The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea Fortenberry

The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea Fortenberry

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The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea Fortenberry episodes

  • E76: Body & Soul Summer Series - How to Build Body Confidence

    Welcome to Episode 76 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! This episode is kicking off our Body and Soul Summer Series!

    Today I’m talking with my friend, writer, and speaker, Jessica Carey about body confidence. Jess Carey is a wife and mother of two teenagers, who has moved more than eight times across more than 11,000 miles in the past decade, including a stint internationally. From acting in New York to running a business overseas, she has consistently sailed into the unknown. She is open, honest, and vulnerable in her writing and her speaking. She gives her audience permission to dream again, to forgive the past, and hope to launch into a bright new future.


    Some of the resources we mention in this episode include:

    • Episode 6 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Jess
    • Psalm 139
    • Body Image Study
      • I Mom So Hard: I Swimsuit Season So Hard
      • Buzz Feed: Photoshopping Real Women Into Cover Model
      • Try Softer by Aundi Kolber*
      • Tarte Shape Tape Concealer
      • Tarte Pressed Setting Powder

      • You can connect with Jess via:

        • Her website: jessicacarey.co, where she has a Five Quick Habits to Build Body Confidence video series
        • Instagram @jess_careyaz


        • Just a reminder that you can connect with me via:

          • ⁠Instagram @andreafortenberry⁠
          • ⁠My website
          • Subscribe to my free monthly magazine, Restore. New issues come out the first Friday of every month.


            *Affiliate Link


            49 min
          • E75: How to Survive Maycember

            Welcome to Episode 75 of the Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Also, happy May! It’s a new month and a busy one for most of us, as the school year is winding down. This means lots of extra things for our kids and us by default: concerts, recitals, school projects, field trips, class parties, teacher appreciation, and more!

            It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all there is going on. But I don’t want us to feel overwhelmed, I want us to take some time now on the front end of the month to help our future selves. Let's not just survive this month, let's thrive!


            A few of the resources I recommend in this episode include:

            • Restore Magazine: May 2022 Issue with Mother's Day Gift Ideas
            • Episode 4 with Amy Carney
            • Dangerous Prayers by Craig Groeschel*
            • Call the Midwife
            • YouVersion Bible App
            • Greenlight App: Earn $30 when you sign up for Greenlight with this link. With the money app and debit card for kids and teens, you can send your kids money instantly, assign chores, and teach them to earn, save, and invest.*
            • Sign up for Restore Magazine here. New issues will hit your inbox on the first Friday of every month. Yay for happy email!
            • Just a reminder that you can connect with me via:

              • Instagram @andreafortenberry
              • My website


              • 43 min
              • E74: On Becoming

                Welcome to Episode 74 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! In this episode, I talk about hitting the milestone of 10k downloads. Thank you so much!

                I also chat about becoming, discouragement, waiting, and what to do when we feel disappointed.


                Here are some of my questions for you:

                • What did you enjoy doing as a child? What made you happy?
                • How has God used those things in your journey to becoming? What dots can you connect from your life now that you couldn’t see as you lived through them?
                • What are you waiting for? How can you grow your roots down deep in this waiting season?
                • Some of the resources I mention include:

                  • “Nobody wants to show you the hours and hours of becoming. They’d rather show the highlight of what they’ve become.” - Angela Duckworth
                  • Galatians 6:9: “Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we don’t give up.”
                  • Zechariah 4:10: “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin.”
                  • Psalm 1:1-3 says, “How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, Nor stand in the path of sinners, Nor sit in the seat of scoffers, But his delight is in the law of the LORD, And in His law he meditates day and night, And he will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season, And its leaf does not wither; And in whatever he does, he prospers.”
                  • “Don’t waste the waiting. A waiting season isn’t a wasted season if you continue to seek and push into God.” - Pastor Craig Groeschel
                  • Marmee by Sarah Miller*
                  • Next Level Chef and Farmer Wants a Wife
                  • Jireh by Elevation Worship & Maverick City Music
                  • Calendly
                  • Episode 20, Rest for Weary Moms, of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering
                  • Julie and Julia

                  • Just a reminder that you can connect with me via:

                    • Instagram @andreafortenberry
                    • My website

                    • You can support this podcast financially by clicking here. 


