Why do so many men, especially the ALPHA men, have such a hard time connecting and communicating properly with their partners. Some people are convinced that it's because of their upbringing. Others believe that men don't really understand "WHY" they feel the need to always be the problem solving tough guy. Maybe it's the films we watch. Maybe it's the way advertising companies falsely portray the way men are supposed to act in public. Either way, it does not really matter because in the end all men, alpha or not, must learn how to properly communicate or risk losing everything!

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"THE BEST WAY FOR ME TO BE HELPFUL IS TO ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS THAT YOU MAY HAVE CONCERNING STEP-DADS, BIO DADS OR MEN IN GENERAL, ASK AWAY" I posted this question on FaceBook and today I am going to answer of few of those questions, Enjoy

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Everyone has their opinion about what it really takes to find success as a Step-Dad today. You can read the books, watch the videos, attend the meetings or post on social media if you are searching for ways to become a better step-dad but if you can't master the art of "PATIENCE" you will never succeed.

Patience is what I like to refer to as "The Secret Sauce"

It's the ingredient you will need before you go any further in your journey, PLAIN AND SIMPLE...... yet

extremely COMPLICATED if you're not careful!

Enjoy

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I want you to keep this in mind; the kids are a DIRECT REFLECTION of you!

If your standards and values don't line up with your purpose of being the best Step-Dad you can be, you're not going to make it! Raise your personal standards and you will begin to see a shift within your home.

I also took the time to address a few comments and concerns in regards to the struggles of being a Step-Dad.

Enjoy

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On today's episode I talk about the phrase "Do what I say not what I do" and I answer a few questions, honestly, sent in by a couple of Step-Dad's who are bravely fighting in the trenches! Enjoy

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On today's episode I respond in kind to the direct messages I have received from Bio Dad's who are under the impression that I am out to get them! I also discuss a problem that another Step-Dad is facing in his home, every time his kids return from Bio Dad's house. It's important to remember that you can not control the outside negativity because it comes in waves! But, you can lay down a strong foundation, within your home, that is built to weather any storm!

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Over the past 24 episodes I have stressed the importance of developing positive daily habits and routines to go along with your personal growth and development. On today's episode, I share exactly what I do each day to better prepare myself for the riggers of parenting, marriage and everything in between.

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What are you holding onto that keeps you in the game? Why are you still here? These are several questions I pose on today's show because I really want to know your "WHY". All Step-Dads begin their journey for a specific reason and it's safe to say that "REASON" has to be pretty strong to keep a man focused throughout all the bullsh*t.

So, what are you holding on to that is keeping you in the game? GO..........

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Today I was planning to discuss the benefits of joining "Step-Dad" groups on social media but that changed DRASTICALLY! After reading just ONE comment, made by a Step-Dad who was seeking help, I could not help but feel disappointed and somewhat discussed by the advice and responses he was getting. To say I was disappointed is putting it lightly so I decided to speak about it!

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One day after Fathers Day and I was BLOWN AWAY by the amount of Step-Dads who spent almost all of their time complaining about how much they hate fathers day! Then I answer a few questions for Dom, a Step-Dad who is striving to be the best father and husband he can be.

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