In this episode, Caroline sits down to talk to Kanan Tekchandani a Holistic Neurodiverse Coach and Relationship Whisperer for late identified aspies/autistics, gifted and twice-exceptional adults, their partners, and parents. Kanan explains what it was like growing up as someone who is not neurotypical. How she coped with autism, feeling like she didn’t quite belong or understand the social rules. While also being highly intelligent and a perfectionist.
Using examples from her own life Kanan explains what being twice or multi exceptional means. The challenges this creates at school, in the workplace, the home and with building and maintaining strong relationships. She also shares the strategies she has used which have helped her and her clients to lead balanced, harmonious, happy, and fulfilled lives.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- For Kanan points of transition, for example changing schools, were the most difficult.
- Kanan was constantly analysing what others expected of her and how to give it to them. So, she was trying to perceive the world through the eyes of others.
- Being always on, analysing everything in-depth to try to fit in is exhausting, so Kanan needed alone time.
- Yoga really helped Kanan to calm down.
- Be ready to learn and try different things.
- Let go of perfectionism.
- If you discover something is not for you, be afraid to make a switch.
- Neuro diverse people can be hypersensitive, but they can also not notice things. This can make relationships hard to manage successfully.
- Social media groups are good places to learn about the experience of others, which can help you to identify what is going on with yourself.
- Learn to love yourself.
BEST MOMENTS
‘I would be kind of constantly conscious about what everyone else is thinking about me…so that's why I always wanted to kind of not be too visible. ´
‘I was never really lonely, but I felt alone, because there wasn't really anyone that deeply understood me.’
‘Yoga gave me that sense of calm and control back again, just gave me a few, like an hour's peace.’
‘Most of the time, we are highly emotional, because emotional regulation is a problem that we often have.’
ABOUT THE GUEST
Kanan Tekchandani: Kanan is a Holistic Neurodiverse Coach and Relationship Whisperer for late identified aspies/autistics, gifted and twice-exceptional adults, their partners, and parents.
Being 2e herself she intuitively understands her clients. She specialises in working with highly sensitive and highly intelligent adults who are professionally successful but struggling to experience connection and happiness in their most important relationships. Especially the one with themselves!
Kanan uses a trauma-informed mind-body-spirit approach tailored to the individual. She is a certified Strategic Intervention Coach, yoga and mindfulness meditation teacher, professional organiser and declutterer and a Rahanni healer.
Her mission is to empower neurodivergent adults and families to live a life of happiness, fulfilment, and success.
EPISODE RESOURCES
Website: https://www.aspiecoach.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kanan-tekchandani-674a4562/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/kanantek
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanantekchandani/ or https://linktr.ee/KananTek
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ABOUT THE HOST
Bio
Caroline Partridge is a unique and creative individual. She is an actress, puppeteer, educator, and artist with funny bones. She loves a story and is an expert at conveying wit and wisdom with warmth, understanding, and empathy.
CONTACT METHOD
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PODCAST DESCRIPTION
This is a podcast series about discovery, understanding, revelation, and stories.
How we perceive the world is rooted in everything that has influenced us throughout our lives, emotionally and psychologically. We become the sum of our parts and each of us has our own unique view of the world. 'Vision' truly is an act of interpretation.
In this podcast series through fascinating conversations, I set about trying to understand how we form our perceptions, view different perspectives, and examine how perception has influenced, inspired, or hindered the lives of each of my unique guests.