In this episode, Matthew gives a short but packed out teaching on ways to ruin your prayer meeting - and how to fix it! If you've ever sat through a bad prayer meeting, or tried to engage in prayer unsuccessfully, or want to host a prayer meeting that everyone enjoys, give yourself 20 minutes to listen to this one.
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Most people who think of the phrase "prayer meeting" envision something awkward, or boring. Matthew's definitely experienced some like that as well! But no matter what the size of your meeting, he's got some tips on how to ruin it - and how to enjoy it.
1 - Don't start on time.
It's hard enough to get people to a prayer meeting, but if you start late each time, people will show up late, and it'll lose value.
2 - Skip the prayer part of the meeting.
In some instances, it simply gets cancelled. It's lower priority than other church functions, so it gets pushed back fairly often. Or, it turns into "fellowship" time instead and no praying (or very little praying) actually happens.
3 - Have no plan and no leader (or, just "show up and see what happens")
If you think about all the other activities that take place at church, lots of planning takes place and someone is in charge to make sure it's working. Think though what you'll be praying for. Think through who will be directing the prayer times, how long people should be praying, and whether it's more intercessory or worshipful. Having a plan beforehand can really give people a direction.
4 - Just pray what comes to mind (have no focus)
People have a hard time engaging when the prayers are all over the place and random. Coming into agreement is what gives prayer power, and we shut that off when we bounce all around. Having a focus we can all agree on together brings unity and power to the prayer meeting.
5 - Be loud and dominate the meeting
There is definitely biblical merit for loud, passionate prayers, but in a group setting it can occasionally be distracting or make someone else feel like their prayers are less important. Praying too long can also shut it down quickly; more than a few minutes and people are checking out and looking at the door.
6 - Leave your Bible at home
Praying the Bible is a powerful way to host a prayer meeting. It's very easy to get in your feelings and pray something unbiblical, which obviously God will not answer! It also brings unity to pray the Bible, as even with different churches and denominations we can generally agree in the Bible being truth.
7 - Don't sing or worship
When you look at the throne room in Heaven in Revelation 4 and 5, you see the bowl full of incense, which is the prayers of the saints, AND you see the harp worshiping. Starting with music can be an excellent way to get everyone engaged and focused. It doesn't have to be a full band doing the IHOP model (although that's great) - even in your personal prayer time or with a small group you can simply play some worship music on your phone while you pray.
8 (bonus tip!) - Don't teach or train anyone about prayer
If you look at the example of Jesus and His disciples, they didn't ask to be taught how to do miracles or walk on water - they asked Him to teach them how to pray. And yet, most Christians don't have a clear understanding of what prayer can look like or how it should sound. This goes back to being intentional - just a few minutes of biblical and practical training at the beginning can make all the difference.
So, next time you're hosting or just going to a prayer meeting, try applying some of these ideas. Share them with someone who wants to host prayer. It could be the catalyst to build a community of believers around your that really LOVE their prayer meetings!