The Real Jemima House

Who are you always? We are all taught to self-edit in exchange for love, attention and belonging. Left unchecked, this survival technique becomes dehabilitating. Here’s one way you can start to reorient towards your truth. Linktr.ee/therealjemimahouse

Is it a test? Is it an opportunity to back your decision? Is it the necessary development of your equanimity in the face of everything that is not aligned with what you want? Is it a chance NOT for shadow work but for walking away with grace and not making it about you? Imagine…

One of my favourite tools (and part of my Relationship Excellence Framework) meta communication. Learning this is a gamechanger for highly sensitive people and those prone to shut down. Learn the alternative to dissociating and broaden your communication options. Linktr.ee/therealjemimahouse

Your upgraded self concept is what will allow you to BE the person who gets to attract and hold the exceptional relationship you desire. There are a couple of simple ways to access the exact places to focus on so you can do this. Invitation to book a free Clarity Call and receive support on this. Go to linktr.ee/therealjemimahouse

You’ve all heard “it’s either a hell yes or an absolutely not” - I’d like to introduce the nuance that lies beneath the mind’s search for immediate safety and the avoidance of threat. Stop objectifying humans to satisfy your requirement for guarantees. There are none. Expand your capacity so you can hold the not knowing and exercise discernment.

Your mind’s job is to keep you safe. Your body will give you the truer wisdom. Can you slow down enough to listen? Book a face to face with me to learn how I can support you in creating deeper connections. Linktr.ee/therealjemimahouse

It’s a trope of the recovering codependent/people-pleaser/anxious attacher and a trauma response to self abandon in exchange for love and belonging. It’s usually camouflaged by sensitivity, attunement and rapport. Whilst self mastery is key, it’s not the only piece. Healthy individuation is also required. If you’d like to talk to me you can book a free call here: https://calendly.com/jemimahouse/30-minute-face-to-face?month=2023-

Isha Vela - Somatic Business & Leadership Coach and I discuss the very practical ways we can stay connected and true to ourselves when faced with having a difficult conversation. You can follow Isha’s work here: https://instagram.com/isha_vela?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

A question from my Connection Audit to assess how ready you are for the exceptional love relationship you want. You can find the full 5 question audit on instagram @therealjemimahouse If you would like a 3 day 1:1 intensive in April to get crystal clear on your relating goals, send me a DM on instagram.

Your desire will literally show you what needs attention. Stop looking for what’s wrong and look, instead, for what is wanted.