynamic for their children. The significance of openness in their relationships also extends to how they discuss non-traditional lifestyles with their families. Through shared dinners and family gatherings, they illustrate how love can exist in myriad forms and how acceptance for these different dynamics is essential for modern families.

            Our talk also reveals the deeper implications of “aging” and its intersection with sexual vitality. CJ introduces a new concept she’s passionate about—“pleasure span.” This idea intertwines health and pleasure, advocating for the prioritization of well-being and sexual satisfaction as we age. She dives into discussions around menopausal hormone therapy, emphasizing that taking charge of one’s health and pleasure during this stage of life is crucial. Through practical advice, CJ encourages listeners to advocate for themselves in medical settings, breaking the stigmas surrounding women’s health issues.

            Moreover, CJ and April share their thoughts on remaining connected through intimacy—both emotional and physical. They discuss how the journey towards pleasure is not bound by age or physical capabilities, encouraging women to explore their desires without fear or shame. This episode highlights the importance of being open to new experiences, whether through relationships, kink, or simply through prioritizing one’s pleasure.

            The underlying theme of agency resonates throughout the conversation. As CJ eloquently puts it, understanding one’s own desires and advocating for them can transform the aging process into a period of exciting discovery rather than decline. This proactive approach encourages listeners to embrace their identities, fostering a culture of support among women navigating similar paths.

            WRAPPING UP

            As the episode wraps up, we reflect on the valuable lessons shared by CJ, Linwood, and April, leaving us with thoughts on how to amplify our own pleasure spans and connections in an ever-evolving landscape of relationships. The journey in open nesting is framed not just as a phase of life, but as an ongoing adventure rich with learning, growth, and unabashed joy. This conversation offers a refreshing perspective that challenges conventional narratives about aging and relationships, affirming that love and connection can flourish in diverse and thrilling ways.

            CJ/APRIL/LINDOOD ON INSTAGRAM

            Your Pleasurespan
            Resources for You

            We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

            Open Nesters Resource Page

            The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

            About Tessa

            Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

            Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

            Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

            Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

            What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

            • Adventure
            • Freedom of Expression
            • Exploration and Fun
            • Body Movement
            • New circles of friends
            • Deep love relationships
            • 53 min
            • Mission & Minimalism Finding Freedom & Meaningful Connections

              Finding Freedom & Meaningful Connections
              Mission & Minimalism in the Empty Nest with Cameron Syke
              (Season 4 | Episode 169)

              [Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, I sit down with Cameron Syke, a man whose journey through the complexities of relationships and personal growth perfectly embodies the spirit of the open nesting philosophy. We explore how this stage of life, often viewed through a lens of emptiness, can instead be a doorway to newfound adventures, friendships, and deeper life meanings. Cameron’s story is not only heartfelt; it holds valuable lessons about love, loss, and the courage to redefine oneself.

              EPISODE TIME-CODE
              1:59 Life After Loss
              4:17 Mission-Driven Work
              9:30 Expanding Circles of Family
              12:27 Finding Happiness in Freedom
              16:07 Connection Beyond Physicality
              22:33 Embracing Change in Life
              28:40 Reflections on Freedom and Living

              Cameron opens up about his life experiences, beginning with a poignant account of losing his first wife two decades ago in a tragic accident. This profound loss shaped him and his relationship with his children, who, now in their thirties, have developed into successful adults with families of their own. Cameron shares the delicate balance of navigating relationships with them, especially in light of his recent divorce from his second wife—a process that, despite its challenges, has been marked by mutual respect and a shared understanding.

              Diving into the open nesting concept, we discuss the importance of expanding one’s horizons at this stage in life. Cameron reflects on how online dating has allowed him to meet new people and forge friendships outside of his usual circles. We explore the broader implications of open nesting, spotlighting the joy of connecting with others who uplift and inspire us, regardless of traditional relationship definitions. Cameron’s openness to embracing different forms of love and friendship speaks volumes about his growth and adaptability.

              A significant focus of our discussion revolves around Cameron’s passion for philanthropy, particularly his work with the nonprofit Voice for Children International. He passionately articulates how the organization impacts thousands of impoverished children in Central America. This work ignites a sense of purpose in his life, reinforcing the notion of giving back while creating meaningful connections with diverse communities. The conversation takes a philosophical turn as we ponder the nature of love, compassion, and the potential for fulfilling relationships that encourage both independence and connection.

