Introducing The PhD Mommy’s Journey Podcast: Raise Children You Can Respect (And Who Can Respect You Back)

In Episode 19 of The PhD Mommy’s Journey, Bridgette dives into the fierce, honest, and heartfelt truth behind Rule 5 of Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life: “Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them.” This powerful conversation isn't just about parenting—it’s about responsibility, emotional regulation, leadership, and legacy.

As a service member and a mom, Bridgette shares what it looks like to raise daughters with love and structure—even when she’s thousands of miles away chasing her goals in the Navy and finishing her PhD. She unpacks the weight of generational healing, the pull to overcompensate, and how self-respect and boundaries shape how we parent and who we become.

Episode 19 challenges listeners to rethink what it means to raise children and raise themselves—with fierce love, intentional limits, and emotional maturity.

You’ll hear real talk on:

1. Parenting Without Apology Why loving your kids doesn’t mean pleasing them—and how to break free from guilt-based parenting.

2. Emotional Discipline in Leadership and Motherhood The difference between reacting and responding—and how discipline, not domination, builds trust and growth.

3. Respect is a Two-Way Street How raising children you admire starts with becoming someone you admire—and why the example you set matters more than the rules you enforce.

4. Overcompensation as a Military Mom What it feels like to parent from a distance—and how Bridgette wrestles with (and redefines) what it means to be enough.

5. The Power of Support Systems From family to school systems—how the right village makes it possible to chase your purpose while your children thrive too.

6. Leadership at Home and in the World Parenting as a leadership model: cultivating self-respect, authority, and strength—both in your home and in your own life.

Key Takeaways:

• You’re not failing if you’re not always present—your presence is also in your purpose.

• Parenting with structure and boundaries is a gift, not a punishment.

• Emotional regulation is one of the greatest leadership tools you can model for your children.

• Overcompensation isn’t the answer—trust, discipline, and support are.

• Respectful parenting starts with self-respect.

 

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If you would like to be a guest and share your story on The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast, please fill out this form. Link to Dr. Peterson's Book, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

Introducing The PhD Mommy’s Journey Podcast: Building a Life with Strategy, Self-Worth, and the 1% Rule

In Episode 18, “How to Elevate Your Life — Strategy, Self-Confidence & the 1% Rule,” Bridgette unpacks what it truly means to stop comparing yourself to others and start becoming the kind of woman who leads her life with clarity, discipline, and purpose. Inspired by Rule 4 from Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life, this episode explores how small daily improvements can lead to massive personal transformation.

Bridgette reflects on her powerful journey—from not being able to run a quarter of a mile to crushing her fitness goals in Navy training—and how embracing the 1% better mindset has helped her step into alignment, confidence, and purpose-driven living.

Episode 18 helps listeners take radical ownership of their journey through:

1. Turning Comparison into Strategy Why the only person you should compare yourself to is who you were yesterday—and how that mindset unlocks consistent growth.

2. The Power of the Inner Audit How to use your internal critic as a feedback tool instead of a source of shame—just like inspecting a home before buying it.

3. Discipline Over Perfection Why small, sustainable efforts matter more than dramatic overhauls—and how they create real momentum.

4. From Lost to Aligned Bridgette shares how leaving behind a teaching career, joining the Navy, and facing herself changed everything—from her body to her mindset and her mothering.

5. Focus, Aim, and Alignment How narrowing your focus helps you see what really matters—and why aiming higher brings deeper meaning to your life.

6. The Self-Responsibility Revolution What happens when you stop waiting to feel ready and start taking the small steps anyway—no matter how imperfect they feel.

7. Legacy, Alignment, and the Highest Good How choosing to aim high—beyond superficial desires—shifts your relationship with yourself, others, and the world around you.

 Key Takeaways:

• Small steps lead to lasting change.

• Growth comes from alignment, not pressure.

•  You have the power to elevate—right now, right where you are.