                      *Affiliate Link


                      29 min
                    • E73: The Pace of Grace

                      Welcome to Episode 73 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend, Rebecca George.


                      Rebecca is the founder of Radical Radiance® - a podcast community where listeners are equipped to blend what they love with the Jesus who makes them shine. She is a podcaster, speaker, and author whose greatest joy in life is discipling others to pursue their passions in a way that builds the Kingdom. In her free time, you can find her running outside, writing, or trying a new recipe with Garth Brooks playing in the background.


                      In this episode, we talk about the inspiration for Rebecca's new book, Do the Thing: Gospel-Centered Goals, Gumption, and Grace for the Go-Getter Girl*, striving, how to say no, and the pace of grace.


                      Some of the resources we mention include:

                      • James 1:5
                      • Called Creatives
                      • Full Focus Planner

                      • You can connect with Rebecca via:

                        • Her website
                        • The Radical Radiance Podcast
                        • Instagram @rebeccageorgeauthor
                        • Just a reminder that you can connect with me via:

                          • Instagram @andreafortenberry
                          • My website
                          • You can support this podcast financially by clicking here.
                            *Affiliate Link

                            33 min
                          • E72: Hot Date Night

                            Welcome to Episode 72 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my amazing friend, Jackie Kelley. Jackie is a stay-at-home mom to two wild boys based in Arizona. She is a self-proclaimed “maker” who loves to dream big. She has served with her local MOPS chapter for five years and has a passion for young moms and young families.

                             

                            Along with her husband of eight years, she is on a mission to show the world that having intentional fun with your spouse is possible regardless of what season of life you are in.


                            We chat all about Hot Date Night: the why, the rules, and how you can implement hot date night into your marriage today.


                            Some of the resources we mention include:

                            • Hot Date Night on Instagram: @hotdatenight
                            • Oh Crap Potty Training*
                            • MinimaList
                            • Aqua Notes*

                              • You can connect with Jackie via:

                                • Instagram: @stayathomejackie
                                • Hot Date Night on Instagram: @hotdatenight

                                • You can support this podcast financially by clicking here.

                                  *Affiliate Link

                                  39 min
                                • E71: Untangling Faith

                                  Welcome to Episode 71 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!

                                  Today I’m talking with the very funny and insightful, Amberly Neese. Amberly is a popular speaker/teacher, comedian, author, and all-around encourager dedicated to helping you become the joyful person you were created to be.

                                  Amberly is a featured speaker for the Aspire Women’s Events and the main host and female comedian for Marriage Date Night, two popular Christian events that tour nationally.

                                  She and her husband have two adult children and live in Prescott, Arizona, where they enjoy the great outdoors, the Food Network, and all things Star Wars. She is also a previous guest of the podcast in Episode 50, What I Wish I’d Thought Of.

                                  In this episode, we chat about untangling our faith, holy uncertainty, and how our struggles and questions about faith can actually draw us closer to God.

                                  Some of the resources we mention include:

                                  • Amberly's new Bible study, Untangling Faith, which releases April 18th. When you pre-order you get amazing bonuses!
                                  • Jeremiah 29:13
                                  • 1 Peter 5:10
                                  • James 1:2-5
                                  • Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers*
                                  • Google Calendar
                                  • Miss Jessie's Hair Products
                                  • You can connect with Amberly via:

                                    • Her website: amberlyneese.com
                                    • Her free newsletter: amberlyneese.com/join
                                    • Instagram @amberlyneese_comedian
                                    • *Affiliate Link

                                      39 min
                                    • E70: How to be a Time-Saving Mom

                                      Welcome to Episode 70 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with the amazing Crystal Paine.

                                      Crystal is the founder of MoneySavingMom.com, host of The Crystal Paine Show podcast, and a New York Times bestselling author. Her desire is to help women across the globe live with more joy, purpose, and intention in their everyday lives. She lives with her husband and six kids in the Nashville, Tennessee, area, where she is actively involved in her local church.

