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  • Polyamory, Break Ups, + Love At First Sight | Relationship AMA

    Welcome to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In this episode, I’m pleased to welcome back my partner, Andres, as we answer your questions about relationships. We’ll discuss a range of topics, from the nuances of polyamory to the importance of communication in love. I’ll address your questions—like what makes us the cutest couple ever—while we explore the challenges of navigating relationships, including wedding and family planning. So, grab a snack or a stress ball, and join us for an insightful conversation about love, connection, and personal growth.


    Timestamps:


    • 00:00:00 - Introduction
    • 00:01:15 - Who The Hell Are You? 
    • 00:06:40 - Polyamory  
    • 00:07:09 - Taking a break
    • 00:08:10 - How long have we been together? 
    • 00:08:42 - Family planning 
    • 00:09:19 - Wedding planning & love at first sight
    • 00:12:13 - How we met
    • 00:14:36 - First date 
    • 00:19:02 - Falling in love 
    • 00:22:37 - Secret to a long relationship 
    • 00:24:48 - What we love about each other
    • 00:26:11 - Favorite position in bed
    • 00:27:07 - Scam accounts and catfishes 
    • 00:28:16 - Relationship challenges 
    • 00:29:04 - Handling conflict in relationships 
    • 00:33:06 - Finding time for each other 
    • 00:36:12 - Fight Me! 

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            Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

            41 min
          • Appealing To The Straights, Queer Representation + The Cecil Hotel | Brandon Rogers

            Welcome back to another episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Brandon Rogers, a comedian and YouTube sensation with over 10 million followers. We explore his journey in sketch comedy, the challenges of virality, and the importance of queer representation in media. From his iconic characters to his award-winning series Blame the Hero, Brandon shares insights on burnout, personal growth, and the creative process behind his work. Tune in for a lively discussion that’s as entertaining as it is enlightening!


            Timestamps: 


            • 00:00:00 - Introduction
            • 00:01:56 - Who The Hell Are You? 
            • 00:08:06 - Video virality and career goals 
            • 00:09:45 - Burn out in entertainment 
            • 00:13:10 - Queer representation in media 
            • 00:17:20 - Appealing to the straights
            • 00:18:37 - Growing up closeted 
            • 00:22:02 - Max’s…family dynamic 
            • 00:25:24 - Brandon’s first videos and core memories 
            • 00:29:21 - Are we in a simulation? 
            • 00:31:08 - Hot Banana Stud
            • 00:32:05 - Brandon’s connection to the Cecil Hotel 
            • 00:36:12 - Comedy writing
            • 00:39:01 - Know where the line is 
            • 00:41:34 - Keeping up with the content monster 
            • 00:45:08 - The evolution of youtube 
            • 00:46:17 - Helluva Boss & John Waters 
            • 00:49:45 - Billboards on Sunset Blvd
            • 00:52:16 - Class Acts 
            • 00:53:48 - Fight Me 

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                  • 

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                    Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                    1 hr
                  • Celebrity Photographer On: Self Love, Coming Out, Social Change, Colorism + Homophobia | Henry Jimenez

                    Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re exploring the vibrant world of creative vision with the talented Henry Jimenez. At just 24, Henry has made waves in fashion and celebrity photography, using his art to challenge norms and advocate for social change. Join us as we discuss his journey from a young boy in Comalcalco, Mexico, to a dynamic force in Los Angeles, touching on topics like colorism, identity, and the power of storytelling. Whether you’re an aspiring creative or just looking for inspiration, this episode is packed with insights and advice you won’t want to miss!


                    Timestamps: 


                    • 00:00:00 - Introduction
                    • 00:01:48 - Who The Hell Are You
                    • 00:09:01 - Henry’s backstory 
                    • 00:11:05 - Colorism on TV
                    • 00:12:36 - Photographing celebrities 
                    • 00:13:16 - Mexican heritage and living in LA
                    • 00:15:26 - Machismo, homophobia, and coming out 
                    • 00:17:53 - Religion 
                    • 00:21:54 - Feeling like an outsider
                    • 00:23:51 - Henry coming out to his mom
                    • 00:29:15 - Max’s coming out story 
                    • 00:31:08 - Henry’s childhood and triggers 
                    • 00:33:40 - Max’s father 
                    • 00:35:21 - Artistic vision and Henry’s Angels 
                    • 00:36:59 - Feeling beautiful 
                    • 00:38:33 - Growing up in the panhandle 
                    • 00:41:19 - Colorism around the world
                    • 00:42:45 - Collaboration 
                    • 00:44:35 - Advice for aspiring creatives 
                    • 00:45:09 - Ignoring the haters 
                    • 00:46:38 - What’s next for Henry
                    • 00:47:50 - Fight me 

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                            Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                            55 min
                          • Coming Out, Dating Apps, Alligator Attacks, + Shoe Size? | Solo

                            Welcome to today’s Ask Me Anything episode, where I tackle the intriguing questions you've sent me on Instagram! From my shoe size (a surprisingly popular topic) to the mystery of Sarge's backup food guy, we’ll cover it all. We’ll also discuss coming out in theater school, dealing with bullies, navigating dating apps, and even how to escape an alligator attack! Get ready for a fun mix of curiosities, confessions, and some relationship advice. 


