The Patriarchy Podcast - Equipping Christian Men to Build, Fight, Protect and Lead

The Patriarchy Podcast - Equipping Christian Men to Build, Fight, Protect and Lead

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  • Stop Playing It Safe: Christian Men Must Take Risks
    Stop Playing It Safe: Christian Men Must Take Risks

    Missionary Will Drzycimski on Biblical Masculinity, Courage, and the Great Commission

    Would you leave the comfort of home and move into cartel country if you believed God was calling you there?

    Most Christian men say they trust God's providence. But what happens when obedience requires stepping into uncertainty, sacrificing comfort, and taking risks that could cost you everything?

    Will Drzycimski left a successful career as a commercial pilot to serve as a missionary in Mexico's Sierra Madre mountains. Alongside his wife and family, he is continuing a twenty-year missionary work among the Tarahumara people, where drug cartels operate, witch doctors hold spiritual influence, and opportunities to preach the gospel sometimes arise in the most unexpected places.

    From selling strawberries and operating demonstration farms to attending pagan drinking parties where spiritual conversations open doors for evangelism, Will shares how ordinary faithfulness is bearing fruit in difficult territory.

    But this conversation goes far beyond foreign missions.

    Have Christian men become so comfortable playing it safe that we've forgotten what biblical courage looks like?

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach talk with Will about biblical masculinity, the Great Commission, God's providence, and the difference between godly risk and reckless stupidity.

    Not every man is called to move to Mexico. Some are called to stay home, build businesses, raise families, strengthen churches, and faithfully serve their communities. But every Christian man is called to obey Christ, even when obedience involves uncertainty, sacrifice, and the possibility of failure.

    Whether it's pursuing marriage, starting a business, leading your family, or stepping into ministry, fear must never become your master.

    Stop playing it safe. Start living by faith.

    Chapters

    00:00 – The Great Commission and Christ's Authority
    01:11 – Sandwiches, Dad Jokes, and Funeral Humor
    02:36 – From Commercial Pilot to Missionary in Mexico
    05:03 – Finding a Wife Through Reformed Online Dating
    07:35 – Life Among the Tarahumara People
    09:17 – Bringing a Family Into Dangerous Mission Territory
    14:15 – Farming, Dominion, and Evangelism
    17:55 – How Strawberries Open Doors for the Gospel
    21:02 – Witch Doctors, Pagan Rituals, and Missionary Challenges
    25:46 – Conversions, Church Planting, and Changed Lives
    30:08 – Living and Ministering in Cartel Country
    32:30 – Godly Risk vs. Reckless Stupidity
    37:20 – Trusting God's Providence in Uncertainty
    41:58 – Why Young Christian Men Are Afraid to Take Risks
    45:52 – Praying Big Prayers and Trusting a Bigger God
    48:50 – Lessons in Masculinity and Courage

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise.

    Support the Mission

    Help us expand Sovereign King Academy and keep Christian education affordable for families.

    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
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    All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

    Follow Joseph Spurgeon:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
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    Sponsored By

    Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion.
    https://steadfastcigars.com/

    Fit Father Project – Reclaim discipline, get strong, and take ownership of your health for your family and your legacy.
    https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:

    It's Good to Be a Boy: https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
    It's Good to Be a Girl: https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

    Final Call to Action

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    Build. Fight. Protect. Lead. This is The Patriarchy.

    #BiblicalMasculinity #ChristianManhood #ChristianCourage #GreatCommission #ChristianMissions

    1 hr 9 min
  • Did the Holy Spirit Retire? The Problem with Cessationism

    DID THE HOLY SPIRIT RETIRE? THE PROBLEM WITH CESSATIONISM

    Ryan Denton on Charismania, Cessationism, Impressions, Miracles, and the Leading of the Holy Spirit

    Fake healings. Phony prophecies. Televangelists demanding seed money. Reformed Christians have plenty of good reasons to reject charismania.

    But have we reacted so strongly that we have driven into the ditch on the other side?