              As we explore Cameron’s transition from a successful career as a business lawyer to a life devoted to humanitarian efforts, he highlights the importance of nurturing the emotional and creative aspects of oneself. Our chat provides insights into how this pivot has enriched not only his life but also the lives of those he serves. We’re reminded that true happiness often resides in simplification—downsizing material possessions, embracing new experiences, and cultivating a life filled with love and laughter.

              Throughout the interview, Cameron emphasizes the power of companionship and community during the open-nesting phase. He calls for a shift in mindset—one that welcomes rather than shuns new relationships, making room for joy and excitement as we traverse this new chapter of life. The discussion concludes with a powerful reminder that our ability to embrace openness and love can lead to a more fulfilling and connected existence, encouraging listeners to seek out adventures and friendships that resonate deeply with them.

              With Cameron’s insights and stories serving as guideposts, we’re encouraged to unlock the possibilities that lay ahead when we allow ourselves to be truly open to new experiences and connections.

              Mission & Minimalism Finding Freedom & Meaningful Connections
              Resources for You

              We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

              Open Nesters Resource Page

              The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

              About Tessa

              Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

              Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

              Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

              Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

              What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

              • Adventure
              • Freedom of Expression
              • Exploration and Fun
              • Body Movement
              • New circles of friends
              • Deep love relationships
              • 31 min
              • Body Wisdom Aging Sex & Self with Suzanne Noble

                Body Wisdom Aging Sex & Self
                with Suzanne Noble
                (Season 4 | Episode 168)

                [Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we explore the transformative journey of embracing aging, sexuality, and new adventures with our guest, Suzanne Noble. Our conversation dives deep into the heart of what it means to be an “open nester,” a term that celebrates the possibilities that come with the children leaving home while rejecting the label of “empty nester.” I am thrilled to welcome Suzanne back as we discuss her insights on evolving relationships with passion and vitality in our later years. Body Wisdom Aging Sex & Self with Suzanne Noble

                EPISODE TIME-CODE
                5:13 The Reality of Aging and Sexuality
                8:12 Embracing Curiosity, Compassion, and Courage
                13:08 Expanding the Definition of Pleasure
                22:56 Finding New Identities as We Age
                27:25 Navigating Relationships in Later Life
                33:28 Evolving Desires and Acceptance

                Suzanne kicks off our discussion with an update on her life since we last connected, reflecting on the changes brought about by the pandemic and her foray into podcasting. Driven by a desire to create a space for conversations about sex and aging, she co-founded a podcast that has resonated deeply with audiences, particularly coinciding with the release of the film “Good Luck to You, Leo Grande.” This film opened the floodgates for discussions about older women’s sexual experiences, and Suzanne quickly found herself as a relatable voice amidst a burgeoning dialogue.

                As we engage, Suzanne shares her journey of navigating intimacy and connection in an evolving landscape of relationships. We discuss how her past open relationship inspired her to make sex and age a central theme of her podcast. The information she has gathered from experts sheds light on the challenges faced by older individuals regarding sex, dating, and relationships. From recognizing physical changes, such as vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction, to understanding the lack of reliable information available from medical professionals, this episode tackles vital topics that can often be overlooked.

                Notably, we talk about societal perceptions of aging and how they shape our identities. We dissect the stigma surrounding terms like “senior” and “menopause,” advocating for a more compassionate understanding of these phases of life. Suzanne articulates the importance of curiosity, compassion, and courage in exploring and enjoying our sexuality as we age. The nuanced conversation touches on reducing the focus on orgasm as the ultimate goal of sexual experiences, instead celebrating pleasure in all its forms.

                As the discussion deepens, we delve into the surprising discoveries that come from engaging with experts in the field. Suzanne highlights how many men and women aren’t aware of the available resources for maintaining sexual health and pleasure, thus emphasizing the need for open dialogue. The importance of communication within relationships is underscored, with both Suzanne and I stressing that it’s never too late to articulate desires and cultivate intimacy.

                Body Wisdom Aging Sex & Self with Suzanne Noble

                The episode also touches on body confidence—an important theme as we age. Through Suzanne’s experiences at a nude village in France, we explore the liberating nature of body positivity and acceptance. In such environments, individuals are reminded that everyone has their unique characteristics and imperfections, fostering a supportive atmosphere that can aid in reclaiming confidence.

                Throughout our conversation, Suzanne’s energy and candidness exemplify the essence of being open to new experiences and redefining our lives in later years. She shares how her children embrace her newfound voice, using her work as both an icebreaker in social situations and an educational resource.

                Suzanne Noble is the founder of The Advantages of Age and Startup School for Seniors and a highly successful podcast Sex Advice for Seniors.

