The Partnership Podcast

Do you ever want your partner to be your perfect parent? In this revealing episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive into household responsibilities, exploring how childhood roles and unmet needs shape their relationship today. Trey opens up about his frustrations with household chores and how deep-seated resentments impact their partnership. Together, they unpack themes of projection, shadow work, and the desire for a partner to act as a "perfect parent." Join them as they work through real-time challenges and create a plan to reframe their daily dynamics with more understanding and compassion. Perfect for couples navigating shared responsibilities!

If you would like to work on shared responsibilities in partnership, click here: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/email⁠

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

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SPECIAL AUDIO-ONLY VACATION EPISODE - Your Questions Answered | Partnership Podcast Ep. 91

If you would like to work with someone to craft your ideal partnered vacation, go to: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

Join Lauren and Trey on this special vacation episode of The Partnership Podcast! This audio only episode was recorded in the Dominican Republic! Tune in as they dive into your questions, sharing insights on how they’ve worked to heal the wounds inflicted on their trip last year and open up about the journey over the past 12 months. Expect real conversations, heartfelt reflections, and some lighthearted moments along the way. Grab a seat, relax, and enjoy this intimate look into Lauren and Trey’s relationship as they celebrate and reflect.

About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/email⁠

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

#ThePartnershipPodcast #RelationshipHealing #QandAPodcast #AnniversaryEpisode #CouplesJourney #RelationshipAdvice #HealingTogether #VacationVibes #PodcastLife #LoveAndGrowth #EmotionalWellbeing #RelationshipPodcast #PersonalGrowth #MarriageJourney #IntimateConversations #RelationshipGoals

What Does It Really Mean to Love Someone? Reclaiming a Vacation Gone Wrong & Building Resiliency | Partnership Podcast Ep. 90

If you would like to work with someone to craft your ideal partnered vacation, go to: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

In Episode 90 of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive deep into reclaiming their "Vacation Gone Wrong" from last year. Kicking off with a powerful quote from Lauren's professor and colleague, Dené Logan, “We have been conditioned to believe that love means 'I keep people comfortable at all costs.' That is not love. That is attachment. A lot of times, what we are calling love is not actually loving people! It’s just us attempting to maintain attachments at all costs.” — they reflect on the difference between true love and the need to maintain comfort at all costs. Trey shares how he was stuck in this mindset before their anniversary trip last year, and they open up about how they plan to honor the places where pain occurred.

As they prepare to revisit the same vacation spot, Lauren reveals her practice of rest and their mutual intention to make this vacation their best yet—with a focus on play, pleasure, and resiliency check-ins. Lauren also shares her free worksheet at 16:25 to help listeners take responsibility for their feelings on vacation, while Trey reflects on how last year’s disaster led them to prioritize communication and comfort.

Don't miss the funny, heartfelt, and vulnerable moments, like when Trey talks about the vacation's tragic moments (minute 18:40) and their negotiation of vacation mornings for solo journaling and intimate time (minute 35:16). Get inspired with their tips to make this year’s vacation 10% cozier and check out the exclusive discounts mentioned throughout!

Download Lauren's worksheet: https://sexedforyou.com/shop/p/responsibility-for-feelings-on-vacation-worksheet

Try NUULY rentals with Lauren’s code: https://share.nuuly.com/laurenelise

Watch their first "Vacation Gone Wrong" episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5TlMEuMrXmnZeto43NSCG6?si=b658181d382d4c6b

About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/email⁠

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love:

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

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Can a Married Man Have Female Friends? | Navigating Boundaries & Uncomfortable Conversations

Learn more about supporting your partner's relationships: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

In episode 89 of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey tackle the hot topic: Can a married man have female friends? They share their personal experience supporting each other's friendships with the opposite sex, while navigating trust, boundaries, and potential feelings of jealousy. Plus, they open up about Trey's 40th birthday, and how an ill-timed conversation led to ongoing discussions. Tune in for insights on friendship, managing jealousy, and working through tough moments in marriage.

Do you get jealous of your partner’s friends? Let us know in the comments section below.

About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/email⁠

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

#MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #OppositeSexFriendships #HealthyBoundaries #MarriageAndJealousy #ManagingJealousy #TrustInRelationships #NavigatingMarriage #ThePartnershipPodcast #LaurenAndTrey #FriendshipAndMarriage #CouplesPodcast #PodcastLife

How to Set Emotional Boundaries in Relationships | The Partnership Podcast Ep. 88

Learn more about setting emotional boundaries in relationships: ⁠⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

In episode 88 of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey explore how a partner's emotions can impact our well-being. They dive into Dr. Betty Martin’s concept of domains—"all the things we have a right to and responsibility for"—and Robyn Dalzen's insight that "every aspect of human relationship is a negotiation of the third domain, the space between us." Learn practical and kind ways to set boundaries with those you love. Lauren and Trey share personal stories of moments when they crossed into each other's domain and how they worked through it.

Do your partner’s emotions overwhelm you? Let us know in the comments section below.

