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EPISODE 7 – The Glue that Holds Relationships Together
Sex is the deal breaker, but in my pointing it out I run the risk of coming across as “shallow” or “superficial.” It’s important, but it shouldn’t be that important, right?
Wrong. It is THAT important. Sex is the glue that holds relationships together.
If you encountered a woman who fit every ideal you ever had for a relationship – best friend, loving, 100% loyal, excellent mother, came from a great family, perfect HB 10, healthy both mentally and physically, emotionally available, intellectually stimulating, shared all your beliefs – who loved you unconditionally and wanted to marry you, but with one caveat; he/she would NEVER have sex with you under any circumstances, would you marry this person?
Would you spend the rest of your life in a completely sexless marriage with an otherwise ideal person?
This is how important sex is. People tend to think of love as coming in different varieties and colors – platonic, fraternal, familial, erotic, agape, etc. All of this is nonsense. Love is love, it’s how it’s expressed that’s different. I love my Mom, my brother, my best friend and my daughter, but I only fuck my wife – that’s what makes us husband and wife, not brother and sister. Sex can be an expression of love or it can be an act of recreation, but it is always a prerequisite for an intersexual relationship. It’s time we all stopped deemphasizing the importance of sex and accept it for what it is. Every time we think we’re taking some moral high-road by saying it’s superficial or shallow to place such importance on sex, we only do a disservice to ourselves and our lovers. We’re only screwing ourselves by thinking that we’re in some way above sexuality in some lame self-delusion that in stating so will make us more desirable and set us apart from the rest of the herd (who are also claiming to be above sex anyway). It IS that important, so start giving it the respect it deserves. You do yourself no favors by desexualizing yourself.
Bonus: Ladies, if for some reason medical whatever you can no longer have sex with your spouse your partner would he stay out of guilt? Out of Duty? Or is there another reason for him? What other reason does a man have to stay with you if sex is off the table?
Relevant Links:
https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/
https://therationalmale.com/2013/06/26/you-need-sex/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jnUU2c_i0w
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