The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink

This episode contains a reference to suicide that some listeners may find upsetting. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988. 

In the first audience caller episode of The Real Stuff podcast, join us for a heartfelt journey into the complex world of parenthood and relationships. We're breaking new ground by bringing our audience into the conversation, featuring personal stories that reveal the profound impact a new baby can have on a couple's life. From the dissolution of partnerships to the strengthening of bonds, our guests share their raw and diverse experiences. We navigate through the euphoria and the turmoil, presenting an honest look at how children can both test and transform the relationships of their parents. We’ll explore the multifaceted challenges that can arise in post-baby marriages, including the strains of postpartum depression, diverging parenting styles, infidelity, and more. We'll unravel the importance of maintaining connection, the hurdles in seeking quality time, and the resilience required to co-parent effectively through separation. Each story guides us through the emotional extremes and provides solace in the shared struggles of parenthood.

Original airdate: 2/6/2024

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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In this solo episode, I open up about my (chaotic) life as a mom of two and the unique challenges and joys that come with it. From the initial transition period to navigating postpartum recovery, I reflect on the mental and physical differences between my first and second experiences. I discuss my unexpected breastfeeding journey, managing overstimulation with a full house, and how my approach to parenthood has evolved over time. Tune in as I share the beautiful chaos of these early days, the lessons I’m learning along the way, and a few personal stories that perfectly capture this new season of motherhood.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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Emily DiDonato is a supermodel and influencer who has captivated millions with her stunning looks and down-to-earth personality. In this episode, Emily opens up about her journey from a modest upbringing to financial independence, sharing the pressures and unexpected blessings that shaped her modeling and influencer career. She delves into the challenges of balancing motherhood and professional ambitions, the personal impact of a recent miscarriage, and her evolving perspectives on body image, self-worth, and life in the suburbs. This raw conversation sheds light on the complex emotions of postpartum life, navigating societal expectations, and finding personal fulfillment in a world that constantly demands more.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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In part 2 of my birth story episode, I start from the moment Michael and I arrived at the hospital. I had an incredibly positive and enjoyable labor & delivery experience with only a *touch* of trauma. 😵‍💫🥲 Other than one scary moment after getting my epidural, giving birth to baby Coco was fun, easy, and hilarious. One of the highlights was when Michael, coached by my doctor, helped “catch” baby Coco and guide her out. Another was when I literally *coughed* and her head came out. This was such a memorable and special experience!

If you missed it, tune in to part 1 of my birth story first: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-stuff-with-lucie-fink/id1724982367?i=1000673974054

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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This week, I’m sharing my full *positive* birth story for baby number 2…our daughter Colette (aka baby Coco). In part 1, I take you through the final weeks of pregnancy, my efforts to naturally induce labor, and the emotional rollercoaster leading up to her arrival. From the pelvic pain that had me convinced she’d be here early, to the decision to go to the hospital on the night she was born, this episode covers it all - including a few unexpected twists and turns along the way.

Stay tuned for part 2 tomorrow where I’ll dive into the entire labor & delivery experience starting at when we arrived at the hospital!

Sponsor: 

Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today!

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: 

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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Join us for a compelling and heartfelt conversation with Jordan Younger, also known as the Balanced Blonde and host of the Soul on Fire podcast. In this episode, Jordan opens up in detail about her extraordinary experiences during her second pregnancy for the first time outside of her paid Substack. Jordan reflects on her first pregnancy with her son Atticus, which was impacted by her health struggles of autoimmune conditions, Lyme disease, and mast cell activation syndrome, and how it compared to the horrific pain she experienced during her second pregnancy. Her candid recounting provides a raw and unique perspective on the darker side of pregnancy, emphasizing the importance of sharing diverse stories.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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This week we tackle the often-overlooked topic of gender disappointment. This emotional and candid episode unpacks the feelings of sadness some parents experience when the sex of their baby is not what they had hoped for. In today's episode, we clarify the distinction between sex and gender, and then through listener stories, we reveal the diverse reasons behind these feelings and acknowledge the sensitivity of this subject for those struggling with infertility. By examining these emotional landscapes, we aim to normalize these feelings and offer support to listeners, reassuring them that they are not alone in their experiences.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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After watching a YouTube video by Suzanne Vanker titled "30-Something Women Are Having an Identity Crisis," I had so many thoughts I wanted to share on the challenges women face in balancing careers and motherhood. Suzanne's views, which advocate for women stepping back from work while their children are young, sparked some deep conversations with Michael and led me to explore the importance of choice and the varied experiences of modern working parents, especially mothers. In this episode, I get into how I manage to be a present mother and a passionate business owner and how difficult it can be to find balance while carrying a heavy mental load.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX     

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.  

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What if you could turn your passion project into a thriving career? Join us as we chat with Carly Riordan (aka @carly), one of the earliest fashion bloggers. Carly started her blog (“Carly the Prepster") as a creative outlet during her freshman year of college and has built a thriving business for herself as a full-time fashion and lifestyle influencer ever since. Her story is not just about financial success but also about the resilience and authenticity it takes to continue to share her life online. She walks us through her transition from a tech startup role to full-time blogging, which took place at a time before being a digital creator was proven to be successful. Carly also shares her personal battles with trolls, the emotional toll it takes to receive negative comments, and the steps she has taken to protect her mental health. Carly's candid reflections offer a profound look into the life of a digital influencer, making this episode both enlightening and deeply moving.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX     

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.  

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When Michael and I tied the knot, we made a conscious decision to skip the prenup and combine our finances fully, viewing everything as a collective "ours." This episode of The Real Stuff podcast delves into our personal journey with shared finances and offers a peek into the intricate dance of handling expenses and investments as a united front. We also open the floor to our audience, inviting callers to share their unique financial setups with their partners. From prenuptial agreements and separate accounts to fully combined finances, these stories provide a rich tapestry of how couples manage money together. Above all, we discuss the importance of trust and communication as we explore the many ways couples navigate their financial lives.

Sponsors:

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX   

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  

Website: https://luciefink.com/  

Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.  

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