The Overshare

By Kat Wallace Knowles, Babs Wallace Drummond, Aimee Berniard

For breast cancer curious fam, this is a *fun cancer* podcast and unfiltered chat with friends who aren't doctors. The Overshare (formerly My Breasties) is where sisters Kat and Babs plus bestie Aimee... more

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The podcast currently has 10 episodes available.

The Overshare episodes:

September 06, 2025 29-Back to Can't Trust a Fart, on the Overshare (formerly My Breasties)
💸 Kat, Babs, and Aimee catch up on everything from new stage 4 breast cancer chemo plans with Enhertu and financial sticker shock to budgeting apps, ASL classes, and why the golden rule is still: never trust a fart.
🍊Chapters
00:00 Good morning + Friday vibes
02:40 Babs’ new chemo plan
06:30 Side effects + cutting hair short
07:30 Nutrition class + sugar myths
12:00 Insurance paperwork + mail pileup
13:00 Launching @stage4_stickershock on IG
14:20 Manual spreadsheets vs. finance apps
16:30 Aimee’s Monarch Money rave #notsponsored
18:30 Kat’s Max Rewards trial #notsponsored
20:30 Credit Karma shoutout #notsponsored
23:00 The $7K scan + credit card points
27:00 Hidden costs: vitamins, supplements, travel
29:00 Acupuncture + insurance coverage
30:30 Med chart madness + injections
33:30 GI roulette
38:00 Packing the chemo bag
43:00 Kat’s ASL class plans
47:00 Aimee’s family story + weekend plan
52:00 Wrap up: gratitude + hug your people
👀 Also on YouTube
🤓 Brands / Tools Mentioned #notsponsored
Easterseals' Know the Facts campaign merch (Bonfire) https://tr.ee/DZ95wh
Harvest (time tracker)
Monarch Money (budgeting app)
Max Rewards (credit card app) - for 50% off https://tr.ee/FgnNq9
Credit Karma (credit tracking)
Love Island (TV show)
Rocky Mountain Deaf School (ASL classes)
Lingvano app (ASL learning)
Life with Cancer Nutrition Minute-ON SUGAR (info) https://tr.ee/U5PVeD
🚨New name alert! We’re slowly going from “My Breasties” to “the Overshare.” New name, still an unfiltered chat with friends who aren’t doctors.
♥️Autism content I like that I forgot to link in the last episode oopsies! Check out:
Trevor Carroll - https://tr.ee/SqADkD
I'm Autistic, Now What? - https://tr.ee/L31B5e
♥️♥️Check out the Overshare merch on Bonfire: 10% of proceeds go directly to LBBC. All other proceeds go to support Babs with whatever she needs. https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-overshare-podcast/
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54min
August 22, 2025 28-Ya Girl's Autistic
🍊Babs had surgery 3 weeks ago! What is time these days🍊The clinical trial process can be complicated and slow.🍊Babs is starting a new chemotherapy pill that sounds like "Cape Cytobine." 🍊Exploring autism has opened new understandings for Kat. 🍊Aimee drops some knowledge on emotional awareness.🍊All POVs are always personal. 🚨New name alert! We’re slowly moving from “My Breasties” to “the Overshare.” New name, still an unfiltered chat with friends who aren’t doctors. 🎙Catch past episodes of My Breasties on Spotify: https://tr.ee/6V6UHU 🎧Our Spotify playlist: https://tr.ee/TAf0Kn ✨Want to send Babs some love for food and other comforts? The meal train isn't working out for this purpose, but you can find her on Venmo: @BabsWallace♥️So much love goes out to all our friends and family for your continued support. You mean the world to us. xo 00:00 Introduction and Tech Glitches (Yet Again!) 01:51 Babs' Surgery Update05:39 Clinical Trial Antics09:34 New Medication and Potential Side Effects13:31 Self-Care, Babyyyy17:23 What is this "Autism"22:18 Understanding and Self-Discovery25:28 Occupational Therapy29:08 ADHD and Making Straight As33:56 Neurodivergence Angels38:33 Challenging Stereotypes and Misconceptions42:11 Emotional Awareness and Self-Reflection + some ASL
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August 11, 2025 27-Past Your Eyes
🚨New name alert! We’re slowly moving from “My Breasties” to “the Overshare.” New name, still an unfiltered chat with friends who aren’t doctors.
🎙Catch past episodes of My Breasties on Spotify
🎧Our Spotify playlist: https://tr.ee/TAf0Kn
✨Want to send Babs some love for food and other comforts? The meal train isn't working out for this purpose, but you can find her on Venmo: @BabsWallace
♥️So much love goes out to all our friends and family for your continued support. You mean the world to us. xo

