The Rage

Jennifer comes across an old photograph that Calista had gifted to her early on in their courtship.  On the backside is a secret handwritten message that evokes sentimental feelings.

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Jennifer reveals the ways in which she has changed and grown as a person over the past four years since Calista came out.  From physical differences to her current emotional state, she shares it all.  And emphasizes how setting and maintaining boundaries has become a big part of her success in personal well-being.  

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Calista shares her process of coming out as a transgender woman.  Could there have been a different outcome if she’d done things differently?  Should she have gone slower in her process to become a woman?  It’s an individual process where one approach does not fit all.  It’s suggested that there are two types of people… cheetahs or sloths.  Which one might you be?  

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Calista shares the step-by-step process she took to change her name and gender legally.  Everything from how to find and fill out the forms to going before a judge in court.  But that's just the beginning.  What about her driver's license, birth certificate, passport, and more.  How to remove yourself from the internet.  And what about Jennifer while all this was happening?  What was her experience?

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Calista is fresh out from yet another surgery - her seventh in her lifetime, and her sixth for gender congruence.  So, what exactly did she have done?  Calista gives us the fresh fish on her latest slice and dice. 

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Jennifer and Calista share stories about the personal growth and leadership programs each has participated in prior to seeking divorce therapy. They further explain how these experiences built upon the other, changing their lives and creating a more successful outcome to their uncoupling.

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Calista does a solo session answering viewer questions that specifically asked for her to respond.  Would she have done anything different in her transition?  What's next for her to explore? And, Calista responds to questions about transgender people in sports.

Jennifer films solo this week to discuss relying on her ex, (Calista).   Is it ok?  Is it a burden?  Should she become more independent?  Or is this a way to stay connected?  All these things are considered as she shares her thoughts.  What do you think?

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Calista and Jennifer talk about touch and how each of them experienced it growing up and how it's effected them as adults.  When and where is it appropriate, or not appropriate to touch someone?  Is the elbow really "the Switzerland of touch spots?"

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Calista shares her experience using shapewear to achieve a more feminine appearance during her transition.  Jennifer as well shares how she has used shapewear over the years as a cisgender woman.