There is a very big difference between wishing for something great to happen and working for it. All stepparents do their best to balance the good and the bad times, which will inevitably show up, no matter what we do.

If we want to find success and happiness, then we need to make our peace with the "Work" required to build the trust needed for the future. You can't just sit back, relax, and pray for a miracle. Being a stepparent requires your undivided attention, communication, humility and love if you ever hope to get to a point where you feel "VALUED" within your home.

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What does it mean to be Self-Accountable? To me it means you are doing the things, in your daily routine, that will contribute to your overall growth as a man, leader and step-dad. It's extremely important to have a system in place, for your thoughts, so that you can always try and better your best!

In today's episode, I discuss the importance of keeping a daily journey, self reflection, and simple (bite size) daily routines designed to keep you moving forward.

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Logan explains that he is not an expert. He is what most would consider a “rookie” at Step-Dad life.Logan has been married for 14 months now and has been involved with his wife and her son for over 2 years! Amidst all the struggles and difficulties the blended family lifestyle brings, he wouldn’t trade it for anything.

Logan believes that his role as Step-Dad is a wonderful and rewarding opportunity, in the life of a child who does not share your DNA. He wants to share his story and hopefully give you some encouragement and hope for future and present Step-Dads around the world.

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Are you able to be honest with yourself, I mean really honest, when it comes to this question? If you were to look at the past year of your journey could you pinpoint a few things you are currently doing that is causing more harm than good?

Are you able to come to peace with your past in order to secure a healthier future for you and your new family? Today's topic requires you to think deep and to make a firm decision concerning your future.

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Allow me to be brutally honest with you for a moment. Being a Step-Dad, in. new family, should never feel like an obligation and should always feel like an opportunity. This is your time to change the way you think. This is the time to build a strong partnership that can weather any storm. This is the time to connect with your kids in a way your parents never did.

Yes I know your STEPPED up. Yes I know your expectations were great. Yes I know your intentions were honorable. But, if you don't want to be there or you feel obligated to stay I ask you to rethink your decision to become a Step-Dad in the first place. Your family is not an obligation that requires your presents, trust me. It's time to recognize the incredible opportunity you find yourself in and build a strong family dynamic filled with love and trust!

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Making the decision to step into your new family does not mean you are ready to be a leader. It is going to take hours of self reflection and self awareness before you reach the point in your journey, as a Step-Dad, where you can feel a sense of accomplishment. Stepping up, means doing all the necessary work needed to ensure a successful journey! So, when are you going to really Step-Up?

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Today I sat down and spoke with Ian Patrick Pearce, a fellow Step-Dad and all around great man! Ian began his journey as a Step-Dad a few years ago and is now engaged to his soulmate. In a very short amount of time Ian has reached a level of Love and Trust with his Fiancé and his Daughter that would take the majority of Step-Dads YEARS to achieve.

This is his story!

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Have you ever wondered "WHY" your temper is so short? Have you ever taken the time to figure out "WHY" you get so upset when if your kids don't value your presents in the family? Your actions and your reactions, within the home, are directly associated with your beliefs and your values.

Be careful how you cast your "Parenting Stone" into the deep sea of life. Your children's future depends on it!

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There is a very big difference between asking for advice and wanting advice. When you ask, you are looking for others who share your POV, so you don't feel alone in this world. When you WANT advice, you gather relevant information that can be applied to your journey RIGHT NOW! So the question is this; "Are you wanting REAL help and guidance or are you wanting to simply complain to the world?"

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The majority of couples, who find themselves trying to navigate the complexity of blending a family, are heading down a tough road which leads to separation and pain. Why? Does it have to lead to that? The answer is NO and Episode 032 will explain WHY.

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