I am so excite to bring you the first Ask PJ of 2015. Like I mention on my previous episode, I want the PJ Trell Show Podcast to be about you and your love, sex and relationships issues as well as your success stories you want to share with the community.

Sometimes all you need to get through a rough spot in a relationship is to learn how someone else handled the same exact situation. So I have dedicated Ask PJ to that very principle. All topics on Ask PJ are your questions!

I have made it easy for you to ask your question by visiting my website [pjtrellshow.com](www.pjtellshow.com) or my [Facebook page](https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-PJ-Trell-Show/182717953219) . There I have embeded a voice message recoder to collect your questions for Ask PJ. Just click on the record button and ask your questions. How easy is that!!!!!!

To give you more incentive to ask a question, we are giving away a $50.00 gift certificate for items in the [PJ Trell Show Shop](http://www.pjtrellshow.com/shop/), to one lucky PJ Trell Show newsletter subscriber, blog subscriber or voice mail participant.

All of you will be automatically entered into the drawing and the winner will be announced on the August 5, 2015 podcast. The cut off for entering the drawing is on August 1, 2015. So ask those questions and possibly win some free stuff. How cool is that!!!!!

## **In This Episode**

On this episode of As PJ, a young lady asks if she should tell a friend about a cheating boyfriend or husband. My guest and I will discuss the pros and cons of telling her friend.

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Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of the PJ Trell Show. The show that's dedicated to love sex and relationships. I want to thank all my listeners for your support. You guys are the reason I continue to do the show. Love and Relationships is not easy. Men and women often have such different out looks on the subjects which some times leads to conflicts in a relationship.

Hopefully some of the topics that we discuss will help resolve some of those conflicts. Like I mention on my last episode, the show is geared more toward the subjects that are important to you. So please send in your questions for the Ask PJ portion of the show. Listed below are all the ways you can submit your questions.

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I had many discussion with some of my friends about their spouses or girls lack of interest in oral sex. Not receiving but giving. I don't have this problem in my relationship because I don't put a lot stock in receiving oral sex. If my woman is feeling the urge to perform oral sex then I am more than happy to receive but I don't pressure her at all. I am more of a giving lover. I find it very interesting that a lot of my friends put so much emphases on oral sex that I decided to do some research in the why some women don't enjoy the act and what can men do to improve their chances of receiving oral sex. If this is something that you are interested in checkout my latest blog post http://dld.bz/dDq39

On this episode we discuss our opinion on Male Ass Play. I was joined on this episode by my Co-Host Eagle Eye, Queen T, and new comer to the PJ Trell Show, Sheenan.

We had varied opinion on the subject of male ass play, from it's a gay tendency, to it's an expectably between a man a woman.

What's your opinion about male ass play? Please leave a comment.

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On this episode of the PJ Trell Show, My Guest and I discuss interracial dating. Ms Jane is a lovely young German lady who enjoys dating Black men. We discuss why she perfer black men as opposed to her own race, her experiences dating a black men and her family and friend reactions to her dating chose and much more!!

The PJ Trell Show has dedicated a portion of the show to you and your love, sex and relationship concerns. We want to focus more issues that are important to you and bring more value to the show. Ask PJ!!! Please submit your questions to any of the links below and we will answer as many questions as possible on the up coming show.

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We've all been there. We see our partner (most likely harmlessly) flirting with the waitress or hear about our co-worker getting the promotion we really wanted. The knowledge of these events can launch us from content to seething in a matter of moments.

Jealousy and envy both have a tendency to bubble up unexpectedly -- one little observation can have a huge impact on our emotions. But how we handle them is what truly matters.

We all get a visit from the green-eyed monster from time to time, but that doesn't mean we have to let him rent space in our minds.

On this episode of the PJ Trell Show, we discuss our experiences with relationship jealousy and how we dealt with it.

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On this episode we discuss our “Top 5 First Thing You Notice In A Person Of The Opposite Sex”. Below I listed some of the responses to this questions from different discussion groups I am a part of.