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach Krugler sit down with Presbyterian pastor and evangelist Ryan Denton to examine cessationism, what Denton calls “hyper-cessationism,” and the ongoing work of the Holy Spirit.

    Did the closing of the canon mean God stopped leading His people through extraordinary providence, impressions, dreams, remarkable answers to prayer, or miracles? Can a Christian ever say, “I believe the Lord led me to do this”? How do we distinguish the Spirit’s leading from emotion, imagination, or indigestion? And what did the Reformers, Puritans, Scottish Covenanters, and Westminster divines actually believe?

    Denton argues that some modern Reformed Christians have adopted a form of cessationism stricter than the historic Reformed position. The conversation tackles the difference between canonical revelation and other forms of divine guidance, the danger of binding another Christian’s conscience with “God told me,” and the need for an experiential Christianity rooted firmly in Scripture.

    The goal is neither charismania nor cold rationalism. Christians have the completed, sufficient Word of God, and they also have the living Holy Spirit dwelling within them.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 Speaking in Tongues and $777 Seed Money
    00:47 Has Reformed Theology Overreacted to Charismania?
    03:00 Did the Holy Spirit Retire?
    03:54 Ephesians 1 and the Promised Holy Spirit
    05:21 The Important Taco/Sandwich Debate
    06:07 Introducing Ryan Denton
    07:35 What Is Classical Reformed Cessationism?
    10:14 Hyper-Cessationism and the Westminster Tradition
    12:28 The Spectrum from Charismania to Hyper-Cessationism
    16:54 The Biblical Case for Cessationism
    21:37 Spiritual Warfare and the Holy Spirit in Ephesians
    25:05 Where Did Hyper-Cessationism Come From?
    28:19 Materialism and Modern Reformed Theology
    30:44 Can Christians Say, “The Lord Told Me”?
    31:27 John Flavel’s Remarkable Dream
    36:31 The King’s Council
    38:39 “God Told Me I’m Going to Marry You”
    40:23 Fallible Christians and Divine Impressions
    41:30 How Does the Holy Spirit Lead Christians?
    45:40 Does Divine Guidance Mean New Scripture?

     

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

     

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
    Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjz
    Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsa
    Website & All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

    Follow Joseph Spurgeon:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
    X/Twitter: https://x.com/PatriarchyPod
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    Gab: https://gab.com/thepatriarchypodcast

     

    Sponsored By

    Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion
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    Fit Father Project – Dr. Balduzzi built the Fit Father Project to help men stop drifting, reclaim discipline, and get strong for life. If you're ready to take ownership of your health, don’t wait.  This is the first real step toward lasting strength—for your body, your family, and your legacy. Start: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
    It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
    It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

     

    Final Call to Action

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    Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.
    Like and share to support biblical masculinity.

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    1 hr 8 min
  • In Defense of Evangelicalism: Why It’s Still the Best Hope for America

    In Praise of Evangelicalism

    A Reformed Defense of the Best of American Evangelicalism

     

    Fog Machines, Youth Groups, MegaChurches... Oh My!

     

    Every Reformed guy knows the progression.

     

    You get saved at First Baptist. You survive youth group, church camp, ridiculous games, contemporary worship songs, and an altar call or two. Then somebody hands you Calvin’s Institutes. Suddenly you have opinions about everything. Before long, Grandma’s Baptist church seems embarrassingly shallow, you own three pipes, and you’re dressing like you’re on your way to bury Abraham Lincoln.

     

    But maybe Grandma knew a few things.

     

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach take a deliberately appreciative look at American evangelicalism. There are plenty of legitimate criticisms to make. Shallow preaching, entertainment-driven worship, theological rootlessness, seeker-sensitive churches, and youth ministries built around amusement deserve scrutiny.

     

    But evangelicalism also taught generations of Christians to read their Bibles, pray, love Jesus, pursue personal holiness, preach the gospel, support missions, reach children, and actually tell unbelievers about Christ.