                                      Her biggest passions are helping women understand how the gospel can radically transform their lives, raising awareness for foster care, going on adventures with her family (locally, domestically, and internationally), finding great deals at the grocery store, having heartfelt conversations, and trying to read too many books at one time!

                                      We chat all about her new book, The Time-Saving Mom, which releases on March 7th.* In this episode shares her four-step system, her time-blocked to-do list, and many other great time-saving tips!

                                      Some of the resources we mention include:

                                      • Off the Clock by Laura Vanderkam*
                                      • 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura Vanderkam*
                                      • Mind Your Mindset by Meghan Hyatt Miller and Michael Hyatt*
                                      • Soundtracks by John Acuff*
                                      • Libby App
                                      • Hoopla App
                                      • The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek by Kim Michele Richardson*
                                      • Clean Angel Miraculous Cleaner*
                                      • Nothing to Prove by Jennie Allen*
                                      • You can connect with Crystal through:

                                        • Her website: moneysavingmom.com
                                        • Her podcast: The Crystal Paine Show
                                        • Instagram: @themoneysavingmom
                                        • The new book: The Time-Saving Mom
                                        • *Affiliate Link

                                          36 min
                                        • E69: How to Handle Decision Fatigue

                                          Welcome to Episode 69 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend and MOPS coworker, Kelli Jordan.

                                          Kelli Jordan is a mom, grandma, mentor and MOPS International staffer living in the Kansas City area. She loves a good story, especially the stories of real people doing good things in the world every single day. She is committed to helping others find and share the hope of Jesus and embrace the good all around them. Read more from her at kellijordan.blog.

                                          In this episode, we talk all about decision fatigue. As moms, we make so many decisions daily! Kelli shares these amazing tips and much more on how to handle decision fatigue:

                                          1. Make your most important decisions earlier in the day
                                          2. Set up some routines
                                          3. Simplify
                                          4. Focus on momentum
                                          5. Know when it’s time to stop
                                          6. Set a deadline
                                          7. Some of the resources we mention:

                                            • God Has a Name by John Mark Comer*
                                            • The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer*
                                            • Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus*
                                            • Air Fryer Toaster Oven Combo*

                                            • 39 min
                                            • E68: Start Small

                                              Welcome to Episode 68 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!

                                              Today I’m talking with my friend, Lain Ehmann. Lain is a radio show host, journalist, best-selling author, and consultant. Her superpower is creating clarity from confusion and helping her clients get their voices heard in a noisy world. A sought-after public speaker and coach, Lain loves leading retreats, facilitating masterminds, and bringing women together who want to change the world one conversation at a time.

                                              She is the mom of three amazing kids and lives with her husband and family in Scottsdale, Arizona.

                                              Some of the resources we mention in this episode include:

                                              • Lain's book, Start Small: Tiny Shifts to Boost Your Relationships, Simplify Your Day, and Life a Happier Life*
                                              • The True Vine by Andrew Murray*
                                              • Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader Documentary
                                              • Scribd*: Use Lain's link to get two months free
                                              • Subscribe to my digital magazine, Restore
                                              • Support the podcast here
                                              • Send me an email or DM me on Instagram
                                              • You can connect with Lain through:

                                                • Her website: fastlain.com
                                                • Instagram: @ lain.ehmann
                                                • 46 min
                                                • E67: Start Slowly

                                                  Welcome to Episode 67 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! 

                                                  In this episode, I share how and why we can start this year out slowly. In a world that’s focused on hustle and going harder, starting slowly is very counter-cultural, but I think it’s the pace our souls were designed for.

                                                  Here are some of the resources I mention in this episode:

                                                  • Matthew 11:28-30 MSG
                                                  • Episode 20 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering: Rest for Weary Moms
                                                  • Growing Slow by Jennifer Dukes Lee*
                                                  • Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott*
                                                  • Soundtracks by Jon Acuff*
                                                  • Citrus Pear
                                                  • Subscribe to my digital magazine, Restore
                                                  • Support the podcast here
                                                  • Send me an email or DM me on Instagram
                                                  • *Affiliate Link

                                                    27 min

                                                  About The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea Fortenberry

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                                                  Welcome to The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!