The Perspective Matters Podcast

Don't watch the noise in the market watch the sale! If you have ever been to a Caribbean market or a farmers market on a good day; it can be quite noisy. It is so easy to be distracted by all that is happening. If we apply this proverb to our lives; we can be guided by the same principle: don't be distracted by all that is happening in the world; pay attention to what is in front of you and mind your business. Our attention is always being sought by one thing or another. It is up to you; to decide what matters to you and what deserves your attention and by extension your energy.

In the pursuit of your purpose, your goals and dreams; the world will have plenty to say. Your family, friends and loved ones will all have their opinions. Remember this; your dream was given to only you. It wasn't shared via a conference call. So get comfortable with that knowledge and make peace with the fact that everyone will not understand; everyone cannot go with you; everyone will like or accept your dreams; everyone will have an opinion.

Another point to remember: don't judge your success based on what is going on around you. It is tempting to think others in the market are doing well because of all the noise. If there is no noise at your stall then you aren't doing well. That is simply not true; it is the sale that matters. That is what determines your success. So on your journey through this thing called life; remember that your success should be defined by you; if it doesn't look like everything else you see around you; it's ok!

You're in the market to make a sale not make noise. So don't watch the noise in the market; watch the Sale!!

In a time where there is so much happening in the world - a Global pandemic; open season on black people - it is important that we know how to protect our peace. Your peace is that inner calm; that assurance, the spiritual and mental balance you create to deal with any and everything life throws at you. The five tips I share in this episode are meant to guide you and give you ideas about how you can protect your peace. You can implement all five; just one or as needed.

To protect your peace you should:

1. Take care of yourself - your body, mind and soul. (If you have trouble sleeping you can try magnesium supplements. "Magnesium may improve your sleep. It plays an important role in your nervous system, it helps to activate mechanisms that quiet and calm you. Magnesium helps to slow down your thinking by regulating a neurotransmitter called GABA. This neurotransmitter slows down communication between your brain and your central nervous system; helping you to relax, de-stress and ultimately fall asleep"

2. Pay attention to where you pay attention - Whatever you give your attention to is amplified; so if you look for the beauty in life that is all you will see. Conversely, if all you look for all this is wrong with this world; you will find it. Thought leaders share the principle that energy goes where energy flows; so be mindful of what gets your attention.

3. Enforce your boundaries - Learn to say no. Your boundaries are meant to protect you. You should know your limits as it relates to your emotional and mental health. Don't take on the emotional burden of others. Take a step back and don't be so accessible to others.

4. Be grateful - examine your life to see all the blessings you have in your life and all the things that are good about your life. Remind yourself; that there a persons who would trade places with you; so acknowledge the good in your life and be sincere with your gratitude. This will change your perspective and unlock all the magic in your life.

5. Be intentional with your thoughts, words and actions - your thoughts influence your perspective and impact your speech and actions. So be mindful of your thoughts. Feed your mind with uplifting content, positive affirms, empowering information. Guard your speech and don't damn yourself and retard your progress with your speech. Be an active participant in your life and be mindful of your actions.

I hope as you navigate the rest of this month, year and this thing called life. Remember your peace is precious.

There are two sides to every coin; just flip it to get the full view.

This year April 2, 2021 is celebrated around the world as Good Friday. It is indeed a Good Friday because it is my BIRTHDAY! This was the day I decided to make my grand entrance into the world and I had to share this day with you my faithful listeners. If you celebrate your day and do something special for yourself then are on the right track, carry on! But if you treat your birthday like any other day or worse; you don't acknowledge it; why is that? Why don't you celebrate your birthday?

I urge you to pause on reflect on the fact that you get one day to celebrate your entrance into this world and every day above ground should be celebrated; especially your birthday! Given the times we live in; you will have to get creative and so be it! Point is, do something to mark the day. Do something special because you deserve it. Please don't wait or depend on anyone to acknowledge your day; it's your day so you do it! You celebrate you! If you don't know how to; now is the time to learn. This year is as good as any to learn how to celebrate yourself; how to enjoy your company and how to make a big deal about the fact that your exist!

I trust that my quick birthday drop-in will inspire you to make the extra effort to celebrate your birthday. If you don't who will?! Remember you are worthy and deserve to be celebrated.

Thanks for listening and remember there are two sides to every coin just flip it to get the full view.

As I celebrate the birthday of the King of Reggae - Bob Marley; I had to reflect on his life, his message, his philosophy, his impact. Bob Marley left a mark on humanity and the impact of his music will be felt for centuries to come. His music and his unwavering message of love, peace and unity transcends race, gender, age and class. His mission was to bring a consciousness to people so they could "wake up and live".

This episode is in honor of Bob Marley and I want to share 6 lessons with you.

1. Don't work for success. Work for the fulfillment of your purpose.

2. Your words and your actions must align.

3. Speak life and speak love. (Episode 4 Intentional Speech How Words Hurt and Heal; talk about the power of words. Take a listen!)

4. Know thyself.

5. People must come into self awareness on their own.

6. Everything rests in the mind.

I trust that you will celebrate Bob Marley's birthday; play his music, remind yourself of his message and commit to walking a path that leads you to your purpose. Drop me a line and tell me your favorite Bob Marley song!

2021 is here and so is Season 3! This is the time we make promises to ourselves and resolutions for how we live our lives. I want to share three proverbs that we can use as guiding principles to consider as we navigate 2021.

1. If you want good you nose haffi run.

2. One one coco full basket.

3. Every long lane have a turning.

Don't give up, start where you, you will face obstacles and challenges. Don't lose heart, just look at what you have overcome! Be kind to yourself; extend as much grace as you need; first to yourself and then to others.

2021 is a new chapter, waiting to be written; so make it an epic tale!

My beautiful souls we made it!! Happy new year!! I am so grateful for your support and I thank you for sticking with me throughout this topsy turvy year!! I am so excited for 2021 and I want to share with you the lessons I am taking into 2021. What lessons are you taking with you I would love to hear!!

The quote about "having one income is hustling in reverse" comes from Kezia Williams. She is the CEO of the Black Up Start.  You can find her on IG @keziamw.

Find and follow Paul C Brunson on all socials; sign up for his Better With Paul community. He and his wife created an eBook with 57 ways to create different income streams. I recommend you get a copy and hit 2021 running. 

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Thanks for coming along on this bumpy ride that was 2020; look 2021 here we come!!!

Christmas 2020 will look nothing like previous years and as we all look to 2021; I hope Christmas will not look like this again!

For the Christmas and holiday season I wish for you an abundance of health; wealth; deep spirituality; fulfilling relationships and a life's journey that will twist and turn but take you where you are meant to go.

May this season bring you and your family all the peace, happiness, joy and prosperity that this Universe has to offer. May the magic of the season fill you with hope and great expectations for the rest of the year and for 2021!

As we race to the end of 2020; I can't help but reflect on all I have gone through personally and what the world has gone through as a collective. So much has been asked of us this year. My reflection led me to the idea; that our life is a decathlon and a not a sprint. All the preparation and training that goes into competing in such an event is intense and demanding. So too was 2020!! It was and is intense!!

It is my hope there is something in this episode that resonates with you. I hope you feel inspired and your faith and motivation are renewed!! We're not quite at the end but we're close. And just like an athlete would push and dig deep for the last 20 meters of the race; I want you to push and dig deep to finish 2020!!

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