"Work is so crazy right now, but we should meet up soon." -text from a guy who wants the Purple Gumball

This episode is all about the Purple Gumball, or the guy who gets high off you chasing and pursuing him. He's the guy who says and does just enough to keep you reeled in, but doesn't actually offer anything valuable to your life. He just takes and takes.

He's the one who's always "too busy" and "not ready to date"...even though he's messaging you on a dating site.

You may start to question...why is he not excited to meet with me? Is there something wrong with me?

It is NOT about you. A person who doesn't respect another person's time, doesn't respect themselves.

Tune in to listen to the full break down of the Purple Gumball, and how you can respond to this behavior.

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Gumball Flavors Series:

• The Red Gumball: Sex
• The Orange Gumball: Drama
• The Yellow Gumball: Entertain Me
• The Green Gumball: Compete with Her for Me
• The Blue Gumball: Pity Me