                Resources for You

                We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

                Open Nesters Resource Page

                The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                About Tessa

                Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

                Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

                What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

                • Adventure
                • Freedom of Expression
                • Exploration and Fun
                • Body Movement
                • New circles of friends
                • Deep love relationships
                • 36 min
                • Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir

                  Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir
                  with Tessa & Amir
                  (Season 4 | Episode 167)

                  [Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we explore the concept of embracing an open life during our third act, challenging the traditional narrative of being an empty nester. Together, Amir and I delve into the thrilling possibilities of adventure, personal growth, and the deepening of relationships that come with this stage of life.

                  We discuss how redefining our identities can open our hearts and homes to new experiences, friendships, and even aspects of sensuality and spirituality previously unexplored.

                  EPISODE TIME-CODE
                  1:24 The Journey of Open Relationships
                  3:03 Insights on Authentic Self-Expression
                  6:35 Navigating Polyamory and Its Challenges
                  12:25 Understanding Kitchen Polyamory
                  15:02 The Importance of Communication
                  19:32 Embracing Our Evolving Journey

                  As we reflect on our journey, we recognize the profound lessons learned through our exploration of open relationships.

                  The ensuing conversation reveals how embracing vulnerability and authenticity paves the way for genuine connection—not only with partners but also with our adult children and friends. We share anecdotes about navigating the intricate dynamics of love, joy, and jealousy, particularly emphasizing the importance of communication as we continue to shape our connections.

                  Throughout the episode, we reference empowering insights from thought leaders like Jessica Fern, whose work on attachment theory has inspired us to rethink how we interact in relationships. The idea of “compersion,” which encourages us to find happiness in the joy of others, plays a central role in our discussion. We emphasize that by letting go of traditional expectations, we can cultivate deeper intimacy and fulfillment without placing undue pressure on ourselves or our partners.

                  We also introduce the concept of “kitchen poly,” highlighting how casual interactions and friendships within the polyamorous community can enhance our sense of belonging. Through shared experiences and gatherings, we learn to integrate these new connections into our lives without feeling threatened or insecure. This sense of community becomes a vital thread in our narrative, reinforcing the notion that love and friendship can transcend conventional boundaries.

                  We dive into our own experiences of intimacy and connection, discussing how our evolving understanding of love has led to a richer, more vibrant life. This includes recognizing that while relationships may change and adapt, the core essence of love—the desire to see and honor one another—remains steadfast. By sharing our stories, we aim to inspire listeners to embrace their current chapter with open hearts, welcoming new possibilities without judgment or fear.

                  Finally, we stress the importance of acknowledging personal needs while respecting the autonomy of others. In celebrating individual paths, we encourage a culture of generosity and support within partnerships. We acknowledge the complexities that accompany ethical non-monogamy and reiterate our commitment to maintaining clear communication and honesty in our relationships. Life is too short to let fear dictate our connections; we urge everyone to step into their authentic selves, liberating themselves from the confines of societal norms.

                  Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir
                  Resources for You

                  We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

                  Open Nesters Resource Page

                  The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                  About Tessa

                  Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                  Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                  Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

                  Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

                  What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

                  • Adventure
                  • Freedom of Expression
                  • Exploration and Fun
                  • Body Movement
                  • New circles of friends
                  • Deep love relationships
                  • 22 min
                  • A 30 Day Boyfriend, A Journey of Sobriety, and Beyond with Wanda and Christopher

                    A 30 Day Boyfriend, A Journey of Sobriety, and Beyond
                    with Wanda and Christopher
                    (Season 4 | Episode 166)

                    [Tessa]  In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, Wanda Webster and Christopher Mack share their journey and work in healing, recovery, and transformation.

                    Christopher discusses his 24 years of sobriety, starting in 2000, and the impact of trauma on addiction. He delves into his unique approach to healing and energy work, showcasing his ability to help others overcome challenges and achieve significant transformations. Wanda emphasizes the importance of inner exploration and discovering one’s gifts and abilities by releasing inner barriers.

                    EPISODE TIME-CODE
                    4:02 Christopher’s Journey to Sobriety
                    9:57 Understanding the Merkaba and Light Body
                    14:32 The Strength of Wanda Webster
                    19:50 The Five C’s of Healthy Relationship
                    23:54 Taking Responsibility and Honesty in Relationships
                    27:24 Impactful Stories of Transformation
                    34:22 Discovering Gifts Through Overcoming Obstacles

                    The couple highlights the significance of commitment, communication, cooperation, consideration, and compromise in relationships, sharing insights on how to navigate challenges and foster growth. They recount impactful experiences with clients and groups, including a story of transformation and empowerment through their work with trauma and energy alignment. Their approach combines psychological principles, energy work, and spiritual development to guide individuals through healing and self-discovery.

