The Parallel Lines Podcast

The Parallel Lines Podcast

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The Parallel Lines Podcast episodes

  • The Truth About Post-Separation Anxiety in Your Children

    Separation anxiety isn’t just something babies go through when they move into their own bed or a Toddler crying at Nursery drop-off— it’s something so many of our children experience during and after divorce… and barely anyone talks about it.

    In this episode, we’re unpacking what separation anxiety really looks like in children when they’re forced to say goodbye to their safe parent — even temporarily. From clinginess and meltdowns to regression and tummy aches, we dive into the signs, the root causes, and most importantly… how you can support your child through it with compassion and confidence.

    If handovers leave your child in tears — or if reunions are full of emotional chaos — this episode will help you feel less alone and more empowered to be their calm in the storm.

    You’ll learn:

    • What separation anxiety really is (and what it’s not)

    • Why divorce triggers it so strongly in children

    • 5 practical ways to help your child feel safe and secure — even when you’re apart

    • What not to say or do, even with the best intentions

    This is for every mama who’s ever cried in the car after drop-off. You’re not failing — you’re their anchor. Let’s talk about it....

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    23 min
  • WINNING IN COURT: How to Confidently Face Your Toxic Co-Parent

    Walking into a courtroom against a toxic co-parent can feel like stepping onto a battlefield—especially when they twist the truth, play the victim, or try to intimidate you. But here’s the thing, mama: you are NOT powerless. FAR FROM IT!

    In this episode, we’re diving deep into how to confidently represent yourself in court, stand your ground, and shut down the manipulation tactics before they even start. You’ll learn exactly how to prepare, what to say (and not say), and how to keep your emotions in check when the pressure is high.

    The courtroom can feel overwhelming but with the right mindset and strategy? You really can take your power back!

    18 min
  • Unbreakable Boundaries

    Boundaries That Protect Your Peace (and Sanity!)

    Ever feel like your co-parent is constantly pushing past your limits, making you second-guess yourself? Setting boundaries as a single mama isn’t just important—it’s CRUCIAL for your peace, your confidence, and your child’s well-being. In this episode, we’re diving into how to create strong, unshakable boundaries that keep you in control, protect your energy, and stop the drama in its tracks. You don’t have to explain, overextend, or justify—boundaries are your right. Let’s talk about how to hold them without guilt.

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    13 min
  • Twisted Truths - When They Accuse YOU of what THEY'RE Doing.

    Flipping the Script on Parental Alienation Accusations

    Feeling blindsided by false accusations of parental alienation when, in reality, you’re the one fighting to protect your child? You’re not alone, mama. In this episode, we’re exposing the truth behind these twisted accusations, breaking down the gaslighting tactics, and helping you stay strong, confident, and emotionally bulletproof. Because you deserve peace, and your child deserves the real story. 💪❤️

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    16 min
  • Breaking The News Without Breaking Their Hearts

    Are you struggling to find the right words to explain your separation to your kids? In this episode, we break down exactly how to have this tough conversation in a way that feels honest, calm, and reassuring.


    It’s not just about what you say—it’s about how you say it. You’ll learn:

    • The biggest mistakes to avoid when talking about the separation.

    • How to respond to tough questions with confidence.

    • What your kids really need to hear to feel safe and loved.


    This is a conversation every single mom needs to master, but it doesn’t have to stop here. If you’re ready to dig deeper and build the tools to become the safe, steady parent your kids need, check out my Single Mama Academy and be sure to join me Jan 28th for me FREE 4-Day Masterclass, BULLETPROOF!

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    27 min
  • Breaking the Cycle: Protecting Your Child’s Heart from Parental Conflict

    As a Single Mama, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the challenges of co-parenting, especially when a toxic dynamic exists.

    In this episode, we dive into one of the most critical roles you play as a parent: ensuring your child doesn’t inherit the negativity or resentment you may feel toward their other parent.

    By the end of this episode you'll learn practical strategies for fostering emotional safety, modeling grace and resilience, and protecting your child’s ability to love freely without carrying the burdens that aren’t theirs.

    Tune in for these empowering tips, heartfelt insights, and a reminder that you have the power to rewrite the story for your family.

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    12 min
  • Boundaries & Backlash

    Setting boundaries with a toxic co-parent can feel empowering—until the flood of angry texts, guilt-tripping emails, and manipulative tactics begins.

    In this episode, we’re diving into why toxic people lash out when you enforce boundaries, how to recognise common manipulation tactics like DARVO and the best strategies to protect your peace while sticking to your limits.

    You’ll learn practical tools like The Grey Rock Method for responding calmly and effectively, how to avoid taking the bait, and ways to stay grounded when the chaos escalates. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting apps or ignoring their drama altogether, this episode is your guide to reclaiming control and maintaining your sanity.

    If you’re ready to break free from their noise, create boundaries and hold strong to those boundaries, this one’s for you!

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    19 min
  • When Emotions Run High: Your Guide to Staying Grounded

    Let’s face it: parenting as a Single Mama can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. Some days, it’s all smiles and hugs. Other days? It’s tears, tantrums, and total overwhelm—for both you and your Children!

    In this week’s episode, we’re diving into how to navigate those moments when emotions run high. You’ll learn:

    • Simple strategies to regulate your own feelings (even on the hardest days).

    • How to help your kids understand and manage their big emotions.

    • The secret to staying grounded so you can lead your family with calm and confidence.

    This isn’t about being a perfect parent (who has time for that!?). It’s about showing up, taking control, and turning those chaotic moments into opportunities for growth and connection.

    So if you're ready to transform emotional turbulence into peace? Listen now and take the first step toward a calmer, more connected family life.

    Make sure to forward this email to another Mama who could use a little bit of extra support through the storm—she’ll thank you for it!

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                20 min
              • When They're Away

                I see you—the way you hold it together as your little one heads off to spend time with their other parent. The way the door closes, and the silence feels almost unbearable.

                 

                This isn’t the life you planned for, is it? You never wanted this. And yet, here you are, doing your absolute best to navigate a situation you didn’t choose and that shit needs acknowledging!!!

                 

                In this week’s episode of The Single Mama Club Podcast, we’re diving into the heartache of separation in co-parenting—the sadness, the longing, and the raw reality of being apart from your child.

                 

                We’ll talk about:
                • How to acknowledge the pain without letting it overwhelm you.
                • Simple rituals to process those heavy emotions and stay connected with your child, even when they’re not with you.
                • The importance of nurturing yourself during the time apart—without guilt.
                • And how to heal the grief of the life you once imagined, so you can write a new story of resilience and joy.

                 

                This episode is a reminder that you’re not alone in these feelings. It’s okay to feel the ache, to long for your child, and to grieve what you thought life would look like. But it’s also an invitation to find healing and strength, even in the midst of the heartache.


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                              15 min
                            • Thriving Despite a Narcissist Ex: Co-Parenting Strategies That Work

                              Co-parenting with a narcissist can feel overwhelming—like you’re always walking on eggshells or trapped in their mind games. But you don’t have to live that way.


                              In this episode, I’m sharing real-world strategies to help you navigate the chaos, set firm boundaries, and protect your energy. Whether you’re dealing with manipulation, blame, or constant drama, these tips will help you stay strong and focus on what matters most—your peace and your kids.


                              🎧 Tune in now and discover how to thrive despite a narcissist ex.


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                                        About The Parallel Lines Podcast

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                                        A Newly Rebranded Podcast bringing you, Real talk, tools, support and strategies on High-Conflict Co-Parenting & Post Separation Abuse