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We sit down with Kaylee Isbell, mom of two (soon to be three!), entrepreneur, & founder of Isbell Family Films. Kaylee opens up about her journey from severe postpartum depression to building a thriving business that helps families capture their most precious moments. This isn't your typical success story – it's about finding beauty in the mess, learning to accept help, & discovering that sometimes our greatest challenges become our biggest breakthroughs.

Main Topics & Discussion

From Dream Baby to Barely Surviving

Kaylee gets raw about the shock of severe postpartum depression after her daughter's milk protein allergies made breastfeeding impossible. She shares the hidden medical condition every new mom should know about and how she learned that every child is completely different.

The 3-Minute Video That Changed Everything

During a rare moment when both kids were napping, Kaylee made a simple video from phone footage that gave her a "fly on the wall" perspective of her own life. What started as personal therapy became a viral Instagram moment that launched a business now serving over 700 families.

The Broken Ankle Breakthrough

What made them ready for baby number three? A serious injury that forced this Type-A mom to accept help became the relationship reset that opened up brand new possibilities.

Key Takeaways

For Moms Struggling with Identity: Kaylee's journey from postpartum depression to business owner proves that your lowest moments can become your greatest strengths. Sometimes you need that outside perspective (even from a phone camera) to see the good you're already creating.

For Aspiring Mom Entrepreneurs: You don't need a perfect business plan. Kaylee went from Instagram DM to full business overnight, proving that authentic connection and solving a real problem matters more than having all the systems in place.

Ready to capture your family's story? Connect with Kalee: IsbellFamilyFilms.com | @IsbellFamilyFilms on Instagram. 

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Hosted by: Cally & Emily O’Leary

About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together. 

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Meet Sarah Kaetterhenry - the Central Wisconsin mom who's rewriting the rules on work-life balance. She started her real estate career the month she turned 30, found out she was pregnant five months later, & has been building her business & family side by side ever since. It's messy, it's real, & it's exactly what working motherhood looks like when you ditch the playbook & write your own rules.

Main Topics & Discussion

Building Career and Family Simultaneously

Sarah shares her unconventional journey of launching her real estate career just months before discovering her first pregnancy. Instead of viewing this timing as a setback, she reveals how having children actually became her secret weapon for setting healthy boundaries.  From pumping between house showings to being eight months pregnant selling houses hours away, she learned that having "little humans at home" forced her to be choosy about clients & opportunities - preventing entrepreneur burnout from day one.

ADHD Diagnosis at 36

At 36, Sarah received an ADHD diagnosis that completely reframed her understanding of herself. After being dismissed as "just a busy mom," Sarah fought for her ADHD diagnosis & shares how it reframed everything. She discusses how ADHD actually fuels her entrepreneurial success, describing it as a  "superpower" that drives creativity and hyperfocus, plus practical strategies for managing symptoms without medication.

Phone Boundaries for Working Moms

Running a social media-driven business while maintaining family connection presents unique challenges that every modern mom faces. Sarah gets vulnerable about the addictive nature of social media and running your business from your phone, & she offers some solid strategies for moderating this. Her approach proves successful businesses can thrive without sacrificing present-moment parenting - & that two hours without responding won't kill your career.

Connect with Sarah: sarahkaetterhenry.com 

Instagram: @sarah.kaetterhenry

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The O'Leary sisters drop the ultimate bombshell and dive deep into why they're terrible at sharing baby news, pregnancy symptoms that make zero sense, and birth plans that might make your mom clutch her pearls. 

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Why We're the Worst at Pregnancy Announcements 

What happens when two sisters share a deep, inexplicable dread of telling people they're pregnant? We're getting real about the psychology behind announcement anxiety and why the concept of creating cute Instagram reveals makes us want to run for the hills (even thought we love to see others' pop up in our feeds!). Listen in to hear about the most awkward campfire pregnancy reveal in history and find out if you're the only one who feels weird about processing other people's excitement when you're barely processing your own.

The Pregnancy Symptom Showdown 

One sister is basically glowing while the other spent months feeling like she got hit by a truck - and we're diving into why every pregnancy hits so differently. Want to know which old wives' tales actually hold water? Curious about the real deal on pregnancy nutrition versus the "eat whatever you want" myth? We're sharing our unfiltered experiences about food aversions, hormone migraines, and why genetics apparently designed us to look six months pregnant at 13 weeks.