 

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If you would like to be a guest and share your story on The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast, please fill out this form. Link to Dr. Peterson's Book, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

 

Introducing The PhD Mommy’s Journey Podcast: Cultivating Aligned Relationships and Personal Power

In Episode 17, “Make Friends with People Who Want the Best for You,” Bridgette explores how powerful it is to intentionally elevate your relationships in a season of personal growth. Inspired by Rule 3 from Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life, this episode unpacks how friendships rooted in alignment—not obligation—can shift your entire mindset, discipline, and direction.

Bridgette shares what it’s looked like to walk away from draining relationships, build powerful new friendships during Navy training, and protect her peace while leveling up in her fitness, education, and personal life.

Episode 17 helps listeners reflect on how to protect their energy and embrace aligned connections through:

1. Toxic Loyalty vs. Healthy Connection

   • Recognizing when history is holding you hostage—and how to shift into relationships that honor your evolution.

2. Alignment as the New Standard

   • Choosing friends who match your values, goals, and growth mindset.

3. Letting Go Without Guilt

   • Why outgrowing people doesn’t mean abandoning them—it means honoring who you’re becoming.

4. Building an Empowered Circle

   • How to intentionally attract supportive, growth-minded relationships that speak life into your next level.

5. 7-Day Relationship Audit Challenge

   • A guided journaling challenge to evaluate your inner circle and make room for alignment.

This bold and freeing episode empowers listeners to honor their boundaries, protect their purpose, and walk boldly into relationships that reflect who they are becoming—not who they were.

Key Takeaways:

• Your circle is either nurturing your power—or draining it.

• You’re allowed to grow beyond what’s familiar.

• Relationships that align with your peace, purpose, and power are worth prioritizing.

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Introducing "The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast": Prioritizing Self-Care and Personal Growth 

In Episode 16, “Treat Yourself Like Someone You Are Responsible for Helping,” Bridgette shares how radical self-care, discipline, and daily intentionality can change your life. Drawing inspiration from Rule 2 of Dr. Jordan Peterson’s 12 Rules for Life, Bridgette opens up about her personal transformation—including completing Navy boot camp, losing over 100 pounds, and progressing toward her PhD proposal defense. She encourages listeners to reframe self-care as a personal responsibility rooted in self-worth and purpose.

Episode 16 helps listeners explore the power of showing up for themselves through:

1. Understanding Self-Neglect

   • Unpacking why we often extend more care to others than ourselves, and how to reverse that pattern through self-worth and intentional living.

2. The Psychological Impact

   • Highlighting research on self-compassion and emotional resilience, and sharing how Bridgette’s mindset shifted after embracing her own worth.

3. Implications for Personal Growth and Leadership

   • Discussing how prioritizing self-care empowers leadership, strengthens relationships, and models a healthier lifestyle for others.

4. Practical Tips for Implementation

   • Offering actionable ways to integrate self-care into your life, including boundaries, daily rituals, and compassionate self-talk.

5. 30-Day Self-Care Challenge

   • Inviting listeners to commit to one intentional act of self-care each day for the next 30 days to build habits that honor their value and growth.

This empowering episode highlights the connection between physical stance and mental state, encouraging listeners to stand tall, both physically and mentally, to navigate life's challenges with confidence, grace and resilience.

Key Takeaways:

• Standing up straight with your shoulders back is not just about physical appearance; it’s a mindset.

• Adopting a confident posture can improve your mental state and how others perceive you.

• Practical tips for maintaining good posture include regular check-ins, exercise routines, mental rehearsal, and positive affirmations.

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Email: [email protected] 

If you would like to be a guest and share your story on The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast, please fill out this form. Link to Dr. Peterson's Book, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

Introducing "The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast": Embracing Confidence and Strength

In Episode 15, "Stand Up Straight with Your Shoulders Back," Bridgette highlights the importance of adopting a confident posture to transform your mental and emotional well-being. Bridgette delves into the significance of physical posture, drawing from Dr. Jordan Peterson's book "12 Rules for Life," and connecting its role in personal growth, leadership and self-care.

