The Perfect Mess Podcast

It’s time we had a real talk parents. It’s time we understood how important it is to protect our babies and take a pass on some events that we’re invited to and people we allow our children to be around whether it be family, friends or acquaintances.

There are a lot of coaches that coach and then there are coaches like myself who not only coach between the lines, but Coach you in life as well even when you don’t want it or you feel like you don’t need it.

Just a simple, thank you to everybody who believes in me and what I do. From the podcast, to TikTok, to coaching, to mentoring, to everything in between… Thank you.

Tricks are for kids and unfortunately it seems there are still adults who like to play kid games. Let’s talk about it!

There are too many young kids who are being taught not to own their shit. Too many kids are being taught to point a finger and look for an out. There are not enough kids who are learning to be disciplined and who are learning how to CYA. And what is CYA you ask? Cover your own ass because if you’re going to be a complainer or point fingers you better be covering your own ass. Let’s talk about teaching ownership.

Coaches this one’s for you. More often than not what we do that makes the biggest impact is what happens outside the lines not in between the lines. Let’s talk about it.

There is something about being in that zone as a man who is only concerned with his mind, body and spirit, his finances, his health and his children, and you know you’re in that zone when a woman approaches you or walks by you and gives you a compliment and you tip your hat tell her thank you and you keep it moving. You’re in a zone of no longer wanted to be part of the swipe culture and no longer chasing anybody that compliments you You are now in the zone where you expect more from anybody you encounter not just a simple hello.

One of the biggest problems I see with today’s society is that we struggle to have difficult talks. Anytime someone has a different opinion than ours. We get really defensive combative and we shut everybody out. The most damaging thing that we do is we stop talking. There are no solutions that have ever come from people not talking. You have to be able to communicate with people who don’t agree with you or see the world like you do. Let’s talk about it.

Keep playing the game…watch what it leads to. A wise word to those people who are “So Busy” but are looking for love.

Is it ever enough? Like is it ever truly enough for someone to stay with someone?