Birth Plans That Would Scandalize Your Mother-in-Law

Ready to hear some spicy takes on birth choices? We're talking home births, hospital politics, and what it really takes to advocate for yourself in a system that doesn't always listen. From water birth dreams to VBAC hopes, we're laying out our completely different approaches to bringing these babies into the world. 

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together. 

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Think you can't be a working mom AND homeschool seven kids? Think again. Meet Heidi Lewerenz, the entrepreneur-coach-homeschooling powerhouse who's cracking the code on motherhood burnout. She's serving up the tea on redefining success, and why losing yourself in motherhood might actually be the point. Your identity isn't disappearing—it's getting the Michelangelo treatment.

Main Topics & Discussion

The Recovering Feminist's Guide to Motherhood Identity

Heidi's journey from career-focused independent woman to integrated working mom reads like a plot twist nobody saw coming. She opens up about believing she couldn't "do both well" and how becoming a mother forced her to question everything she thought she knew about feminine power. She eventually discovered that motherhood isn't the enemy of femininity—it's the crown jewel. This isn't about choosing sides in the mommy wars; it's about rewriting the whole playbook on what it means to be a powerful woman. 

Micro Seasons: The 90-Day Life Revolution

Forget New Year's resolutions—Heidi's micro seasons method is about to change how you think about life planning. Instead of drowning in annual goals that feel impossible with kids hanging off your leg, she breaks life into intentional 90-day chunks that actually work with the chaos of motherhood. It's not about having it all—it's about knowing what "enough" looks like in each season. This framework helps overwhelmed moms stop feeling like they're failing at everything and start celebrating micro-wins that actually matter.

The Michelangelo Mindset: Why Losing Yourself Might Be the Point

What if becoming a mother isn't about losing who you are, but discovering who you were always meant to be? Heidi drops this game-changing perspective that flips the whole "don't lose yourself in motherhood" narrative on its head. Using Michelangelo's David as a metaphor, she suggests that pre-motherhood you was just a rough-cut block of granite, and motherhood is the master sculptor revealing your true form. Yes, the chiseling hurts like hell, but what emerges is more beautiful and authentic than what came before. This reframe transforms the motherhood journey from loss to artistic creation—and honestly, it's the perspective shift every struggling mama needs to hear.

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together. 

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Ready for some dad appreciation with a side of chaos? We're debriefing on the dads closest to us - from the intentional parenting that shaped us into strong women to the hilariously unhinged adventures that became our family legends. If you've ever wondered how and if dads influence the partners we choose or need a good laugh about gender roles in modern parenting, this one's for you. Fair warning: involves controlled burns & illegal moonshine purchases.

Main Topics & Discussion

The Ripple Effect: Why Good Dads are Crucial

What happens when you grow up with an exceptional dad? We unpack something we call "automatic standards" - those invisible relationship guidelines we didn't even know we had until we started dating. 

Here's a plot twist: neither of us actually married men who are super similar to our dad. But so far, the O'Leary sisters have yet to date a fishhole. So what's the real secret sauce behind avoiding dating walking 'red flags'? You'll have to listen to get our theory. 

Navigating Fatherhood in Modern Marriages

Okay, let's talk about a hot topic popping up in most millennial & Gen Z marriages: the mental load. We grew up watching our mom assume the mental load while Dad had sole responsibility of bread winning. They were an incredible team, but, from where we sat, pretty much stayed in their respective lanes. Fast forward to our own marriages where we expect equal partnership in running a household.

Women are fighting for equal opportunity & recognition in the public sphere & are asking men to step up in the private sphere. But millennial men haven't had the multi-generational training in household management that most women aren't even aware we've received. It's a big gap we're asking them to bridge & we're grateful to the dads intent on delivering.

Mark O'Leary: The Man, The Myth, The Legend

What do you get when you mix an adventurous dad with questionable (or decidedly zero) forethought? The kind of childhood memories that make our old man larger than life & still cause us to bust a gut.