Episode 15 helps listeners understand how adopting a strong and confident posture can positively impact their life by focusing on:

1. The Biological Perspective

   • Exploring how posture affects social status and behavior, with insights from the animal kingdom.

2. The Psychological Impact

   • Discussing the benefits of an assertive posture, supported by research, including a study by Patty Van Cappellen and colleagues showing how expansive and upward postures enhance positive affect.

3. Implications for Personal Growth and Leadership

   • Understanding how a confident posture can improve interactions and set a positive example in leadership roles.

4. Practical Tips for Implementation

   • Providing actionable advice on how to maintain good posture and incorporate self-care into daily routines.

This empowering episode highlights the connection between physical stance and mental state, encouraging listeners to stand tall, both physically and mentally, to navigate life's challenges with confidence, grace and resilience.

Key Takeaways:

• Standing up straight with your shoulders back is not just about physical appearance; it’s a mindset.
• Adopting a confident posture can improve your mental state and how others perceive you.
• Practical tips for maintaining good posture include regular check-ins, exercise routines, mental rehearsal, and positive affirmations.

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Email: [email protected] 

If you would like to be a guest and share your story on The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast, please fill out this form. Link to Dr. Peterson's Book, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

Introducting "The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast": How to Set S.M.A.R.T. Goals to Achieve What YOU Want in Life.

In Episode 14, "How to Set S.M.A.R.T. Goals", Bridgette highlights the importance of goal-setting on becoming a better version of yourself. Bridgette delves into the definition of goals, through the S.M.A.R.T. methodology, connecting the important role goal setting has in motherhood, business and life.

Episode 14 helps listeners how goal-setting helps you achieve anything you want in life by ensuring your goals are:

• Specific
• Measurable
• Achievable
• Relevant
• Time-Bound

This inspiring episode highlights the importance of Kobe Bryant's Mamba Mentality with believing in yourself, personal growth and development, stretching beyond your potential, and working on bettering yourself every single day. 

🔗 S.M.A.R.T. Goal Setting Worksheet

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Introducing “The PhD Mommy’s Journey Podcast”: How to Start Believing in Yourself

In this episode, “How to Start Believing in Yourself”, Bridgette highlights the importance self-efficacy has on becoming a more engaged parent. Bridgette delves into the definition of self-efficacy through the scientific method, connecting the important role each has in motherhood, business and life. Before plunging into the scientific marvels, Bridgette addresses a common feeling among her listeners: the common urge to break free from mediocrity. That, dear friends, is self-efficacy in action. Bridgette shows readers how self-efficacy focuses on believing in your remarkable abilities, conquering challenges and taking the reins of leadership to craft the life you desire. Throughout October, Bridgette has decided to dedicate herself to a remarkable journey of becoming a better mom by incorporating hands-on activities and exciting science projects into daily life. She begins this task through her favorite methodology: the scientific method. Picture messy high chairs and bubbly bathtubs as they explore "Bath Time Physics" and "High Chair Chemistry" by the brilliant Jill Esbaum.

“Bath Time Physics” and “High Chair Chemistry'' by Jill Esbaum, published by Candlewick Press and MIT Press Kids are highly recommended, captivating books that merge playtime with fundamental scientific principles, laying the foundation for future learning. Many research studies emphasize on the significance of picture books, which unfold as vibrant panoramas, painting worlds of wonder and wisdom in a child's eager eyes. They spark imagination, fuel curiosity, and lay the groundwork for literacy, cognitive development, and emotional intelligence. Plus, they provide a delightful way to bond with kids. Bridgette personally uses these books as a mom and a high school biology teacher; she believes these principles are vital and can be taught at any age. Get your copy on Amazon, Kindle, Barnes and Nobles, MIT Press, Candlewick Press, Target, and many other places. 