     

    The Reformed world should deepen those instincts rather than despise them.

     

    Joseph and Zach discuss what an evangelical actually is, Martyn Lloyd-Jones’ definition of evangelicalism, the strengths and weaknesses of youth groups and church camps, family-integrated worship, evangelism, missions, personal conversion, theological pride, and the temptation to mistake our preferences for biblical principles.

     

    Recover the riches of Reformed theology. Love the confessions. Learn church history. Teach your children the catechism.

     

    Just don't become too sophisticated to tell somebody about Jesus.

     

    Chapters

     

    00:00 The Four Stages of the Reformed Guy

    02:39 Maybe Grandma’s Baptist Church Knew Something

    03:55 Romans 1:16 and In Praise of Evangelicalism

    04:53 Sandwiches, $20 Burritos, and Drowning in Debt

    06:35 Our Reformed Bona Fides

    08:14 Joseph’s Journey from Dispensationalism to Calvinism

    10:00 Theological Hipsterism and the Flight from Evangelicalism

    12:06 Discontentment, Coolness, and Becoming Reformed

    13:26 Are We Still Evangelicals?

    14:18 What in the World Is an Evangelical?

    19:11 American Evangelicalism as American Christianity

    20:15 Martyn Lloyd-Jones Defines an Evangelical

    23:44 Scripture, New Birth, and Heart Religion

    26:45 Fundamentalists, Evangelicals, and Changing Labels

    28:35 Grandma’s Church, MegaChurches, and the American Christian Experience

    31:14 Zach’s Experience with Seeker-Sensitive Evangelicalism

    33:01 Joseph’s Baptist and Evangelical Roots

    34:00 The King’s Council: The Freedom of Sons

    36:01 Church Camps, Youth Groups, and Reformed Overcorrection

    40:10 Family-Integrated Worship and the Ditches on Both Sides

    43:15 Remember the Sunday School Lady Who Taught You Jesus

    45:19 Fathers, the Church, and Discipling Children

    47:25 What Evangelicals Get Right That Reformed Guys Can Forget

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

     

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
    Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjz
    Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsa
    Website & All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

    Follow Joseph Spurgeon:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
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    Sponsored By

    Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion
    Order: https://steadfastcigars.com/

    Fit Father Project – Dr. Balduzzi built the Fit Father Project to help men stop drifting, reclaim discipline, and get strong for life. If you're ready to take ownership of your health, don’t wait.  This is the first real step toward lasting strength—for your body, your family, and your legacy. Start: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
    It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
    It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

     

    Final Call to Action

    Subscribe for more conversations that sharpen men for battle.
    Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.
    Like and share to support biblical masculinity.

     

     

     

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    1 hr 9 min
  • What Is Schism? Are You More Schismatic Than You Think?

    What Is Schism? Are You More Schismatic Than You Think?

    Redeemed Zoomer, Doug Wilson, and the Protestant Problem of Church Unity

    Protestants have heard the charge for centuries: You’re schismatics. You divided the Church.

    And sometimes, Protestants make that accusation pretty easy to believe.

    Churches split over personalities. Christians build factions around favorite pastors. Secondary disagreements become tests of faithfulness. A man gets offended, gathers a few followers, walks out the door, and calls it courage.

    But leaving a church does not automatically make a man schismatic. A man can stay in the same church for twenty years while undermining his elders, gathering a faction, reviving old controversies, and poisoning brothers against one another. He never leaves the institution, but he may be the biggest schismatic in the room.

    So what actually is schism?

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach Krugler use the recent debate between Redeemed Zoomer and Doug Wilson as a starting point for a much older Protestant question: What constitutes genuine Christian unity, and when is separation from a church or denomination justified?

    We examine the Westminster Confession’s doctrine of the visible catholic Church and turn to Reformation theologian Peter Martyr Vermigli for a careful definition of schism. His argument cuts both ways. Christians cannot treat churches like voluntary clubs, but neither does an old institution possess an unconditional claim upon the Christian conscience simply because it got there first.