” I look at stature I think, but looking at the opposite sex is new for me so I'm not totally sure. I like a bigger guy, kind of stocky (height isn't so much of an issue, it's more about presence). I also adore facial hair. So fuzzy with big arms and a bit of a belly... hot. Also, I've noticed recently that a bit of man boob makes me hot, I think that's the residual from being with only women for 18 years. But, after all of that, it's the eyes that seal the deal.”

-Anonymous

” Firstly breasts, I see them way before I can distinguish the face. But when talking the first thing I will notice is a great sense of humor. Nowadays a great personality would beat great tits hands down.”

-Steve

”Eyes!
why? well, like what they say about eyes, it's the window to the soul.

You can see pretty much about their character by talking to them while looking at their eyes. Are they bright and cheerful? soft and caring? or gloomy and blank?
There are so many things you can understand from one person, just by the way they look at you or where do they look at when speaking.

The next thing I would notice is, Smile.
Is it a sincere smile, sad smile, or wicked smile?
You can see so many expressions just by looking at how they move their lips when they talk.”

-Melisa

“Sometimes a voice will knock me over. Other times, it’s the way they move. Obviously that is only first impression stuff. Looks are fine, but that gets a glance only.

I swear I believe in pheromones. Attraction is frequently inexplicable for me.”

-Julie

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So Can Men and Women Keep Their Relationship Platonic?

Can there be non-sexual and non-romantic relationships between men and women be possible -- despite what our culture depicts. "Friendships, unlike romantic relationships, aren't as interesting in a sex-obsessed, commodity-ridden culture.

Today's society plants the idea of friends turning into romantic interests in our heads, making it difficult for some to recognize a platonic friendship. When we value friendship for the sake of collaboration and community, rather than sex, then friendships can flourish. But that's easier said than done.

Keep out what our thoughts are on the subject.

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On this episode of the PJ Trell Show, the Gang and I discuss Kinks and Fetishes.

What is a Fetish?

A Festish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

"Victorian men developed fetishes focusing on feet, shoes, and boots"

synonyms: fixation, obsession, compulsion, mania

A fetish is sexual excitement in response to an object or body part that’s not typically sexual, such as shoes or feet. They’re more common in men.

Many people with fetishes must have the object of their attraction at hand or be fantasizing about it, alone or with a partner, in order to become sexually aroused, get an erection, and have an orgasm.

A person with a fetish might masturbate while they hold, smell, rub, or taste the object. Or they might ask their partner to wear it or use it during sex.**

Most Common Fetishes

People can “fetishize” almost anything.

According to a study, the most common fetishes involve body parts, such as feet, or body features, such as obesity, piercings, or tattoos. The feet are by far the most common. Body fluid, body size, and hair fetishes aren’t far behind.

After body parts comes things you wear. The same study put clothes worn on the hips and legs, such as stockings and skirts, at the top of the list. Footwear, then underwear, ranked closely behind.

Fetishes that involve the feel of a certain material, often leather or rubber, are also common. Some people like dressing themselves and their partner in furry animal costumes.

Whether somebody is doing this by themselves or with a partner, if they’re happy with it, then it’s not an issue as long as it causes pleasure and no one is being forced to take part.

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Hello eveyone and welcome to The PJ Trell Show first episode of 2015, so we wanted to make this show a special one. When I tell women that I host a podcast about Love, Sex and Relationships their first question is "Where are all the good men?" My response is "What is a good man to you?" Many women are not sure what kind of man they really want, so on this episode of the PJ Trell Show "The Hunt For A Good Man" we will discuss some of the issue women face when trying to find a good man.

I'm joined by my Co-host Eagle Eye and a new comer to the show MJ, who is a young single professional woman looking for a good man, share some of her concerns regarding the elusive good man. Eagle Eye and I point out some of the mistakes women that we observe which hinder some woman from finding and holding on to a good man.

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Because of the NFL Football Star Adrian Peterson Child Abuse case, corporal punishment has been pushed to the forefront in the US media. Many Americans believe that corporal punishment should be outlawed, while others believe that it is necessary in order to raise your child properly. On this episode of the PJ Trell Show, both side of the argument is presented. What's your opinion on the matter? Please leave a comment.

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Hello everyone!!!! The PJ Trell Show is back!!!! On this episode of the PJ Trell Show, Novocain and I discuss how we dealt with our most painful breakup.

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