                            Timestamps: 


                            • 00:00:00 - Introduction
                            • 00:01:03 - Shoe Size? 
                            • 00:01:25 - Sarge
                            • 00:01:46 - Traveling 
                            • 00:03:46 - Coming out in theater school 
                            • 00:08:08 - Bullying 
                            • 00:09:13 - When to come out 
                            • 00:09:55 - How to run away from an alligator 
                            • 00:10:50 - Social media & boundaries 
                            • 00:13:31 - Dating apps 
                            • 00:18:48 - Finding “the one” 
                            • 00:20:25 - Relationship Advice 
                            • 00:21:16 - Marriage 
                            • 00:21:35 - Therapy 
                            • 00:21:44 - Writing and publishing 
                            • 00:22:40 - Bottoming 
                            • 00:23:33 - Max’s Underpants
                            • 00:23:55 - Financial advice 
                            • 00:24:58 - Diet 
                            • 00:25:34 - Only Fans  
                            • 00:26:55 - The future 
                            • 00:27:13 - Skincare Routine 
                            • 00:28:01 - Adoption 
                            • 00:28:40 - Fight me! 

                            • Show Links: 


                              • Hot Sissy 
                              • Max’s Underpants 
                              • Hooked Movie 
                              • Only Fans, Self-Love, Burnout, Celebrity Glam + Queer Advocacy | Kyle Krieger
                              • Adoption, Surrogacy, + Being Gay in the US Army | Andrés Camilo
                              • Max’s Patreon
                              • Andre’s Instagram
                              • Andre’s Patreon 

                              • Coming Out Resources: 


                                • The Coming Out Handbook (The Trevor Project)
                                • Coming Out - GLSEN

                                • Prep Resources: 


                                  • Learning Resources - PrEP 
                                  • PrEP Action Kit

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                                        Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                                        33 min
                                      • Tik Tok Fame, Embracing the Chaos, Highs And Lows Of Stardom + Max’s Haunted House? | Spencewuah

                                        Welcome back to Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know! In today’s episode, we’re thrilled to welcome Spencer Hunt, better known as Spencewuah, a TikTok sensation famous for their "Daily Scream" series. Join us as Spencwuah shares the highs and lows of stardom in the digital age, the unofficial 6th borough, and the time someone used their photos to catfish. Stay tuned for dating horror stories, chaotic meet and greets and advice for aspiring content creators. Also…I think my house is #haunted? 


                                        Timestamps: 


                                        • 00:00:00 - Introduction 
                                        • 00:01:31 - Who the hell are you 
                                        • 00:09:29 - Rise to chaotic tik tok fame 
                                        • 00:14:23 - Catfishing & number leak 
                                        • 00:16:05 - The unofficial 6th burrough & New Jersey
                                        • 00:22:07 - Florida vs Jersey
                                        • 00:23:01 - Ghosting & cat parenting
                                        • 00:27:11 - The Daily Scream & working at Starbucks
                                        • 00:32:45 - Haunted House
                                        • 00:33:41 - The REAL Spencewauh Hunt
                                        • 00:35:28 - Meet & greets 
                                        • 00:39:28 - Content creation
                                        • 00:42:14 - Tik Tok fame
                                        • 00:43:24 - Cancellation, fake tweets, internet fame 
                                        • 00:48:49 - Being authentic on social media
                                        • 00:53:07 - FIGHT ME! 

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                                                Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                                                59 min
                                              • Only Fans, Self-Love, Burnout, Celebrity Glam + Queer Advocacy | Kyle Krieger

                                                Welcome back to another episode! Today, we’re thrilled to host Kyle Krieger, a Los Angeles-based celebrity hairstylist to a beloved online personality with over 2 million followers. Kyle discusses sustainable creativity, sharing insights on how he balances his creative passions with self-care, handles burnout, and remains grounded. We also explore his advocacy for LGBTQ+ causes and his unique approach to creative projects, including his work on OnlyFans. Tune in for a candid conversation about creativity, self-love, and community connection!


                                                Timestamps:


                                                • 00:00:00 - Introduction 
                                                • 00:01:16 - Who the hell are you? 
                                                • 00:07:27 - Starting as a content creator 
                                                • 00:09:00 - From celebrity hair styling to content creation 
                                                • 00:11:29 - Struggling with self esteem 
                                                • 00:14:10 - Handling burnout  
                                                • 00:20:55 - Staying grounded 
                                                • 00:23:44 - Refilling your cup 
                                                • 00:25:20 - The limitations of creative projects 
                                                • 00:29:39 - Picking projects to pursue 
                                                • 00:31:36 - Queer advocacy 
                                                • 00:33:22 - Connecting with community 
                                                • 00:38:58 - Creative control and Only Fans
                                                • 00:40:41 - Committing to Only Fans
                                                • 00:45:18 - Boundaries & Only Fans
                                                • 00:47:44 - FIGHT ME!

