The Quiet Confidence Show with Paula Cashin

Welcome to The Quiet Confidence Show ❤️

For years I thought confidence was something other people had.

The louder people. The certain people. The people who seemed to know exactly what they were doing.

Meanwhile I was second guessing myself, adapting to the people around me and looking outside myself for answers.

A lot has happened since then.

I found coaching. I built a business. I fell in love. I became a mother. I experienced enormous love and enormous grief. I lost myself at different points and found my way back again.

And somewhere through all of that I began to understand confidence very differently.

For me, quiet confidence isn't about being the loudest person in the room or having everything figured out.

It's about the relationship you have with yourself.

Knowing yourself. Trusting yourself. Creating your life.

That's really what this show is about.

In this first episode I'm sharing some of my own story and how that understanding of confidence came to be. And why now, as I turn 42 and step into a new season of my own life, feels like the right time to start this conversation.

There are also two much older episodes sitting in this feed. I thought about deleting them and starting fresh, but I've decided to leave them there. They're part of the story too. Sometimes the seed is planted long before the season is right.

If you've ever wondered What do I actually want? Why don't I trust myself? Is there more than this? I think you'll feel at home here.

I'm so glad you're here ❤️

Know yourself. Trust yourself. Create your life.

Paula x

Episode 1 – The Quiet Confidence Revolution

In this first episode, we talk about:

• Why traditional confidence advice never really fit
• The difference between loud confidence and the quiet kind
• A moment that shifted how I saw my own self-doubt
• What quiet confidence actually looks like day to day
• The small, real-life ways we start to build it

This is a space for the quiet, capable ones who want to live and lead in a way that actually feels like them.
No performance. No pretending. Just honest conversations about the stuff that really shapes us — clarity, courage, joy, doubt, and everything in between.