                    The conversation explores themes of resilience, personal growth, and finding strength in vulnerability. Christopher and Wanda offer valuable advice for individuals going through life transitions, emphasizing the power of inner work, self-reflection, and embracing change. They encourage listeners to explore their inner selves, identify their strengths, and cultivate meaningful connections to lead fulfilling lives. As advocates for holistic well-being and personal transformation, Wanda and Christopher provide a beacon of hope and inspiration for open nesters navigating new chapters in their lives.

                    A 30 Day Boyfriend, A Journey of Sobriety, and Beyond with Wanda and Christopher
                    Dynamics of RecoveryWanda Webster Books
                    Resources for You

                    We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

                    Open Nesters Resource Page

                    The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                    About Tessa

                    Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                    Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                    Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

                    Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

                    What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

                    • Adventure
                    • Freedom of Expression
                    • Exploration and Fun
                    • Body Movement
                    • New circles of friends
                    • Deep love relationships
                    • 38 min
                    • Fearless in Bali: A Single Mom’s Journey (S4 | E165)

                      Fearless in Bali: A Single Mom’s Journey
                      with Jessica Seiders
                      (Season 4 | Episode 165)

                      [Tessa] Join us as we dive into the inspiring journey of Jessica Seiders on The Open Nesters Podcast.

                      Jessica shares her transformation from an empty nester to an open nester, embracing new adventures, relationships, and passions. After feeling lost and disconnected upon her daughter leaving for college, Jessica decided to take a leap of faith. She sold her belongings, quit her job, and embarked on a solo journey to find herself.

                      EPISODE TIME-CODE
                      • 1:15 Jessica Siders’ Journey to Open Nesting
                      • 11:18 Finding Healing and Transformation in Bali
                      • 15:47 The Journey of Growing Independently within Relationships
                      • 21:55 Embracing Fearlessness and Taking Action
                      • 25:15 Embracing Openness and Growth in the Open Nesting Stage
                      • 30:50 Stretching Beyond the Safety Zone
                      • Traveling through Europe and Southeast Asia, Jessica found healing and purpose. She immersed herself in different cultures, taking risks, and stepping outside her comfort zone. By embracing uncertainty and letting go of plans, Jessica discovered a new sense of freedom and growth. Her 15-month stay in Bali brought her peace, community, and a deeper connection to herself.

                        Returning to the U.S., Jessica established a vibrant community for moms of adult children in San Diego, creating a space for connection and growth. Despite her past as a teen mom and single parent, Jessica found strength and independence in her journey. She encourages others to step outside their comfort zones, embrace new opportunities, and take action to change their lives.

                        Jessica’s story serves as a reminder of the power of resilience, self-discovery, and community. Her openness to new experiences, willingness to challenge herself, and commitment to personal growth inspire others to seek their own path to fulfillment and joy.
                        ABOUT JESSICA
                        ABOUT JESSICA
                        Founder of San Diego – Moms of Adult Children

                        Jessica Seiders embarked on a transformative journey after her daughter left for college. Confronted with the challenges of empty nest syndrome, she refused to let it define her. Taking bold action, Jessica sold her belongings, quit her job, and set off on a two-year adventure to explore the world.

                        During her travels, Jessica became a master certified life coach. Her experiences and encounters inspired her to launch a program called “Strong Mom to Fearless Female.” This initiative aimed to empower and support mothers who, like her, were navigating the transition to an empty nest. Through workshops, coaching, and shared stories, Jessica helped these women embrace their newfound independence and discover their own strength.

                        Now residing in sunny San Diego, Jessica’s passion for fostering community led her to create a Facebook group called “San Diego – Moms of Adult Children.” All united by their shared journey through their grown children, together, they have organized many successful events, fostering connections, and providing a support network for mothers in similar circumstances.

                        Jessica continues to uplift and empower women, proving that life doesn’t end after 40 — It’s an opportunity for new beginnings.

                        Resources for You

                        We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:

                        Open Nesters Resource Page

                        The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                        About Tessa

                        Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                        Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                        Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

                        Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

                        What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

                        • Adventure
                        • Freedom of Expression
                        • Exploration and Fun
                        • Body Movement
                        • New circles of friends
                        • Deep love relationships
                        • 34 min

                        About The Open Nesters

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