It's possible to see others the way God sees them. Especially when you remember that God only forgives your trespasses as you forgive others.lol. Seriously, though, Jesus gave a parable of a man who, after he was forgiven of his large debts by his master, went to fight with a debtor of his who owed him little. And Jesus said that just the same way the master of that servant threw him in jail, that is how Our Heavenly father will do to us if each of us do not forgive our offenders from our hearts. It's something to meditate upon whenever you consider holding a grudge. Is this grudge worth my forgiveness?