We're talking about the time our dad decided burning the entire lawn was easier than raking leaves. Or when a simple skiing lesson turned into being manhandled onto a chairlift with zero preparation. And don't even get us started on that

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What happens when a therapist realizes she's been outsourcing her own maternal power? Natalie, a trauma therapist and mother, transformed her approach to motherhood after experiencing birth trauma, postpartum anxiety, and a life-changing miscarriage. Listen now if you're ready to stop outsourcing your maternal power, break generational patterns that no longer serve you, or simply want to hear why a therapist thinks behaviorism is the thing we all need to unlearn. This episode is equal parts vulnerable storytelling and practical wisdom—with just enough wanderlust to make you want to book a ticket to Costa Rica.

Main Topics & Discussion

From Trauma Therapist to Intuitive Mothering Expert

After a traumatic birth with her first child, Natalie found herself disconnected from maternal instincts, googling everything, and desperately seeking external validation. A profound miscarriage became her turning point—teaching her to trust her body's wisdom and reclaim power from those who didn't serve her best interests.

Blue Zone Adventures: What the World's Healthiest Cultures Teach Us About Motherhood

Overwhelmed by American parenting culture, Natalie took her family on a five-month journey to blue zones. In Costa Rica, she discovered 70-year-olds who looked 45 and communities where 100 people show up to help build your farm. In Okinawa, she witnessed everyone from teenagers to 90-year-olds genuinely celebrating children—contrasting sharply with the eye-rolls American families with toddlers often encounter.

Mother Hunger: Understanding the Generational Attachment Wound

Drawing from Kelly McDaniel's work on "mother hunger," Natalie explains this deep attachment wound from inadequate nurture, protection, and guidance. Running support groups for mothers with mother hunger, she emphasizes that breaking generational cycles isn't about perfection—it's about repair and genuine accountability.

Redefining "Pain-Free" Birth Through Hypnosis and Mindset

Natalie shares her incredible home birth story using self-created hypnosis scripts and visualization. She breaks down the fear-tension-pain cycle and how examining belief systems about birth can transform the entire experience.

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About the Hosts: We’re real moms and real sisters. We may look and sound alike, but our motherhood journeys are uniquely ours. We all do Motherhood differently, and thank goodness for that. Let’s learn and grow together. 

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Ever wondered why running postpartum is impossible without peeing your pants or why "just do more Kegels" isn't working to get you more acquainted with your pelvic floor? Dr. Erica Boland, chiropractor and midwife, drops truth bombs about pelvic floor health that'll change everything you thought you knew about your body's foundation. We also discuss care practices for women during prenatal, birth and postpartum periods. This conversation will empower you to reclaim your body and seek better care.

Main Topics & Discussion

Your Pelvic Floor is Storing More Than You Think

Many women think pelvic floor work is just about Kegels and preventing leaks. Dr. Boland reveals your pelvic floor is literally your body's foundation, storing emotions, trauma, stress, and even generational patterns. The most common dysfunction isn't weakness - it's too much tension. Think walking around with your bicep flexed all day, and then expecting high functionality from it. The secret? Learning to relax first, then strengthen. She explains why we disconnect from this area from a young age and how reconnecting can be deeply healing.

The Breath Connection That Changes Everything

Your diaphragm and pelvic floor work together like a perfectly choreographed dance. When you breathe in, both should lower. Most of us are breathing wrong, living in stress mode, completely disconnected from this natural rhythm. Dr. Boland shares simple breath techniques that transform core function, help manage toddler tantrums, and actually calm your nervous system. It's not just about exercise - it's about rewiring your body's stress response.

Getting Back to Your Body After Baby

For mamas desperate to return to running and workouts, Dr. Boland provides a reality check with hope. Her functional progression approach starts with breath and relaxation before moving to strength. She breaks down practical steps for exercise return, explains why strength training trumps endless cardio, and shares real talk about timeline expectations. For those of us with less patience, hearing the 'why' behind this work is so powerful.

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Ever wonder why your perfectly planned morning routine crumbles the moment your kid decides the kitchen floor is their art canvas? Shannon Carothers, expert on habit building in motherhood & host of The Successful Mama Podcast, gets real about the beautiful chaos of motherhood. This isn't your typical "5 AM club" productivity chat—it's an honest conversation about kitchen floor breakdowns, coffee-stained planners, and why celebrating washing ONE dish might be the secret to sanity. She's the missing link for those of us who love the 'self help' category, but struggle to relate those principles to the reality of motherhood.