About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and curricula to individuals, couples, parents, and organizations.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (World Health Organization) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/email⁠

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Intimacy Coach.

#RelationshipAdvice #SettingBoundaries #EmotionalHealth #RelationshipCommunication #BoundariesInRelationships #SelfCare #EmotionalWellBeing #CouplesTherapy #HealthyRelationships #PersonalBoundaries #EmotionalSupport #ConsentInRelationships #DrBettyMartin #RobynDalzen #TheWheelOfConsent

The Wheel of Consent Explained: Lauren & Trey’s 'Like a Pro' Training Review | The Partnership Podcast Ep. 87

LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. BETTY MARTIN’S WHEEL OF CONSENT: ⁠https://www.schoolofconsent.org

In this special episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey share their transformative experience after completing Dr. Betty Martin’s "Like a Pro" training on The Wheel of Consent. They rave about their incredible instructors, Carmen and Robyn, and dive deep into the exercises that resonated most with them—like the powerful "Listening Turn" which they practice on camera. Trey opens up about his decision to extend provisional trust on day one, while Lauren reflects on her favorite takeaways; including the difference between touch and sex and how watching Trey be "gifted" touch by other women moved her deeply. Trey also reveals his crush on Robyn after she helped him through an exercise, and Lauren shares how this training was a healing balm for her nervous system after a traumatic tantra event earlier this year. Don't miss this heartfelt and raw discussion about boundaries, trust, and connection.

This is part two of their Wheel of Consent journey!!

Do you conflate touch and sex?? Let us know in the comments section below.

About Us: Trey and Lauren are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and curricula to individuals, couples, parents, and organizations.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (World Health Organization) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/email⁠

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Preparing for DC: Wheel of Consent, Emotional Growth & Trey's First Training Experience | The Partnership Podcast Ep. 86

Projection, Gaslighting & The Wheel of Consent: How to Handle Relational Conflicts | The Partnership Podcast Ep. 85

How to build anticipation in long-term partnership: Why we don't text when we're apart. | The Partnership Podcast Ep. 84

LEARN MORE ABOUT BUILDING ANTICIPATION IN LONG-TERM PARTNERSHIP: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

In Episode 84 of The Partnership Podcast, hosts Lauren and Trey dive into the unique choice of not texting while apart to cultivate longing and anticipation in their relationship. They share personal stories of recent "ouches," how they took ownership of their actions, and the steps they're taking to prevent future hurt. Tune in to learn how creating distance can deepen connection and build arousal in a long-term partnership.

How do you build anticipation? Let us know in the comments section below.

About Us: Trey and Lauren are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and curricula to individuals, couples, parents, and organizations.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (World Health Organization) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List https://www.sexedforyou.com/email

• If you’re a femme, check out Lauren's monthly membership program, HEMLOCK!⁠ https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

#RelationshipAdvice #LongTermLove #BuildingAnticipation #HealthyCommunication #EmotionalOwnership #IntimacyInMarriage #ArousalInRelationships #PartnershipGoals #ConsciousCoupling #ThePartnershipPodcast

What is Sex? Exploring New Perspectives and Roadmaps to Pleasure | The Partnership Podcast Ep. 83

LEARN HOW TO DEFINE SEX BY CLICKING HERE https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

In Episode 83 of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive deep into the question, "What is sex?" Before their insightful conversation begins, they explore the triggers that left Trey unsettled that morning. Lauren offers a compassionate perspective on understanding his frustration, rooted in past hurts from female figures. As they unpack their definitions of sex, Lauren introduces a fresh view of pleasure, while Trey shares personal stories of erotic encounters and how they shaped his understanding. Stay tuned as Trey unveils his transformative new definition of sex.

04:13 Watch Trey be horrified by the baby's iPad!

09:15 Why is choosing more important than doing?

11:05 What is an important question to ask yourself after a night of no sleep?

15:00 Why do men treat their wives like their mothers?

22:00 Why is sexual communication so hard?

24:56 What is sex?

26:00 How do you define sex?

29:30 For sex, are roadblocks the things you think you have to do?

35:34 Why do we go to critism of self in sex?

41:20 What are the top reasons for lack of arousal?

45:58 Why is "Just take me!" a less sexy thing than, "Here's how I want you to take me."?

49:43 How do you define a great sexual experience?

51:02 What contexts make sex great?

What is sex to you? Let us know in the comments section below!

About Us: Trey and Lauren are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and curricula to individuals, couples, parents, and organizations.

Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)

Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (World Health Organization) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.

• Learn more about Sex Ed for You at https://www.sexedforyou.com

• Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren today: https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

• Sign up for Sex Ed for You’s Mailing List https://www.sexedforyou.com/email

• If you’re a femme, check out Lauren's monthly membership program, HEMLOCK!⁠ https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock

• Learn more about partnered communication best practices on Sex Ed For You’s Instagram Page: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/

• Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more videos about sex, partnership, communication, and love: https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast

Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

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