    Sometimes separation is sinful. Sometimes separation is necessary. And sometimes the man loudly condemning everyone else as schismatic needs to take a hard look in the mirror.

    CHAPTERS

    00:00 What Is Schism?
    02:33 Ephesians 4 and the Unity of the Church
    03:18 Sandwiches, Wives, and the Keto King
    04:59 Redeemed Zoomer vs. Doug Wilson
    07:31 Is Starting a New Denomination Schismatic?
    09:45 Two Competing Definitions of Schism
    11:25 The Real Problem With Church Shopping
    14:26 Does Institutional Unity Matter?
    16:31 Why Not Just Return to Rome?
    18:57 What Is the One Catholic Church?
    24:07 Westminster on the Visible Church
    27:16 Can an Old Church Become Corrupt?
    28:40 Peter Martyr Vermigli on Schism
    32:33 Doctrine, Morality, and Church Unity
    34:23 The Heart of Schism
    37:00 Dividing Over Words, Labels, and Theological Tribes
    38:05 Dividing Over Favorite Pastors and Leaders
    40:02 Can You Be Schismatic Without Leaving?
    41:19 When Separation Becomes Necessary
    44:22 How Do We Know When It Is Time to Leave?
    45:00 When Remaining in a Church Becomes Sinful
    48:00 Reform, Correction, and Lawful Authority
    51:00 Are You Seeking Correction or Building a Faction?
    54:00 How to Leave a Church Without Becoming Schismatic
    57:00 Can a Denomination Have a Schismatic Beginning?
    59:00 Unity Without Uniformity
    1:01:00 Guard Your Own Heart Against Schism

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

     

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
    Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjz
    Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsa
    Website & All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

    Follow Joseph Spurgeon:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
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    Sponsored By

    Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion
    Order: https://steadfastcigars.com/

    Fit Father Project – Dr. Balduzzi built the Fit Father Project to help men stop drifting, reclaim discipline, and get strong for life. If you're ready to take ownership of your health, don’t wait.  This is the first real step toward lasting strength—for your body, your family, and your legacy. Start: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
    It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
    It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

     

    Final Call to Action

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    1 hr 21 min
  • What's the Bigger Problem? Abortion or Mass Immigration?

    What's the Bigger Problem? Abortion or Mass Immigration?

    Mass immigration is reshaping America. Millions have entered the country illegally, birthright citizenship remains a battleground, and many conservatives argue that stopping demographic replacement must take priority over fighting abortion.

    But is that really the right order?

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zack Krugler tackle one of the biggest debates on the political right. While affirming that unchecked immigration is a serious threat to a nation's stability and identity, they argue that Christians must reject the false choice between securing the border and defending unborn children.

    Scripture teaches that nations are judged when they embrace idolatry and shed innocent blood. Throughout the Old Testament, child sacrifice brought God's judgment, and one of the covenant curses was that foreigners would rise over a disobedient people. Rather than seeing immigration and abortion as competing issues, this conversation argues that abortion is one of the reasons God's judgment falls on nations in the first place.

    If America expects God's blessing while continuing to sacrifice its own children, it should not be surprised when the consequences extend far beyond the abortion clinic.

    Chapters

    00:00 Cold Open: The False Choice Between Immigration and Abortion

    01:56 Deuteronomy 28 and the Judgment of Foreign Rule

    02:32 Sandwiches, Dad Jokes, and Great Expectations

    05:07 Why This Debate Matters

    07:49 The Conservative Argument for Prioritizing Immigration

    12:24 Demographic Change, Assimilation, and National Identity

    16:53 Political Solutions vs. Spiritual Causes

    23:04 Why Scripture Must Shape Political Thinking

    27:28 The Biblical Evil of Child Sacrifice

    31:37 Molech, Abortion, and Modern Idolatry

    35:45 The Land Vomits Out Its Inhabitants

    40:48 Why Immigration Is a Judgment Before It Is a Political Problem

    41:37 Deuteronomy 28 and Covenant Curses

    44:19 Witchcraft, Abortion, and Spiritual Darkness

    46:42 Can America Expect God's Blessing While Killing Its Children?

