The Queer Ritual Podcast

Happy Spooky Season!! 👻 
In this episode, I tell two true spooky stories from my own life. In the first story, I recall the haunting in my childhood apartment in Fort Worth, TX. In the second story, an odd detail from a past life regression session that became a crazy coincidence months later.

If you are interested in being a future guest on this show, send me an email at [email protected] . I am especially looking for LGBTQ healers, yogis, or witches who have left their original faith.
To book me for past life regression, Reiki, or oracle reading: book a coaching session with me at https://plumeriabewell.as.me ! I take both in-person or online appointments at my skincare and wellness boutique, Plumeria Beauty+Wellness.

Let me know what you think about the new logo or name change in a Spotify comment on this episode or by sending me an email.

Until we meet again,
Riki B 💜

I'm back! As I return for the long overdue Season 2 of The Queer Ritual Podcast, here are some updates on the state of this podcast and the new direction I will be taking it.

The TL;DR
I've started my own business! Plumeria Beauty+Wellness in Spotsylvania, VA.
Find me on IG @Plumeria.Beauty.Wellness or Facebook listed as "Plumeria Beauty+Wellness"
I am available for Reiki and spiritual coaching sessions in person or online through my booking site: https://plumeriabewell.as.me 
Catch me on an upcoming episode of Healing Out Lao'd with Rita Phetmixay
I will have a vendor booth at the Love Light Wellness Festival on 27th September, 2025 at Riverfront Park in Fredericksburg, VA

Follow me on Instagram @rikidementia for updates on IG Live group healing sessions!

Thank you to everyone who has already subscribed to my podcast, and I look forward to interacting with you all soon! Peace and blessings. May you be happy, healthy, and well.

I'm sure many of us in the LGBTQ community have been asked this one. Why is there no STRAIGHT Pride?

I will always answer that pride is a response to shame. So people who have been taught to be ashamed of who they are inside (whether that is sexual orientation, gender identity, etc) are who the Pride movement is for. That isn't to say that people who are in the white Christian majority cannot be proud of who they are, but they haven't been taught to feel shame over who they are.

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Happy Pride Month!

In this episode, I reflect on my experiences of being "different" growing up as queer and neurodivergent (ADHD-PI), including how that difference affected me even after coming out. I conclude the episode with how I have used that difference to foster a new sense of community.

I didn't have an outline for this episode, so I know my thoughts wander quite a bit with this one. I appreciate each and every one of my listeners!New episodes post Monday and Friday!

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Happy Pride Month! I know the rhetoric has gotten very negative this year for Pride, so today I want to counterbalance the negative with the positive. This episode contains my top 5 perks of being in a same-sex relationship. Rick and I have been together almost twelve years now, and this month will also be our 5 year wedding anniversary!New episodes post Monday and Friday!

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Due to her recent passing, I want to take some time to honor the musical AND spiritual icon, Tina Turner. I explain her encounters with both Christianity and Buddhism, her personal chanting practice (Nam myoho renge kyo), and her efforts to promote peace and unity among all the world's religions.

Mentioned in this episode:
Beyond (2009)
Available on Spotify, Apple Music, and YouTube

Children Beyond (2009)
Also available on same platforms

Tina (2020)
HBO documentary on her life's story

Happiness Becomes You (2020)
Her final bookNew episodes post Monday and Friday!

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Continuing the theme of healing for Asian Diaspora content during Asian Pacific American Heritage Month, today's episode is on the dark side of filial piety.

What is filial piety? Where does the concept come from? Is it a good thing? Is it a bad thing? All will be discussed in this episode.

I am so proud of my fellow second generation Asian Americans who have decided to speak up on issues of mental health in the Asian American community. One thing our cultures share is the importance of family, but devotion to one's family should never come at the expense of one's mental health. The only way we can stop intergenerational trauma is by being aware of it!

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Continuing my Asian Pacific American Heritage Month content, today I'm talking about microaggressions. What are they? Why do they hurt? How do we heal from them?

This episode also introduces the concept of radical acceptance.New episodes post Monday and Friday!

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Continuing with the theme of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month (APIA Heritage Month), I am reposting a previous episode on Asian American Impostor Syndrome. Enjoy!New episodes post Monday and Friday!

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