The Purpose Matrix

Phil talks with Gary Lipske about entrepreneurship, leadership, and how to build real momentum by staying focused on one priority at a time. Gary shares how his early hustle, business experiments, and work across real estate, youth leadership, and creative projects all come back to the same core skill set: solving problems, creating value, and leading people well. They also dig into courage, mentorship, and why strong teams need ownership, clear communication, and genuine connection. Gary explains how those ideas shaped his work with thousands of K through 12 students and how they continue to guide his real estate leadership today.

03:34 - Why Gary focuses on one business at a time

05:57 - Finding the courage to leave safety behind

13:33 - How Gary got into youth leadership work

20:48 - Gary’s leadership philosophy in real estate and with staff

23:58 - Why communicating the “why” changes team performance

27:59 - People want to feel accepted, appreciated, and valued

30:12 - Building the right team so each person can play to strengths

31:12 - How Gary decides what to focus on next

32:43 - Creating win-win outcomes in real estate

34:33 - Crucial Conversations and the value of hard discussions

35:20 - Why he’s optimistic about multifamily real estate

36:09 - Where to learn more about Gary and his work

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Phil Moeller talks with Chuck Huggins, Chief Growth Officer at Aileron, about the hidden burden many business owners carry: overwhelm, loneliness, and the tendency to hold onto too much. Chuck shares how Aileron helps owners shift from telling to asking, build stronger leadership teams, and create businesses that can function without the founder being present every day. The conversation also explores Aileron’s broader mission to improve quality of life through professionally managed organizations, plus the ripple effect that leadership has on employees, families, and communities.

00:00 "Business owners often feel overwhelmed and lonely."

10:42 "Effective delegation is crucial for growth."

16:43 "Leadership supercharges business fundamentals."

18:22 "Aileron provides a supportive community."

25:33 "Self-leadership is essential for positive influence."

27:43 "Asking questions is more influential than telling."

37:46 "The ripple effect of leadership impacts families."

38:15 "I get to go to work."

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In this conversation, Phil Moeller interviews Ben Miller and Matt Hibner, principals at Garmann and Miller, discussing the company's growth, core values, and the importance of culture in leadership. They explore the challenges of expanding into new locations, the significance of partnerships, and the need for mental health support for employees. The discussion emphasizes the importance of adaptability, servant leadership, and the impact of their work on the community.

Beyond Wealth: Faith, Family, and Purpose with Ben Hartings

In this episode, Phil Moeller interviews Ben Hartings, a certified financial planner and faith-driven entrepreneur, about integrating faith and purpose into wealth management and life. They explore the impact of adversity, the importance of clarity in priorities, and how giving back and faith shape true success.

This episode emphasizes the integration of faith, life, and financial stewardship, demonstrating that success extends beyond monetary wealth to purpose-driven living. 

• Redemptoris Missio by Pope John Paul II

• Adgentes - Vatican II Document

• Catholic tradition resources

 Resources

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/benhartings/

Website - https://trinityfinancialadvisors.com

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In this conversation, Phil Moeller explores the challenging yet rewarding journey of entrepreneurship.
He discusses the cycle of growth that includes suffering, endurance, character building, and hope.
Moeller emphasizes the importance of facing adversity, finding a supportive community,
and shifting focus from material goals to personal growth.
He encourages listeners to embrace challenges and seek out relationships that foster growth and resilience.
00:00 Intro
02:51 Understanding the Cycle of Growth
06:01 Facing Adversity and Building Endurance
08:51 The Shift from Material Goals to Personal Growth
12:07 The Importance of Community and Support
14:55 Choosing the Hard Path for True Growth
18:10 Finding Peace Through Adversity
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In this conversation, Tim Kelly shares his transformative journey from a U.S. Navy chief petty officer to a successful entrepreneur and high-performance coach. He discusses the concept of financial freedom versus true freedom, emphasizing the importance of responsibility and personal growth.

Tim opens up about his struggles with identity, adversity, and mental health, highlighting the significance of community support and vulnerability in overcoming challenges. He encourages listeners to seek help and embrace their faith as a guiding force in their lives. In this conversation, Tim Kelly and Phil Moeller explore the complexities of freedom, responsibility, and personal growth. 

Tim emphasizes that financial freedom does not equate to a better life without the accompanying responsibility. They discuss the importance of accountability, the GROWS framework for personal development, and the transformative power of challenging adventures. 