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

     

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
    Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjz
    Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsa
    Website & All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

    Follow Joseph Spurgeon:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
    X/Twitter: https://x.com/PatriarchyPod
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    Gab: https://gab.com/thepatriarchypodcast

     

    Sponsored By

    Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion
    Order: https://steadfastcigars.com/

    Fit Father Project – Dr. Balduzzi built the Fit Father Project to help men stop drifting, reclaim discipline, and get strong for life. If you're ready to take ownership of your health, don’t wait.  This is the first real step toward lasting strength—for your body, your family, and your legacy. Start: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
    It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
    It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

     

    Final Call to Action

    Subscribe for more conversations that sharpen men for battle.
    Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.
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    1 hr 9 min
  • How to Lead Your Wife Through Change | Ten Biblical Strategies Every Husband Needs

    How to Lead Your Wife Through Change | Ten Biblical Strategies Every Husband Needs

    Every husband who takes Scripture seriously eventually faces this challenge. God convicts you that something in your home needs to change. Maybe it's family worship. Maybe it's your budget. Maybe it's homeschooling, church life, discipline, or a theological conviction you've recently embraced.

    The question isn't whether you should lead. The question is how.

    Too many men swing between two sinful extremes. Some become passive and avoid difficult conversations altogether. Others come home with a brand-new plan they've been thinking about for months and expect their wife to embrace it in six seconds.

    Biblical leadership looks different.

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach Krugler  unpack ten practical, biblical strategies for leading your wife through change with conviction, wisdom, patience, and love. They discuss why leadership requires both authority and understanding, how to cast vision without overwhelming your family, why repentance often begins with the husband, and how to remain steadfast when leadership is met with resistance.

    If you've ever wondered how to implement meaningful change in your marriage without becoming passive or overbearing, this episode is for you.

    Chapters

    00:00 Cold Open: "I've Fixed Our Family"
    01:25 Introduction & 1 Peter 3:7
    03:12 Sandwiches, England, and Dad Jokes
    09:18 Feminism Ruins Everything
    11:40 Why Leading Change Is Difficult
    13:20 Personal Stories of Major Family Changes
    16:35 Principle #1: Lead with Understanding
    29:30 Principle #2: Pray Before You Lead
    33:00 Principle #3: Prioritize and Strategize
    38:00 Principle #4: Repent Before Expecting Others To
    42:00 Principle #5: Cast a Clear Vision
    47:00 Principle #6: Be Patient Without Losing Focus
    49:15 Principle #7: Expect Resistance and Forgive
    55:00 Principle #8: Stay Consistent
    1:00:00 Principle #9: Lead by Example
    1:06:00 Principle #10: Trust God With the Results
    1:12:00 Final Encouragement

     

     

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

     

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
    Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjz
    Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsa
    Website & All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

    Follow Joseph Spurgeon:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
    X/Twitter: https://x.com/PatriarchyPod
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepatriarchypodcast
    Gab: https://gab.com/thepatriarchypodcast

     

    Sponsored By

    Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion
    Order: https://steadfastcigars.com/

    Fit Father Project – Dr. Balduzzi built the Fit Father Project to help men stop drifting, reclaim discipline, and get strong for life. If you're ready to take ownership of your health, don’t wait.  This is the first real step toward lasting strength—for your body, your family, and your legacy. Start: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
    It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
    It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

     

    Final Call to Action

    Subscribe for more conversations that sharpen men for battle.
    Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.
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    biblical husband, Christian marriage, biblical masculinity, marriage leadership, husband leadership, Christian husband, family leadership, patriarchy, biblical patriarchy, biblical manhood, Christian men, family worship, biblical marriage, Christian family, husband and wife, masculine leadership, marriage advice, Christian podcast, marriage roles, Ephesians 5, 1 Peter 3, biblical headship, biblical leadership, godly husband, leading your wife, marriage wisdom, Christian leadership, family discipleship

    1 hr 5 min
  • The PCA's Christian Nationalism Report: What They Got Right and Wrong

    Does the PCA Understand Christian Nationalism?