Main Topics & Discussion

The Kitchen Floor Breakdown: When Perfect Plans Meet Real Life

Shannon opens up about her rock-bottom moment—sobbing on her kitchen floor while holding her baby, surrounded by the overwhelming chaos born of procrastination and anxiety. We explore how our messiest moments can become the foundation for our biggest breakthroughs, and how embracing the mess can actually be the first step toward finding yourself again.

Mom Dating Is Real (And It's Awkward AF)

Let's talk about the elephant in the playground—making mom friends is basically like dating, complete with the awkward "can I get your number?" moments. Shannon breaks down her three-step recovery plan from matrescence isolation: recognizing you're not alone, accepting that growth looks different for everyone in motherhood, and actually doing the terrifying work of building community. 

The One-Dish Revolution: Why Tiny Habits Create Massive Change

What if the secret to transforming your entire life started with emptying your coffee maker? Shannon shares her game-changing approach to habit building that doesn't require 5 AM wake-ups or meditation retreats. From the "super fast cleanup song" that gets kids dancing while tidying, to the gratitude planner that survived months of blank pages, discover why making things ridiculously simple might be the most revolutionary thing you do for yourself this year.

Connect with Shannon

• Podcast: The Successful Mama Podcast (available on all platforms)
• Instagram/Facebook: @successfulmamapodca

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Do you struggle to find to your inner truth? Feeling burnt out but can't pinpoint why? In this episode, licensed professional counselor Caitlin Ruby Miller joins us to explore the messy, beautiful journey of transformation. Caitlin brings a refreshingly authentic perspective on healing that doesn't require a therapy session (though would highly recommend). Grab your earbuds for this one – it might just be the permission slip you need to finally put yourself first.

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Finding Your Flow State in Motherhood Chaos

We dive deep into the concept of "flow state" – that magical place where time melts away and you're fully immersed in what you're doing. Caitlin reveals how this psychological sweet spot isn't just for artists or athletes; it's accessible to moms too. Flow state just might be the mental vacation your mom-brain desperately needs. 

Recognizing Burnout Before You're Toast

Doomscrolling before bed? Feeling disconnected from who you are beyond "mom"? You might be experiencing burnout. Caitlin breaks down the warning signs that are specific to motherhood burnout and offers practical ways to recognize when you're stretching yourself too thin. Discover why resilience isn't always the answer and why the "just push through" mentality is actually making things worse for modern moms.

Accessing Your Inner Wisdom 

Caitlin introduces us to Internal Family Systems (IFS), a transformative approach to quieting the anxious voices in your head and finding your authentic inner wisdom. Caitlin shares accessible ways to start healing—the path to transformation might be simpler (and more enjoyable) than you think.

Connect with Caitlin: Professional Bio, Psychology Today, Inclusive Therapists, Therapy Den | Instagram/Substack: @femchantment / Femchantment.substack.com | Podcast: Counselors Craft a Curious Path /

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Ever wondered what makes Cally and Emily tick as moms? In this episode, they flip the script and do a deep dive on some of the questions they usually reserve for guests.  They get vulnerable about their mothering  experiences (what else is new around here) and also take a listener question. Is your money on them being “crunchy," "scrunchy," or "silky" moms? Tune in to find out, and stay for the actual meat of the episode: multigenerational wisdom from their mother and grandmothers.

Main Topics & Discussion

Hosts in the Hot Seat: Motherhood Styles Revealed
Why are the topical categories of “crunchy”, “scrunchy”, and “silky” defining parenting philosophies and social behaviors of millennial and gen Z moms everywhere? The crunchy vs. silky mom debate is tough for some, but easy for them to decide where they fall.  Their honest admissions about motherhood expectations versus reality will have you feeling seen and validated in your own parenting journey.

Generational Wisdom: A Motherhood Legacy
The *fish* that truly matters in this episode is the highlight reel from conversations with the women who shaped our hosts. Cally and Emily share precious moments with their mother and grandmothers, revealing how these matriarchs influenced their own parenting approaches. These intergenerational perspectives on motherhood show just how much (and how little) has changed across generations. 

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