https://everybodyshappy.com/Conversations with the Dying: Insights from a Hospice Social WorkerIn this episode of the Perfect Society's 'In the Shadows' series, host Curt Derby talks to DeAnn Jansen, a hospice social worker with 30 years of experience. DeAnn shares her unique encounters with patients in their final days. Despite not being religious, she believes in an afterlife based on numerous instances where patients have communicated with deceased loved ones. The conversation covers her journey into hospice care, remarkable patient stories, and the emotional and logistical challenges of her work. DeAnn's insights challenge conventional beliefs and provide a deeply human perspective on life, death, and what might come after.00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:02 Meet DeAnn Jansen: Hospice Social Worker01:22 The Role of a Hospice Social Worker02:14 DeAnn’s First Hospice Experience04:10 The Four Most Important Things at End of Life06:22 Patients' Unique End-of-Life Experiences11:29 Personal Stories and Experiences23:17 Challenges and Rewards of Hospice Work34:02 Emotional Attachment and Coping37:30 Beliefs and Perspectives on Death46:26 Special Moments and Patient Stories53:20 The Impact of Uniform Colors in Healthcare54:38 The Power of Human Will in End-of-Life Situations57:16 The Phenomenon of Holding On for Special Moments01:00:35 Broken Heart Syndrome: A Real Diagnosis01:02:53 Personal Reflections on Grief and Belief01:06:30 Experiences with Patients Seeing Deceased Loved Ones01:16:30 Near-Death Experiences and Scientific Perspectives01:21:34 A Unique Hospice Wedding Story01:28:04 Speed Round: Fun and Fast-Paced Questions01:37:17 Final Thought

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Exposing Government Waste: The Real Issue Behind Political Scandals

For this Spotlight, Curt Derby addresses the political controversy surrounding Minnesota Representative Ilhan Omar and the accusations of tax fraud.

Curt then shifts the focus to a broader issue: systemic government waste and fraud, a problem that transcends party lines and has persisted for decades.

He discusses the inefficiencies and lack of transparency in how tax dollars are spent, advocating for 'voluntary funding' as a solution. Through this approach, he argues that citizens should have direct control over where their money goes, reducing corruption and increasing accountability.

Curt's challenges viewers to look beyond partisan battles and focus on addressing the structural flaws in government spending.

00:00 Introduction: The Ilhan Omar Controversy

00:38 The Real Issue: Government Waste and Fraud

01:07 The Problem with Political Teams

01:35 The Hidden Costs of Government Spending

02:33 A Radical Solution: Voluntary Funding

03:37 The Challenge: Questioning Government Spending

04:06 Conclusion: Fixing the System

Is It Okay to Say Merry Christmas? | A Reflection on Holiday GreetingsIn this episode, Kurt Derby explores the shift in societal norms regarding the phrase 'Merry Christmas' from the 1970s to the present day. He shares his observations on how people have reacted to holiday greetings over the years and emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and understanding in using either 'Merry Christmas' or 'Happy Holidays.' Kurt argues that both phrases express goodwill and should be accepted in the spirit they are intended. Join the discussion on how to navigate seasonal greetings with kindness and inclusivity.