The conversation culminates in a reflection on true freedom, which is rooted in peace and holistic living, rather than mere financial success.

00:00 Introduction to Tim Kelly's Journey

03:14 From Military to Financial Freedom

05:54 The Dichotomy of Freedom

08:59 Facing Adversity and Identity Crisis

11:53 The Darkest Times and Finding Faith

15:01 Reaching Out for Help and Vulnerability

18:05 The Importance of Community and Support

20:54 Defining True Freedom

23:43 The Burden of Freedom

25:12 Responsibility and Accountability

28:41 The GROWS Framework for Personal Growth

31:30 The Power of Accountability Groups

34:40 Adventures as a Path to Clarity

38:56 Finding Peace in Freedom

42:30 True Freedom vs. Financial Freedom 

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We've been taught that success means becoming independent.

Father Mark Hoying believes that's exactly backwards.

After surviving a near fatal childhood accident that doctors believed he wouldn't survive, Father Mark's life gradually taught him that fulfillment comes through dependence on God, genuine community, and serving others.

In this conversation with Phil, they explore the power of humility, why trying to be your best matters more than being the best, what farming taught Father Mark about vocation, lessons from New Zealand, and how tragedy can strengthen a community's faith.

If you've ever felt like you're carrying life on your own, this conversation offers a better way forward.

00:00 Intro

03:41 Growing Up and Overcoming Tragedy

12:30 Finding a Vocation Through Farming

17:15 Seeking Inner Peace and Community

28:42 Independence vs. Dependence on God

33:02 Generational Shifts in Modern Faith

38:51 Lessons on Happiness from Abroad

42:35 Reconciling Tragedy and Rebuilding Community

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The best leaders didn't all share the same story, but a lot of them share the same principles.

In this special midyear highlights episode, Phil revisits some of the most impactful conversations from the first half of the year, featuring business owners, athletes, military leaders, and men committed to building stronger families and communities.

Together, they explore what it means to lead with character, respond well to adversity, build people instead of just businesses, and create cultures where everyone can grow.

If there's one lesson that connects every conversation, it's that the way you lead yourself shapes everything and everyone around you.

0:00 Intro

0:30 Brian Seitz

5:06 Michael Durant

14:10 Forge Men’s Group

29:16 Kate Volman

32:20 Kyle Ahrens

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Isaac Klopfenstein spent more than a decade as a teacher and coach before realizing something was out of alignment.

The life he said mattered most (faith, family, and work) was no longer reflected in how he was spending his time.

So he walked away from the security of a stable career without knowing exactly what came next.

In this episode, Isaac and Phil discuss career transitions, identity, mentorship, faith, and why success looks different when your focus shifts from income to impact.

If you've ever felt called toward something different but weren't sure how to take the first step, this conversation is for you.

0:00 Intro

03:36 Transitions from Teaching to Entrepreneurship

10:13 Personal Motivations for Career Shifts

14:45 Building a Foundation in Business

20:00 The Power of Business Coaching

24:08 Scaling Success Through Strategic Partnerships

28:01 Integrating Faith and Work Priorities

32:16 Evolving Goals From Income to Impact

37:20 Current Operations and Future Growth 

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Isaac:

https://www.isaacklopfenstein.com/

Columbus Cleaning Service:

https://www.columbuscleaningservice.com/

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Drew Wiard thought he was making the smartest move of his career.

After years of success in real estate, he expanded into manufacturing acquisitions to accelerate growth and cash flow.

Instead, he found himself in one of the hardest seasons of his life.

What looked like a great opportunity became a source of anxiety, sleepless nights, financial pressure, and leadership challenges he couldn't control.

Today, he's grateful for every bit of it.

In this episode, Drew and Phil discuss how that struggle reshaped his views on business, faith, family, risk, success and why the season he wanted to escape became one of his greatest teachers.

If you're in the midst of a trial, this conversation is for you.

0:00 Intro

02:43 Shifting Strategy Toward Business Acquisitions

06:45 Challenges of Blending Business Cultures

11:01 Navigating Personal and Professional Failure

15:31 Managing Anxiety Through Difficult Seasons

21:34 Applying Past Lessons to New Ventures

25:40 Building Values-Driven Business Principles

31:01 Reconnecting With Faith and Generosity

35:06 Family Transparency and Modeling Resilience

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Drew:

https://www.instagram.com/theflyinginvestor/

Clear Sky Commercial

https://www.clearskycommercial.com/

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