Becoming a family of four has been an incredible journey, and in this episode, I’m sharing all the behind-the-scenes details of how we helped Milo transition from being an only child to becoming a big brother. From preparing him during my pregnancy to navigating his emotions after Coco’s arrival, we dive into the highs, the challenges, and everything in between. I’ll share what worked, what didn’t, and the lessons we’re still learning as we adjust to life with two kids. Whether you’re preparing for a new addition to your family or just curious about sibling dynamics, this episode is full of relatable insights and heartfelt moments.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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Ever wonder what goes on behind the scenes of a content creator’s business? In this episode, I’m joined by my content producer, Alyssa Rosand, to pull back the curtain on how we create, plan, and execute everything from social media posts to podcast episodes. We start by diving into the hiring process—how Alyssa’s application letter caught my attention, what I was looking for in an employee, and why I knew she was the perfect fit for my team. I also reflect on my history of hiring for my business and how I’ve learned to build a team that helps bring my vision to life. From our day-to-day workflow to the creative process, we share how we balance the chaos of managing a personal brand, and Alyssa dishes on what it’s really like working in the fast-paced world of digital content. Whether you’re curious about the hiring side of the business or just want a glimpse of how it all comes together, this episode is packed with insights and behind-the-scenes moments.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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In this bonus episode, I’m sitting down with my lactation consultant, Lauren Horowitz, APRN, IBCLC to dive deep into my feeding journey with baby Coco and how it compares to my experience with Milo. I’ll walk you through everything—from triple feeding with my firstborn to developing a strategy I call "breastfeeding light" the second time around. I’m sharing the challenges, lessons learned, and how I achieved my goal of nursing just twice a day with baby Coco. Throughout the episode, Lauren shares tips for new moms, troubleshooting tongue ties, managing oversupply, and building a plan that works for you. Whether you're a new parent, expecting, or just curious about the ins and outs of breastfeeding, this episode is full of practical advice and real-life insights!

Sponsors: 

Naväge: Order the new Naväge Baby Aspirator and Inhaler today at Navage.com/REALSTUFF 

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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In this special bonus episode, I’m diving into my unforgettable experience attending Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour in Toronto with my dad, Jimmy Fink. From navigating the ticket madness to choosing our best Swiftie outfits, the entire journey felt like being part of something larger than life. I reflect on the emotional rollercoaster of seeing Taylor live, the chants and rituals that make the tour a cultural phenomenon, and the overwhelming joy of sharing it with my dad. Tune in for all the details—yes, including how much these spontaneous tickets cost—and why this night will forever hold a special place in my heart.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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As we gear up for season 2, I wanted to hop on the mic to share some thoughts that come to mind with Milo’s 3rd birthday coming up! In this bonus episode, I reflect on three transformative lessons I’ve learned in my first three years as a mom. From discovering the resilience and adaptability of parenthood to embracing the beautiful messiness of life with little ones, I’m sharing candid insights into how motherhood has shaped my perspective. Whether you're a new parent or years into the journey, this episode offers relatable moments and thoughtful takeaways for anyone navigating the chaos and joy of raising children.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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This episode contains a reference to suicide that some listeners may find upsetting. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988. 

In the first audience caller episode of The Real Stuff podcast, join us for a heartfelt journey into the complex world of parenthood and relationships. We're breaking new ground by bringing our audience into the conversation, featuring personal stories that reveal the profound impact a new baby can have on a couple's life. From the dissolution of partnerships to the strengthening of bonds, our guests share their raw and diverse experiences. We navigate through the euphoria and the turmoil, presenting an honest look at how children can both test and transform the relationships of their parents. We’ll explore the multifaceted challenges that can arise in post-baby marriages, including the strains of postpartum depression, diverging parenting styles, infidelity, and more. We'll unravel the importance of maintaining connection, the hurdles in seeking quality time, and the resilience required to co-parent effectively through separation. Each story guides us through the emotional extremes and provides solace in the shared struggles of parenthood.

Original airdate: 2/6/2024

Find Isabella on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isabellaeisenmann/ 

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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In this solo episode, I open up about my (chaotic) life as a mom of two and the unique challenges and joys that come with it. From the initial transition period to navigating postpartum recovery, I reflect on the mental and physical differences between my first and second experiences. I discuss my unexpected breastfeeding journey, managing overstimulation with a full house, and how my approach to parenthood has evolved over time. Tune in as I share the beautiful chaos of these early days, the lessons I’m learning along the way, and a few personal stories that perfectly capture this new season of motherhood.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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Emily DiDonato is a supermodel and influencer who has captivated millions with her stunning looks and down-to-earth personality. In this episode, Emily opens up about her journey from a modest upbringing to financial independence, sharing the pressures and unexpected blessings that shaped her modeling and influencer career. She delves into the challenges of balancing motherhood and professional ambitions, the personal impact of a recent miscarriage, and her evolving perspectives on body image, self-worth, and life in the suburbs. This raw conversation sheds light on the complex emotions of postpartum life, navigating societal expectations, and finding personal fulfillment in a world that constantly demands more.

Sponsors: 

Find your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code REALSTUFF15 at jennikayne.com/REALSTUFF15! #jennikaynepartner

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.  

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In part 2 of my birth story episode, I start from the moment Michael and I arrived at the hospital. I had an incredibly positive and enjoyable labor & delivery experience with only a *touch* of trauma. 😵‍💫🥲 Other than one scary moment after getting my epidural, giving birth to baby Coco was fun, easy, and hilarious. One of the highlights was when Michael, coached by my doctor, helped “catch” baby Coco and guide her out. Another was when I literally *coughed* and her head came out. This was such a memorable and special experience!

If you missed it, tune in to part 1 of my birth story first: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-stuff-with-lucie-fink/id1724982367?i=1000673974054

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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This week, I’m sharing my full *positive* birth story for baby number 2…our daughter Colette (aka baby Coco). In part 1, I take you through the final weeks of pregnancy, my efforts to naturally induce labor, and the emotional rollercoaster leading up to her arrival. From the pelvic pain that had me convinced she’d be here early, to the decision to go to the hospital on the night she was born, this episode covers it all - including a few unexpected twists and turns along the way.

Stay tuned for part 2 tomorrow where I’ll dive into the entire labor & delivery experience starting at when we arrived at the hospital!

Sponsor: 

Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today!

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: 

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.  

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