https://everybodyshappy.com/Unlocking Health Secrets: Casey Ruff's Guide to Fitness, Nutrition, and FastingIn this Brainspace episode, Curt Derby dives deep into the realms of fitness, nutrition, and fasting with special guest Casey Ruff. Casey, a nutritionist, personal trainer, and radio show host, shares his personal journey from being a chubby kid fascinated by sports to thriving in his career as a health expert. They discuss the impact of diet and exercise on weight loss, the benefits of fasting, and how to navigate through modern dietary myths. From debunking the food pyramid to addressing the mental challenges of diet changes, Casey offers invaluable insights and practical advice for ANYONE looking to improve their health. Casey and Curt also explore the fascinating history of cancer research, the power of intermittent fasting, and why sometimes the simplest dietary changes can make the biggest difference. Whether you're a fitness enthusiast or just starting your health journey, this episode is packed with actionable tips and inspiration. Don't miss out on Casey and Curt's engaging conversation!00:00 Introduction and Welcome01:05 Casey's Journey into Fitness03:57 Entrepreneurial Spirit and Starting a Business07:50 Podcasting Adventures13:54 Personal Stories and Reflections38:30 Starting a Low Carbohydrate Diet38:41 Blood Work Results and Cholesterol Concerns39:08 Experimenting with Diet and Cholesterol40:32 Metabolic Psychiatry and Mental Health40:48 Personal Stories of Diet and Mental Health42:46 Research and Community Support43:39 Fasting and Cancer Summary44:10 Diet and Cancer Treatment44:54 Carbohydrates and Metabolic Health55:50 Food and Fitness 20 Questions01:06:44 The Role of Stress in Health01:14:34 Understanding the Carnivore Diet01:15:50 Personal Experiences with Carnivore01:17:58 Genetics and Disease01:19:21 Top Three Exercises for Everyone01:24:31 The Role of Visceral Fat01:27:43 Cold Plunges vs. Cryotherapy01:33:33 Intermittent Fasting and Extended Fasts01:37:18 The Benefits of Fasting01:44:45 Historical Eating Habits and Modern Diets01:50:57 The Origins of Nutrition Guidelines01:52:25 The Power of Independent Thinking01:54:24 Practical Tips for Eating Healthy01:56:02 Navigating Fast Food on a Carnivore Diet02:00:50 Dealing with Food Cravings02:07:21 A Radical Idea for Self-Defense Education02:12:03 Speed Round: Fun and Fast Questions02:18:05 Final Thoughts and Farewell

https://everybodyshappy.com/The Real Problem: Why Trump's Health Shouldn't Matter So MuchIn this Spotlight, Curt discusses the disproportionate attention Americans pay to Donald Trump's health and policies, highlighting how it reveals a deeper issue: societal dependence on a single person for problem-solving. He explores the unhealthy obsession with political figures, the illusion of helplessness, and encourages viewers to reclaim personal and community responsibility. By drawing on historical examples and practical strategies, Curt urges Americans to stop waiting for government intervention and start solving issues themselves. He concludes with a challenge to viewers to shift their focus from Washington to their own lives and communities, promoting self-reliance as a path to a stronger society. For more insights, check out the book, "Everybody's Happy, Everybody Wins: How to Build a Perfect Society," available for free at everybodyshappy.com.00:00 The Uncomfortable Truth About American Dependency00:59 The Helplessness We’ve Trained Ourselves Into01:24 The Real Problem: Dependency on One Person02:11 Taking Responsibility: Solving Problems Ourselves03:05 Empowerment Through Self-Reliance04:31 The Challenge: Shifting Focus from Government to Self05:21 Conclusion: Building a Perfect Society

https://everybodyshappy.com/Why Friendships Should Survive Political DifferencesRepublican and Democrat voters are both guilty of unfriending each other on social media. They think it’s the right thing. But is it making them happier?For every Trump, Biden, Kamala, Clinton, or Obama voter, there is someone out there who will distance themselves from them. Is this helpful or harmful? In this Spotlight, Curt discusses the damaging impact of politics on friendships through real-life anecdotes. The discussion revolves around the idea that cutting ties over political beliefs is less about moral purity and more about control and fear.He challenges viewers to evaluate their friendships based on mutual support and betterment rather than political conformity, advocating for a more freedom-based approach to relationships.00:00 Introduction: A Week of Political Tensions00:37 The Real Question: Politics vs. Friendships01:48 The Force vs. Freedom Test02:21 Values and Echo Chambers03:24 Fear-Based Decisions04:10 Judging Actions, Not Votes04:42 The True Test of Friendship05:33 The Challenge: Reconnecting with Friends06:21 Conclusion: Friendship Over Politics07:15 Further Reading: Building a Perfect Society