We missed you, sweet cheese! 🍊Kat, Babs, and Aimee catch up after a 2-year hiatus.
🍊They navigate through tech issues, unexpected medical updates, and the strength found in community.
🍊Babs shares her experiences with stage 4 breast cancer, including a recent diagnosis of metastatic spread, upcoming surgery, and joining a clinical trial.
🍊Reflecting on her advocacy work and community support, they also touch on her latest travels and learning incredibly specific American Sign Language (ASL) signs.
🍊This is one intimate yet unsentimental chat.00:00 Technical Difficulties and Introductions
04:06 Welcome to the Webinar
06:38 Catching Up After Two Years
08:25 Health Updates and Advocacy
32:56 Travel and Personal Milestones
35:45 Surgery and Medical Procedures
41:15 Unexpected Surgery Plans
42:04 Cancer Progression and New Tumors
43:50 Clinical Trial Details
48:46 Emotional Support and Community
01:02:50 Social Media and Personal Connections
01:10:03 Learning Sign Language and Fun Facts
01:18:16 Concluding Thoughts and Farewells
#notsponsored Careless People, A Cautionary Tale of Power, Greed, and Lost Idealism by Sarah Wynn Williams
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1h 20min
July 13, 202326-Like A Freshly-Washed Cow
Hello and welcome, breast cancer curious fam! Kat, Aimee, and Babs recorded this episode on July 6, 2023 with Aimee’s sister, Carley. If you're new here, welcome. This is a podcast about two sisters who are now breast cancer survivors, Kat and Babs, as they talk about our experience since their diagnosis.
If you’re here and you know Kat and Babs in real life, know that your support still means the world to them. Thanks for showing up. Because life doesn’t just go back to what life once was before cancer.
As a disclaimer, this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be taken as medical advice. Always seek the guidance of qualified professionals.

If you get nothing else from this episode:
Remember you are worth every bit of quality care and deserve to ask every question of your care team.

Celebrate those milestones!

If you’re having trouble with insurance, talk about your options with your medical care team AND your HR team if applicable.

In this conversation:
B has so many updates to tell the good people, including six ways to life-saving medical care, DIEP flap, insurance trash, and non-cancer things

B and Kat talk all about Camp Breastie

#Scandoval, Real Housewives, and all that good content

My Breasties Podcast Tracks: Full Playlist

References: How Cigna Saves Millions by Having Its Doctors Reject Claims Without Reading Them; The Breasties; Camp Breastie; Resensation; Natera’s Signatera testing; Dena Goldberg

Honorable mentions: capsular contracture, DIEP flap surgery and the DIEP flap coding crisis, nail art, depression, #notsponsored Estranghero Ceramics, Elysian Wellness
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1h 11min
February 28, 2023 Five Ways Podcasting About Cancer Relates to My Everyday Life Beyond Cancer
Content advisory: I share about breast cancer and my personal experience, which some people may find distressing.
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7min
February 27, 202325-Staying Alive, Just Not With Tea
25-Staying Alive, Just Not With Tea
Hello and welcome, breast cancer curious fam! Kat, Aimee and Babs recorded this episode on January 23, 2023. Your love and support mean the world to us. Thank you!
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always seek the guidance of qualified health professionals. Please and thank you!
If you get nothing else from this episode:
Check with your cancer care team before taking supplements or drinking teas to ensure these substances don’t counteract your medicines.