    What They Got Right... and Where They Went Wrong

    The PCA has released its long-awaited report on Christian Nationalism, and many people had already chosen sides before reading a single page. Some dismissed it because it came from the PCA. Others praised it simply because they oppose Christian Nationalism. In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach slow down and do something increasingly rare: they actually read the report.

    The committee was made up of faithful churchmen wrestling with difficult questions, and the report contains several important biblical affirmations that deserve recognition. At the same time, it raises significant concerns by blurring biblical commands with prudential judgments, narrowing the breadth of the Reformed tradition, and making historical claims that deserve closer examination.

    Together we walk through the report's affirmations and denials, discussing where we agree, where we disagree, and why these questions matter for every Christian who believes that Jesus Christ is Lord over every sphere of life.

    Chapters

    00:00 Cold Open: Before You Pick a Side...
    02:00 Introduction
    03:40 What We Ate & Dad Jokes
    06:35 Why the PCA Created This Study Committee
    11:40 How Study Committees Actually Work
    17:20 The Report's Biggest Strengths
    24:30 Affirmation #1: Civil Government Under Christ
    30:00 Christian Political Engagement
    39:40 Does the Church Speak to Civil Government?
    48:00 The Westminster Confession & Church-State Relations
    58:00 Can the Civil Magistrate Call Synods?
    1:08:00 Historical Claims and Prudential Judgments
    1:18:00 Where We Agree
    1:28:00 Our Major Concerns
    1:38:00 Final Thoughts

     

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

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    2 hr 5 min
  • Pride Is Over: What Happens When Christians Stop Being Afraid

    Pride Is Over

    What Happens When Christians Stop Being Afraid

    Every June, the rainbow flags come out, corporations change their logos, and the culture demands applause for what God condemns. This year, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon spent Pride Month posting biblical truth about homosexuality, gender confusion, and the destructive consequences of sexual rebellion. The response? Thousands of angry comments, accusations, objections, and enough bad theology to keep the internet busy for months.

    In this episode, Joseph and Zach Krugler dive headfirst into the comment section. They tackle the most common arguments against biblical teaching on homosexuality, expose revisionist attempts to rewrite Scripture, discuss the connection between sexual sin and cultural decay, and examine why support for Pride seems to be losing momentum. Along the way, they share stories from years of street preaching at Pride events, reflect on real people harmed by the lies of the sexual revolution, and explain why Christians must stop being intimidated into silence.

    This episode is serious, theological, occasionally hilarious, and unapologetically direct. If you've ever wondered how to answer the arguments, stand firm under pressure, and speak the truth without fear, this conversation is for you.

    Chapters

    00:00 Cold Open: Pride Is Over
    01:31 1 Corinthians 6 and the Biblical Standard
    03:55 Sandwiches, Sons, and Homemade Telephones
    05:47 Has Pride Month Lost Its Cultural Power?
    10:45 The Backlash Against the LGBT Movement
    13:11 Why Joseph Started Posting Against Pride
    18:37 Loving People Enough to Tell the Truth
    23:30 Homosexuality, Pedophilia, and Historical Reality
    31:14 Does the Bible Only Condemn Pedophilia?
    34:09 The Myth of the "1950 Homosexual Bible Translation"
    40:01 Historical Patterns and Cultural Consequences
    44:11 Why the Movement Targets Children
    46:48 Answering Common Online Objections
    51:31 What the Church Has Always Taught
    54:29 Why Revisionist Theology Fails

     

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
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    1 hr 12 min
  • Should Men Still Get Married? Feminism and Red-Pill Bitterness Are Destroying the Family

    Should Men Still Get Married?

    Feminism and Red-Pill Bitterness Are Destroying the Family

    Why are so many young men asking, "Why should I get married?"

