Hi guyyys! This week I start off by telling you about my accident earlier this week. Then I talk about how my friendship with gossip guy has changed since he is now seeing someone. Also I will be ranting about things that annoy me at Panjabi parties recently! ✨ Song of the Week: It’s not my fault | Reneè Rapp and Megan Thee Stallion ✨ Follow me on TikTok to see what I get up to: @simmm_k or use the link: https://www.tiktok.com/@simmm_k?_t=8j8sOLquotd&_r=1 hope everyone has a lovely week ♥️

Hi guysss!!! So you know my favourite topic to talk about is relationships. This week I talk about how social media affect’s our perception and views about love. In the episode I focus on how social media trends and aesthetics affect our relationships. Also I now have TikTok so my username is @simmm_k so follow me to see what I get up to! ✨Song of the Week: Fools in Love | Inara George ✨ Reminder: please don’t compare yourself to other people on social media so much of it is fake and probably not how their reality is. The fact is that we don’t know the context that surrounds the 10 second story or post. Remember to focus on what matters and is valuable to you. So many people focus on the style and aesthetics of how their relationship looks on social media. But ask yourself this do you unconditionally love this person? At their core do you and this person share the same values? Is this relationship superficial or is there actually any substance? What would you describe love as? Everybody deserves to be genuinely loved ♥️ Thank you guys for listening and supporting hope everyone has a lovley week ♥️ x TikTok: @simmm_k or use the link: https://www.tiktok.com/@simmm_k?_t=8j8sOLquotd&_r=1

Hiiiii guyssss! So it’s is officially 2024 and I hope everyone has had a nice start to the new year! A BIG thank you to ALL MY listeners for being supportive throughout 2023! So for the first episode of the year I decided to talk about some of my fashion pet peeves. Also some advice for everyone during January sales; please don’t feel pressured to buy anything. But to those of you who wish to change up your wardrobe I find it helpful to know that I’m buying an item because I genuinely like it and wanna wear it rather than ‘because everyone else is wearing it and it’s trendy’. I WANT to encourage everyone to be authentically themselves! One way we express ourselves is through clothes and fashion so I hope everyone has the courage to embrace their true selves and wear something they feel confident and comfortable in! ✨ Song of the week: I won’t back down by Benjamin Francis Leftwich ✨ Hope everyone has a lovely week 🥰 ♥️ x

Hiiii guyssss! So this is the last episode of 2023 and I will be back on Jan 5th! Defo listen to the beginning of the episode it does somewhat have a point lol! This week I have ranked my top 25 Panjabi songs of 2023 that I personally have enjoyed listening to. Also I discuss a few of the things that 2023 has taught me and reflect on events throughout the year. Additionally, I have a little rant about clothes and shopping. Also stick around to the end of the episode because I share my take on the banning of lenghas at the Gurdwara. ✨ Song of the week: All I Want For Christmas Is You | Mariah Carey ✨ 🎄Wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas to those celebrating 🎄 ❄️☃️ Hope everyone listening has a very lovely winter break☃️❄️ ✨🥂Also wishing everyone a very Happy New Year I hope everyone has a lovely start to 2024 🥂✨ A BIG thank you to everyone for listening and supporting throughout the year. x ♥️ luv you guys Sim x 🥹

Hi guyssss!!! So this week I decided to do an updated gift guide for the festive season. The gift guide has ideas that you can cater to any gender, age group and budget. And then I give gift ideas for Secret Santa for those with a specific budget. Also I share some of my fav Christmas movies that I’ll be watching this holiday season. ✨🎄Song of the Week: Last Christmas | Wham ✨🎄thank you guys for listening appreciate the support! I hope you guys got some ideas for gifts for your friends, family, partner, neighbour or even just a treat for yourself because u deserve it x ♥️ Note: I know I might get criticism for this episode but as most regular listeners know my Great Aunt sadly passed away recently. So while we won’t be doing anything extravagant this festive season due to this; I still wanted to do an updated gift guide episode. Thank you guys for being understanding and supportive! 🥹