Celebrate those milestones!
In this conversation:
We’re applauding Babs’ last day of radiation

Kat does a deep dive into her naturopathic journey

Babs weighs another mastectomy

Aimee comes through with the good content
My Breasties Podcast Tracks: Full Playlist
References: Girls Night In newsletter, Salad Freak, Whole Foods cookbook
Honorable mentions: DIEP flap surgery, Philip, MyChart
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56min
December 30, 202224-You Can't Wear Jeans Here
Episode 24-You Can’t Wear Jeans Here
Hello and welcome, breast cancer curious fam! Kat, Aimee and Babs recorded this episode on December 19, 2022. Your love and support mean the world to us. Thank you!
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always seek the guidance of qualified health professionals. Please and thank you!
If you get nothing else from this episode:
Check the References below for websites and resources that we mention in this episode.

Request a bone scan to benchmark and check your bone density, especially if you’re going through chemo and any hormonal treatments.

If you’re interested in incorporating natural medicine with more traditional medicine as part of your overall care, a naturopathic doctor could be an option to research. Naturopathic doctors are accredited and go through rigorous training, and you can check your state government website for licensing. Your insurance may cover naturopathic medicine, or you can also ask your provider if they offer a sliding scale as a payment option.

Try to remember your why and your motivating factors when starting something new, and be gentle with yourself.
In this conversation:
Aimee sits in the dark as she talks about Excel TikTok, reviews math with Kat and reminisces about eating dough as a child

Babs is a new tita (Yay! Congratulations, Sweet Cheese B-bestie!)

Mentioning that you have cancer only once while attending a holiday party

Babs is 45% done with radiation and she’s feeling way happier these days

Aromatase inhibitors, tamoxifen, fatigue

Answering the questions, “What is exercise?” and “Are you ready for the holiday?”

Growing hair back like a calico cat and babies born with tons of hair

Naturopathic doctors, testing, and an upcoming New Year cleanse for Kat

Radiation treatment soundtracks and Spotify wrapped
My Breasties Podcast Tracks: Full Playlist
References: Parents Share Pics of Babies Born with Full Heads of Hair (Bored Panda); 10 Common Myths About Naturopaths (AANMC.org); Hormonal Therapy (BreastCancer.org); Eat Clean, Play Dirty book; Eric Kim, Korean American
Honorable mentions: limb alert bracelets, Excel and pivot tables, public libraries, Eric Kim gochujang cookies; #notsponsored TinyBeans, Elysian Wellness, Sakara, BetterUp, Spotify, Nike Training Club
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1h 4min
December 30, 202223-A Whole New Worry Unlocked
Episode 23-A Whole New Worry Unlocked
Hello and welcome, breast cancer curious fam! Kat, Aimee and Babs recorded this episode on November 4, 2022. Your love and support mean the world to us. Thank you!
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always seek the guidance of qualified health professionals. Please and thank you!
If you get nothing else from this episode:
When you’re on medications and going through treatment, be sure to up your intake of water and fibrous foods to help facilitate smooth moves

Always take the laxative if you’re offered one while in the hospital
In this conversation:
Babs, Aimee and Kat talk about constipation as a side effect of breast cancer treatment, how everything goes back to GI health, and the horror of taking a BM in public restrooms or under pressure in your own home

Kat reveals a cardinal rule to relieving your constipation and a fun fact

Babs talks about her appointments with her medical oncologist, bone health, preparation for radiation, and mediport removal

They also cover the unleashing the rage of eyebrows gone wrong, the cries of foxes and peacocks, and not the movie with Channing Tatum
My Breasties Podcast Tracks: Full Playlist
Honorable mentions: #notsponsored Gatorade, Squatty Potty, GoodBelly, AFV, Cameo
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53min
October 31, 202222-Click, Click, They're Removing Your Hooves?
Episode 22-Click, Click, They’re Removing Your Hooves?
Hello and welcome, breast cancer curious fam! Kat, Aimee and Babs recorded this episode on October 20, 2022. Your love and support mean the world to us. Thank you!
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always seek the guidance of qualified health professionals. Please and thank you!
If you get nothing else from this episode:
Check the References below for websites and resources that we mention in this episode.