    After decades of feminism attacking marriage as oppression, a growing number of men are now embracing the opposite error. The manosphere, MGTOW movement, and red-pill influencers often preach a message of fear, bitterness, and withdrawal from marriage. Different rhetoric. Same result.

    In this episode, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach Krugler tackle one of the biggest questions facing Christian men today: Is marriage still worth it?

    They examine feminist attacks on marriage, critique the growing anti-marriage sentiment in the manosphere, break down surprising statistics about marriage, and show why God's design for marriage remains essential for faithful Christian men. Drawing from Scripture, church history, and practical experience, they make the case that marriage is not a trap to avoid but a calling to embrace.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Why Young Men Are Questioning Marriage
    02:36 - Genesis 2 and God's Design for Marriage
    03:22 - Make Me a Sandwich Returns
    05:02 - Feminism Ruins Everything
    06:15 - The Feminist Case Against Marriage
    11:16 - The MGTOW Case Against Marriage
    15:38 - Are Feminists and Red-Pill Men Saying the Same Thing?
    20:11 - Is Marriage Really a Bad Deal for Men?
    22:30 - The Statistics Nobody Talks About
    28:36 - Divorce, Risk, and Responsibility
    35:18 - Four Habits That Strengthen Marriage
    36:51 - Why Marriage Rates Are Collapsing
    39:11 - Cohabitation vs Covenant
    41:37 - The Cost of Rejecting God's Design
    44:15 - Is Marriage Actually Worth It?
    46:00 - What Scripture Says About Marriage
    47:30 - Martin Luther on Marriage and Family
    52:27 - The Westminster Standards and the Duty of Marriage
    53:58 - What About the Gift of Singleness?
    54:58 - Jesus, Celibacy, and Christian Manhood

     

    The King’s Council

    Men need more than shallow answers and soft leadership. The King’s Council is a gathering for men who want biblical truth, real brotherhood, and strength under the lordship of Christ.

    Join us June 20 from 5:00–8:00 PM at Sovereign King Church in Jeffersonville, IN. Pastor Michael Clary of Christ the King Church in Fort Thomas, KY will speak on Piety Without Pietism. Food, discussion, and fellowship included.

    Take your seat at the King’s Council: https://sovereignkingscouncil.com

     

    About the Show

    The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

     

    Support the Mission

    We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
    Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

     

    Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

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    Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
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    It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

     

    Final Call to Action

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    1 hr 19 min
  • Icon Wars: Has the Church Been Bowing to Idols?

    Icon Wars: Has the Church Been Bowing to Idols?

    How Rome and the East Smuggle Idolatry into Worship Through Sentiment and Bad Arguments

    “Stop kissing idols.”

    When God thundered from Sinai, He did not mumble. He did not leave room for clever loopholes. He said: “Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image… thou shalt not bow down thyself to them.” Yet for centuries, Rome and the East have tried to explain away what God made plain.

    In this episode of The Patriarchy Podcast, Pastor Joseph Spurgeon and Zach Krugler step into the Icon Wars. Are icons, statues, relics, and painted images harmless aids to worship… or baptized idolatry dressed up in tradition?

    The guys break down the Eastern Orthodox and Roman Catholic arguments for icon veneration, including appeals to the incarnation, church history, temple imagery, and “honor passing through the image.” They examine why modern Protestants, exhausted by shallow evangelicalism, are being lured toward ancient aesthetics and mystical sentimentality. They also ask the practical questions many Christians wrestle with:

    • Is every image of Jesus sinful?
    • What about children’s Bibles and movies like The Chosen or The Passion of the Christ?
    • What do we do with relics like the Shroud of Turin?
    • Does church history actually support icon veneration?
    • Can Christians distinguish between honor and worship?
    • This is not a debate about art alone. It is a battle over worship, authority, and whether God gets to decide how He is approached.

      Faithful men do not improve God’s worship. They obey it.