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                                                        Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                                                        55 min
                                                      • Adoption Announcement, Surrogacy, Being Gay In The US Military | Andrés Camilo

                                                        Ep. #2 In this episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know, I'm thrilled to welcome my fiancé and incredibly talented guest, Andrés Camilo. We’ll explore his fascinating journey from growing up in Medellín to serving as a US Army Veteran, and how he channels his experiences into his visual art and social media presence. Today, we’re tackling the complex topic of family planning—covering everything from surrogacy and adoption to the ethical and emotional aspects involved. Whether you're considering parenthood yourself or just here to learn more about Andrés, this episode is packed with insights and personal reflections. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about love, creativity, and building a future together.


                                                        Timestamps: 


                                                        • 00:01:28 - Who the hell are you? 
                                                        • 00:06:18 - Andrés’ backstory and art 
                                                        • 00:09:21 - Military experience 
                                                        • 00:14:33 - Authenticity and social media  
                                                        • 00:15:59 - Storytelling & the creative process 
                                                        • 00:18:42 - Creating reels and tiktoks 
                                                        • 00:20:20 - Advice for aspiring artists 
                                                        • 00:21:53 - Important relationship conversations
                                                        • 00:23:58 - Deciding we are ready for children 
                                                        • 00:24:58 - Surrogacy
                                                        • 00:32:22 - Do your research 
                                                        • 00:33:26 - Interviewing with different agencies 
                                                        • 00:37:14 - Ethics and communication 
                                                        • 00:41:39 - The adoption process 
                                                        • 00:44:57 - Matching with a birth mother
                                                        • 00:46:18 - Waiting to get matched 
                                                        • 00:49:36 - Preparing for parenthood
                                                        • 00:50:26 - Tips for family planning
                                                        • 00:53:16 - FIGHT ME! 

                                                        • Adoption Resources: 


                                                          • https://menhavingbabies.org
                                                          • https://www.helpusadopt.org/
                                                          • https://www.adopthelp.com/

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                                                              Check out  Andrés: 


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                                                              • Art
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                                                              • Tik Tok
                                                              • Patreon


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                                                                • Instagram
                                                                • YouTube
                                                                • TikTok

                                                                • Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! 


                                                                  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                                                                  1 hr 3 min
                                                                • Queer American History, Gay Villains, History of Pride Parades + Gay Representation | Dr. Eric Cervini

                                                                  Ep. #1 Welcome to the debut episode of Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know, I’m thrilled to welcome the remarkable Dr. Eric Cervini, author of The Deviant’s War. We explore Queer American history, uncovering the pivotal figures and events that have shaped our community. Dr. Cervini shares insights from his award-winning book and Emmy-nominated docu-series, The Book of Queer. Tune in as we discuss everything from early LGBTQ+ activism to gay rights and wrongs, and discover how these moments continue to influence us today.


                                                                  Topics Discussed:


                                                                  • 00:01:46 - Who the hell are you? 
                                                                  • 00:05:35 - Balancing all your career aspirations 
                                                                  • 00:06:37 - Dr. Eric Cervini 
                                                                  • 00:07:23 - From Texas to Harvard 
                                                                  • 00:08:22 - Spanish & french lesson 
                                                                  • 00:09:07 - Political activism 
                                                                  • 00:14:52 - Texas campaign incident 
                                                                  • 00:16:54 - Gay representation 
                                                                  • 00:19:51 - Harvey Milk 
                                                                  • 00:21:24 - The Mattachine Society 
                                                                  • 00:25:25 - The history of Pride parades 
                                                                  • 00:27:14 - Frank Kameny 
                                                                  • 00:31:45 - The Dowdy Trial
                                                                  • 00:36:57 - Allstora & book publishing 
                                                                  • 00:43:39 - The Book Of Queer 
                                                                  • 00:47:05 - Queer Historians
                                                                  • 00:49:29 - Akhnaten & gay villains  
                                                                  • 00:50:21 - Queer role models throughout history 
                                                                  • 00:54:18 - Neurodivergence throughout history 
                                                                  • 00:56:29 - The importance of intersectionality 
                                                                  • 00:58:48 - Ways to get involved 
                                                                  • 01:01:53 - FIGHT ME! 

                                                                  • Sponsored by: 


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                                                                      • Allstora
                                                                      • The Deviant’s War
                                                                      • The Book Of Queer

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                                                                        • 

                                                                          Thank you to all my patreon subscribers! 


                                                                          Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

                                                                          1 hr 10 min

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