In the intricate ballet of motherhood, business, and life, play emerges as a rejuvenating melody. This episode highlights the importance of engaging in play, whether with little ones or as a personal respite, revitalizes the spirit, ignites creativity, and restores equilibrium in the mosaic of responsibilities. It's the reminder of joy amidst chaos, the nudge towards self-care, and the buoyant raft amidst life's adventures. Bridgette invites you to imagine applying the scientific method to your own daily life. As you encounter problems and solutions, you view the world as a way to conduct mini-experiments to better navigate challenges systematically, reinforcing self-belief, and making mothers even more awesome. In the whirlwind of life, Bridgette encourages parents to pause and immerse themselves intentionally in their children's world. She also stresses the importance of encouraging their curiosity, exploration of the world and being their companions in discovery and life. By doing so, they lay the cornerstone for critical thinking, problem-solving, and a lifelong love for learning.

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Introducing “The PhD Mommy’s Journey Podcast”: The Power of Self-Efficacy

Join Bridgette (Brie) Ojo, The PhD Mommy and ultimate millennial mompreneur guide, in her captivating podcast series designed exclusively for ambitious mompreneurs like you! As an educator, scientist, researcher, and PhD candidate, Bridgette is dedicated to helping other dominate their sector in the marketplace while nurturing mindset, motherhood, and motivation. Get ready to embark on a transformative journey through storytelling with science, business, entrepreneurship, research, and personal experiences are intricately woven to empower and embolden you in creating a sustainable financial ecosystem.

In this episode, “The Power of Self-Efficacy”, Bridgette highlights the importance of self-efficacy and what it means to believe in yourself. Bridgette introduces the topic of self-efficacy, the belief in one's capacity to accomplish tasks. Self-efficacy was first proposed by Albert Bandura in 1977 and is a key predictor of behavior change. Self-efficacy influences goals, energy, and likelihood of success. Bridgette shows examples of self-efficacy in practice through the self-efficacy theory (SET), which has influenced various fields, including health psychology, education and sociology. Bridgette provides examples of applications: self-management of chronic diseases, smoking cessation, alcohol use, eating, pain control, and exercise. As a devoted entrepreneur, Bridgette shows readers how self-efficacy is the secret sauce for achieving dreams. In a fast-paced business world, it's easy to doubt ourselves. Self-efficacy is the inner voice that pushes us to push beyond our limits. Believing in our abilities makes us resilient and unstoppable. Research shows that when we believe in our abilities, we take on challenges with resilience. Florence Scovell Shin and Dr. Jordan Peterson's wisdom aligns with self-efficacy and faith; Bridgette is a firm believer in using outside sources to help fine-tune and better understand us. She believes that when we combine faith, belief, and philosophy, we become unstoppable.

"Across Both Sides of the Mirror" by Bianca Pensy Aba is a highly recommended book. It is a beautifully crafted adult contemporary low fantasy novel touching on existential crisis, found family, individuality, and African mythology. Bridgette personally loved the book and felt a deep connection with the main character, Nova. Get your copy on Amazon, Kindle, or Barnes and Nobles.

This episode harmoniously blends market research solutions with self-efficacy to help you harness tool to dominate your sector. Reflect on your incredible power and embrace unshakable self-belief. Bridgette believes in your duty to embrace your God-given talents, apply research and business wisdom, and anchor yourself in faith. As Christian mompreneurs, Phillipians 4:13 reminds us we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Embrace self-efficacy, align with a greater power, and boldly step into the marketplace. Hold onto the truth and remember you are destined for greatness. Self-efficacy empowers us to rise above self-doubt. We are capable, driven, and together, an unstoppable force. As you stretch your God-given potential, Bridgette encourages you to always shatter glass ceilings, push beyond limits, and make your mark on the world.

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Introducing "The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast": Your Path to Financial Mastery!

Join Brie, the ultimate millennial mompreneur guide, in her captivating podcast series designed exclusively for ambitious mompreneurs like you. As an educator, scientist, and successful mama, Brie unveils the secrets to building generational wealth and seizing total financial control. Get ready to embark on a transformative journey where science, research, and personal experiences converge to empower you in creating a sustainable financial ecosystem.