Hi guys!!! Happy Thanksgiving to everyone celebrating! So inspired by Thanksgiving I thought it would be nice to slow down and think about what we are thankful and grateful for in our lives. This week I talk about some of the key things and people I am thankful for in 2023 (if I mentioned all the things we would be here a while). This year has been different for me and I feel like I have grown and learnt a lot so I am thankful that you guys show up every week and have joined me in this journey. Also I review Sukhas UNDISPUTED EP. ✨Song of the Week: 8 ASLE | Sukha, Chani Nattan, Prodgk, Gurlez Akhtar ✨ Hope everyone listening has a lovely week you deserve it ♥️ luv u guys xx

Hi guys!!!! So I had a somewhat unpleasant week and felt like doing an ep! This week’s episode is super chatty and unhinged! As I talk about my Roman Empire and why I might be a commitment phobe. There will still be an ep next Friday but this one’s just for fun cos I felt like it! ✨Song of the Week| Watch Out by Sidhu Moose Wala and Sikander Kahlon ✨ Really appreciate everyone who supports me and listens to the episodes honestly it makes my day so thank you so much for being here! luv u guys x ♥️

Hiiii guys! This week I talk about some of the things I discussed about relationships with my bhua and fufad (who came round at the weekend) and how their views differ from my own. The topics include not putting myself out there, family reputation, dating someone outside the Punjabi community, caste and fear of dying alone! ✨ Song of the week: Attraction | Sukha ✨ Note: I understand that their views reflect thoughts people in the Panjabi community have and the environment that they have been brought up in. And I’m not necessarily saying their views are wrong; but that I personally don’t resonate with them. Funnily for the surprise party (my stupidity is mentioned in previous episodes) when I told my Dad that we’re were going to meet a guys parents (for casual rishta talks lol) he did not ask about the guy or the family. Maybe my upbringing and resolve has been different than my cousins which is why I cannot not fully agree with their views. While I still respect them to some extent the strained nature of these relationships means that I find it difficult to accept that they fully understand me as a person and individual. As in their perspective I come across as an ‘uncultured’ and ‘whitewashed’ individual; which I am not. Like I have previously stated it has taken a lot for me to open up and be vulnerable. But in instances such as these involving family who have not been present for much of my life means that it is harder for us to understand each other and be on the same wavelength. One thing I had to learn was not to care what other people think. This is because most of the time people are too busy dealing with their own stuff to even bother with what you’re doing. So what’s the point in trying to make everyone happy (which simply is not possible) while being extremely miserable yourself. At this point I really don’t care what anyone thinks of me because for the FIRST time I am actually putting myself first. And no not in a selfish way but in a way that I DESERVE to not feel guilty about not caring about how people perceive me and my reputatio. It is obvious that being under pressure to live up to unattainable standards and high expectations has made me re-think what is personally important to ME. And that does not include living up to other peoples expectations and how they want me to live MY life. And the end of the day like everyone else I’m trying my best! ty to everyone that made it this far I don’t know why this bothered me as much as it did! Probs because I like to do my own thing and be authentic! I really appreciate everyone being supportive and understanding it acc means a lot to me that someone understands where I’m coming from. Because isn’t what everyone wants is to be loved, understood and to be able to be themselves without being judged. Love u guys x ♥️🥹 literally is Nov atm and I can’t believe how fast this yr has gone! hope everyone reading this has a lovely week you deserve it xxx

Hi guys! So basically this week I found out that my Great-Aunt sadly passed away; hence why I’m a bit of a mess in at the start. This was truly shocking for me and my family as it was completely unexpected. 💔 Thank you for bearing with me at the start. So this week I really wanted to talk about dating tips for Brown Guys because the state of dating is a shambles at the moment. Then I talked about a few of my fav romantic punjabi songs. Also it’s spooky season 🎃 and I have been binging some of my fav comfort Halloween movies (as someone who hates horror or scary movies)🍿🎥 I talk about some of my childhood favs! Happy Halloween to everyone celebrating 🎃 ✨Song of the week: Noormahal | Chani Nathan, Inderpal Moga and J-Statik ✨ I really appreciate everyone for being here it honestly means the world to me at this time 🥹♥️ lots of love sim x

Discussion Timeeee! Hi guyssss! This week I discuss my thoughts and ideas surrounding this ban on Sikh destination weddings. ✨Song of the Week: Mi Amor | Sharan, 40k and The Paul ✨ hope everyone has a nice week ♥️ Also Happy Birthday to any listeners celebrating this week lots of love Sim x 🩵🥳 thank you for listening! Note: will still have an ep next Friday as per usual.