https://everybodyshappy.com/If a group of white people got together to build their own city, would that be racist?If a group of black people got together to build their own city, would that be racist? In this Spotlight, Curt discusses the provocative question of whether it is acceptable for a group of families to build an exclusive community based on shared values and safety, focusing specifically on the real-life example of black families creating the city of Freedom, Georgia. This video challenges conventional views on race, freedom, and community by arguing that the uproar over Freedom, Georgia is misplaced and overlooks the issue of control versus freedom in community building. By comparing this case to other naturally forming communities, such as religious or veteran groups, this Spotlight underscores the importance of choice and self-determination, advocating for a society where people can freely decide how and where to live. And to not allow or even tolerate the government doing it for us.Curt puts a new spin on segregation, inclusion, integration, racism, blacks actually THRIVING during the Jim Crow era, and much more. And he praises American citizens for self-sufficiency over rioting and begging the government for help. 00:00 Introduction: The Controversial Idea of Freedom, Georgia00:31 Public Reactions and Misconceptions00:52 The Core Issue: Freedom, Not Race01:50 Historical Context of Black Communities02:04 The Problem with Forced Integration02:27 Freedom Means Choice04:19 The Real Meaning of Community04:40 Conclusion: Embracing True Freedom

https://everybodyshappy.com/On July 15, 2025, China officially banned OnlyFans citing “immoral and degenerate Western influence“. For the past few years, both republicans and democrats in the United States, have endorsed regulating the Internet.So are we to assume that OF might soon be banned in the United States? In this spotlight, Curt tackles the question of whether OnlyFans should be banned in America. He argues that banning the platform would go against the principles of a free society and likens such a move to adopting a 'slave master' mentality. He emphasizes that freedom means allowing adults to make their own choices, even if some find those choices objectionable. Instead of using force for 'the greater good,' Curt highlights the importance of using freedom of speech to educate and influence others. True freedom involves protecting rights, not enforcing morality or censorship. Curt challenges the audience to consider if they truly believe in a free society or simply want to impose their own values on others.00:00 Introduction: Should OnlyFans Be Banned?00:50 Freedom vs. Force: The Core Argument01:40 The Danger of Changing Values02:16 Real Freedom Means Real Choice02:49 The Perfect Society: Minimal Laws03:14 Conclusion: The True Meaning of a Free Society

Elon Musk's America Party: The Real Solution We NeedIn this episode, I discuss Elon Musk's recent announcement about forming a new political party called the America Party. While Musk aims to disrupt the current political system by focusing on a few key Senate and House seats, I argue that the real issue is the concentration of power among 536 politicians making decisions for 342 million Americans. I highlight the need for a movement that empowers people to take charge and solve problems locally, bypassing the traditional party-centric political structure. Join the conversation on how we can create a better way where everyone wins by focusing on voluntary cooperation, local solutions, and personal responsibility.00:00 Introduction: Elon Musk's America Party00:50 Elon's Misstep: Playing the Old Game01:47 The Hunger for Change: Survey Insights02:34 The Cost of Political Distraction03:13 Rethinking Government: The Right Questions04:39 The Power of the People: Real-World Examples05:51 A Challenge to Elon: Create a Movement06:27 The Four Pillars of Freedom06:43 The Volunteer Spirit: Solving Problems Locally07:46 Conclusion: A Better Way Forward

https://everybodyshappy.com/"Chiefly, the mould of a man's fortunes is in his own hands." - Sir Francis Bacon, 1625In this spotlight, Curt discusses the importance of personal responsibility over blaming others.Using an example from the book 'One by One' by Freida McFadden, a story about a tragic mistake and its repercussions, Curt illustrates how blaming others is a common but unproductive habit. He points out that Americans often deflect responsibility to external factors such as politicians, their parents, siblings, church, teachers, and a myriad of others. He emphasizes that true change starts with taking ownership of our actions and focusing on what we can control. To solve our cultural and government problems, he discusses his short, free book, 'Everybody's Happy, Everybody Wins: How to Build a Perfect Society', which details four principles to create a society not based on politics or power, but on simple principles like personal responsibility.00:00 Introduction: Stop Blaming the Government00:14 A Story of Personal Responsibility02:53 The Blame Game in Politics03:29 The Culture of Blame04:44 The Power of Personal Responsibility06:08 Building a Perfect Society07:55 Conclusion: Change Starts with You