Breast cancer awareness isn’t enough. Research and community are critically important, as are monthly self-checks at home.

If you feel like something is wrong, please be encouraged to be persistent and insist on your care, and do what you can - or get someone to help you - to advocate for your needs.

Adolescents and Young Adults (AYA) are more likely to receive a later diagnosis or misdiagnosis, they can experience higher mortality rates because their cancers are generally more aggressive, and they often have to navigate medical bias as a younger person. Breast cancer accounts for 30% of cancers among AYA women, and AYA breast cancer earlier differs biologically from cancer at an older age.
In this conversation:
Babs and Kat talk about their latest from breast cancer appointments, and chat with Aimee about feeling anxious, menopausal acne, hot flashes, metastatic breast cancer and Babs’ recent radio show fundraiser to support The Breasties and Breast Cancer Research Fund.

Babs drops a lot of knowledge, they can’t pronounce anything and Kat types loudly.

Aimee deep dives into the world’s glitter shortage and conspiracy.
My Breasties Podcast Tracks: Full Playlist
References: https://metavivor.org/, BreastCancer.org, Myths and Misconceptions About Metastatic Breast Cancer, https://www.stopbreastcancer.org/, Congress.gov, Metastatic Breast Cancer Access to Care Act
The Breasties is an all inclusive nonprofit org that creates community for survivors, previvors, thrivers, and caregivers impacted by breast and gynecologic cancers. Breast Cancer Research Fund is the largest private funder of early stage and stage four breast cancer research worldwide and the highest rated breast cancer org in the United States.
Honorable mentions: Health insurance, mattress cooling systems, bamboo sheets, #notsponsored Mark Cuban and Cost Plus Drug Company, Brooklyn Brewery Non-Alcoholic Pilsner
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1h 10min
October 10, 202221-We're Not Going Back to Karate
Hello and welcome, breast cancer curious fam! Kat, Aimee and Babs recorded this episode on October 3, 2022. Your love and support mean the world to us. Thank you!
If you get nothing else from this episode:
Please report to your medical team anything that feels out of the ordinary when you’re going through active treatment - they’re here to care for you.

If you feel like something is wrong, please be encouraged to be persistent and insist on your care, and do what you can - or get someone to help you - to advocate for your needs.

Don’t wax your face before a work meeting.

Regular follow ups and screenings will help monitor for breast cancer recurrence and you can detect way more with an MRI.
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always seek the guidance of qualified health professionals. Please and thank you!
In this conversation:
We're thrown off by talking to each other with video on during an audio-only podcast.

Babs gives us the details about her latest in allergy testing protocols for her breast cancer treatment drugs, what's next for chemo (Adriamycin and Cytoxin), and hair loss.

Kat can’t remember to take her pills but can remember Cynthia from Rugrats, has a routine bilateral mammogram and talks about the oddities of post-radiation muscle pulling.

Aimee entertains us with her adorable dog and shares embarrassing stories.
My Breasties Podcast Tracks: Full Playlist
References: Dax Shepard, Armchair Anonymous, Pooped on a Date; BreastCancer.org, Adding MRI or Ultrasound to Mammograms Improves Detection of New Cancers After Lumpectomy for Younger Women; Mayo Clinic, basal temps
Honorable mentions: Nick Kroll, Clorox wipes, mango popsicles, Riverside.fm, mathematicians
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49min

FAQs about The Overshare:

How many episodes does The Overshare have?

The podcast currently has 10 episodes available.