In this episode, "The Importance of Creating a Sustainable Garden," Brie unleashes the untapped potential within you. She paints a vivid picture of how nature's wisdom parallels your entrepreneurial voyage, infusing biology with business brilliance. Brace yourself as symbiotic relationships and sustainability take center stage, unveiling the winning formula for your mompreneurial triumph.

Immerse yourself in the metaphorical world of gardens and farmers, where the right seeds (your genius ideas) flourish in fertile environments. Brie shares her captivating insights, revealing how aligning your purpose with your target audience's needs unlocks your unique business niche—a pathway to unstoppable success!

Unlock the three-step strategy—Know, Sow, Grow—to unleash your mompreneurial prowess. Brie masterfully guides you through the art of self-awareness, goal setting, and personal growth. Prepare to witness the magnificent transformation as you cultivate your own garden of dreams, nurturing your seeds of success with dedication and determination.

But the journey doesn't stop there! Brie unveils the vital connection between personal growth and business prosperity. Discover the power of authenticity and the influence it wields in shaping your brand. Embrace the wild ride of self-discovery and unleash your full potential to create an impact that leaves a lasting legacy.

As you devour each episode, remember that you're not alone on this incredible voyage. Brie eagerly awaits your feedback, urging you to share this podcast with fellow mompreneurs who crave financial empowerment. Don't miss out on a single episode—subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app.

Prepare to be captivated, inspired, and equipped with the tools and knowledge you need to conquer the world as a millennial mompreneur. Follow Brie on Instagram @thephdmommylife, sign up for her newsletter, and unleash your true potential. Remember, greatness awaits you!

This is not just a podcast—it's your ticket to financial freedom, personal growth, and unparalleled success. Welcome to "The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast," where curiosity, humility, and an insatiable hunger for success reign supreme.

 

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Episode 10: How to Enjoy Life, Plan the Journey

In this episode of The PhD Mommy's Journey Podcast, Brie delves into two profound concepts: 'Experience' and 'Perception' – two potent tools that can shape your life's journey.

Experience

According to Merriam-Webster (n.d.), 'experience' is defined as, "the conscious events that make up an individual's life." Our experiences are a combination of what we live through, learn from, and use as a stepping stone to personal growth. Merriam-Webster further defines experience as, "the act or process of directly perceiving events of reality." 

Each experience, whether it's a business win, a parenting breakthrough, or even a setback, adds a unique layer to your life. These experiences are not just events, but lessons that shape you, teaching resilience, patience, innovation, and tenacity. They mold you into a dynamic woman who can pivot a business strategy while also managing a toddler tantrum.

Perception

'Perception', on the other hand, is the way we understand or interpret our experiences. It causes us to, "attain awareness or understanding of" the lens through which we view our world, influencing our mindset and, in turn, our reality.

Perception is a fascinating aspect of our human experience. It's our personal interpretation of the world around us, shaped by our senses, experiences, and individual cognitive processes. Perception is like a personal filter (or lens) for our reality. It's how we make sense of what we see, hear, touch, taste, and smell. But it goes beyond just our five senses. It includes how we interpret situations, understand others' actions, and even how we view ourselves. Perception can be influenced by our background, beliefs, values, and current emotional state, making it unique to each individual.

Why You Should Care

Through engaging storytelling, enlightening discussion, and sharing educational insights, Brie explores how these concepts play a critical role in developing a mindset that allows you to fully enjoy life. She also discuss strategies to plan your ultimate destination, be it a state of financial freedom, a lifestyle imbued with discipline and motivation, or a self-made haven of mental well-being.

Join Brie as she unravels the power of experience and perception, guiding you towards a paradigm shift that can be life-changing.

Let's journey together, proving that even amidst the challenges of parenting and entrepreneurship, millennial moms like you can cultivate a mindset focused on enjoyment, growth, and achieving your desired destination.

Remember, the key to living an enriched life doesn't lie in what you experience, but rather how you perceive it. Tune in, and take a step closer to that ultimate destination!

 

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