      Timestamps

      00:00 – Cold Open: “Stop Kissing Idols”
      02:01 – Introduction to the Icon Wars
      03:12 – Has God Authorized Religious Images?
      04:39 – Why Eastern Orthodoxy Is Gaining Ground
      08:36 – Does Calling Icons Idolatry Mean the Church Fell Away?
      10:02 – What the Second Commandment Actually Says
      13:17 – The Bronze Serpent and Corrupted Worship
      17:24 – Is There a Difference Between Images and Veneration?
      19:56 – “Jesus Is the Image of God” Argument Examined
      23:39 – Did Christ Change the Second Commandment?
      27:33 – The Incarnation and the Logic of Iconography
      31:36 – Honor vs. Worship: Are They the Same?
      35:45 – The Regulative Principle of Worship
      38:20 – Westminster Larger Catechism on Images
      43:18 – Mental Images of Christ and the Human Imagination
      47:12 – The Dangers of Modern Depictions of Jesus
      50:17 – Applying This Debate in Real Life

      Key Topics Discussed

      • The Second Commandment and worship
      • Eastern Orthodox icon veneration
      • Roman Catholic statues and relics
      • The regulative principle of worship
      • The Westminster Larger Catechism
      • The incarnation and images of Christ
      • Church history and iconoclasm
      • The Shroud of Turin
      • The Chosen and visual depictions of Jesus
      • Idolatry disguised as tradition
      • The King’s Council

        Men need more than shallow answers and soft leadership. The King’s Council is a gathering for men who want biblical truth, real brotherhood, and strength under the lordship of Christ.

        Join us June 20 from 5:00–8:00 PM at Sovereign King Church in Jeffersonville, IN. Pastor Michael Clary of Christ the King Church in Fort Thomas, KY will speak on Piety Without Pietism. Food, discussion, and fellowship included.

        Take your seat at the King’s Council: https://sovereignkingscouncil.com

         

        About the Show

        The Patriarchy Podcast features in-depth conversations on faith, culture, theology, and leadership. Each episode equips Christians to live boldly and biblically in an age of compromise—exploring the challenges and opportunities of standing firm for truth in the modern world.

         

        Support the Mission

        We’re still raising funds to expand Sovereign King Academy and keep tuition affordable for families. Want to invest in the future of Christ’s Kingdom?
        Give here: https://sovereignkingacademy.com

         

        Connect with The Patriarchy Podcast

        YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePatriarchyPodcast
        Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/58tm5zjz
        Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/f3ruzrsa
        Website & All Links: https://linktr.ee/thepatriarchypodcast

        Follow Joseph Spurgeon:
        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePatriarchyPodcast
        X/Twitter: https://x.com/PatriarchyPod
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        Gab: https://gab.com/thepatriarchypodcast

         

        Sponsored By

        Steadfast Cigars – For men who reject passivity and take dominion
        Order: https://steadfastcigars.com/

        Fit Father Project – Dr. Balduzzi built the Fit Father Project to help men stop drifting, reclaim discipline, and get strong for life. If you're ready to take ownership of your health, don’t wait.  This is the first real step toward lasting strength—for your body, your family, and your legacy. Start: https://secure.fitfatherproject.com/a/transformation/4539

        Books by Joseph Spurgeon:
        It’s Good to Be a Boy – https://a.co/d/7zpEh5D
        It’s Good to Be a Girl – https://a.co/d/6VlBTzS

         

        Final Call to Action

        Subscribe for more conversations that sharpen men for battle.
        Turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.
        Like and share to support biblical masculinity.

         

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        1 hr 2 min

      About The Patriarchy Podcast - Equipping Christian Men to Build, Fight, Protect and Lead

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      The Patriarchy Podcast is a call to men-embrace your God-given masculinity for the glory of Christ and the good of His Kingdom We equip men to own their God-given masculinity and take responsibility in every sphere—fatherhood, citizenship, marriage, church leadership, and beyond. Through bold discussions, practical wisdom, and deep theology, we challenge men to reject the lies of feminism and effeminacy and stand firm as faithful men.

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