The REALationship Method

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Hawaiian-born R&B artist Kali talks about her musical journey from military kid to creating the "Fuck Girl Season" concept for her work as she navigates the music industry on her own terms. She shares deeply personal insights about expressing emotions through music and finding creative outlets when growing up in an Asian Pacific Islander household where vulnerability wasn't always encouraged.

• Growing up in Hawaii until age 8 before moving to Texas when her mother joined the military
• Parents' diverse musical tastes sparked her love of music from an early age
• Writing began as an emotional outlet in an environment where expressing feelings was difficult 
• Developed a strategic "seasons" approach to her music after working in PR and media journalism
• Current "Fuck Girl Season" represents self-awareness, chasing highs, and avoiding consequences
• Recommends channeling breakup emotions into creative outlets and leaning on close friends
• Views vulnerability in men as attractive but acknowledges some things should be handled privately
• Passionate about makeup, dancing, and fashion alongside her music career
• Believes passions are "planted" within us for a reason and should be explored

If you really have a passion or desire in your heart, there's a reason why that was planted in you. Be curious, follow it and see where it takes you, because it could lead to your purpose in life of impacting more people than you think.

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Chris and Lucy explore the complexities of modern relationships and the value of self-improvement before diving into dating. They share personal experiences about finding authentic connections in a digital world where genuine interactions have become increasingly rare.

• Lucy discusses starting her podcast and the power of manifesting goals
• The importance of enjoying in-person conversations instead of being constantly attached to phones
• How people reveal their true character during moments of conflict or stress
• Finding value in intellectual connection beyond physical attraction
• The evolution of relationship priorities as we mature and grow
• Accountability in relationships and calling out friends who don't act on their goals
• Views on dating people with children and different parenting approaches
• What separates their podcasts from others in the Hawaiian podcast landscape
• Finding comfort in being single while focusing on personal growth

Follow Lucy on Instagram @lucyinthegymwithweights and check out Lucy's Paradise Podcast.

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On this episode, I popped my online podcasting cherry (pause) with @christianhasasthma 

We talked about, cultural connections and upbringing, high school experiences and personal growth, navigating relationships, fashion trends and identity, cultural foods and community, the allure of the unattainable, the psychology of desire, confidence in rejection, psychology of desire, attraction and perception and much more!

Special shout to my boy, Christian, for being my very first online guest! Shout out to yay!

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My girl, Jhun, rolled through the set as surprise popup and we got down to business.

We talked about her secretly loving church, cell phone courtesies, starting to think outside of the box through conversation with other people, living with a single mother, does type matter when everything in the box is checked, women love to see men in their soft era, the right way to ask someone if they're gay or lesbian, handling childhood with two women as parents, her first lesbian interaction and much more!

Unspoken Truths: Love, Labels, & Life Lessons

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Matt @Lucid_explorers rolled through the set and we got into it.

We talked about lucid dreaming, being conscious in them, dream journaling and recalling, and Matt breaks down peoples dreams

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Sorry for the recording, we had microphone problems! Still enjoy the episode!

Model and Fitness coach, Jenny, rolled through the set to chop it up with your boy!

We talked about why Jenny is still single, how many hours does a person really need, is sleeping next to someone healthy, being attracted to certain men/women scents, how to reject a modeling shoot, modeling sketchy stories, it's okay to be alone, Chris' recent clubbing experience, how Karaoke is a bad place to connect with someone, the older you get, the less sex you think about, first impressions, and more!!!

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Back from a mini vacay!

On this episode, model and pageant winner, Tanaiah, rolled through the podcast.


We talked about her odd modeling shoot places, dating a twin, awkward moments when a person shoots their shot, are you cheating if you're making over $100k?, which Disney character could get it and much more!

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Our first ever online podcast episode, thanks to Riverside. 

I caught up with Jay and we talked about Pokemon, Washington woes, if he's coming back to Hawaii to join the podcast and much, much more. 

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After reaching like fifty times, I finally got content creator, influencer, comedian, car salesman, a jack of all trades, Von aka Estrelluh on the podcast.

We talked about how he got viral, being humble with big/little d*ck energy, men getting body enhancements, why men and women are afraid of commitment nowadays, everybody wanting to have s*x with everybody, being self disciplined in a relationship, social media giving a false sense of reality, if someone doesn't say 'no', there's still chance, and much more.

'The world is so big, you have to be bigger than your home state.' 

And another Sincerely, yours letter.

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Youtuber and hooper, Captain Jamie, of JVLOGS, rolled through the set to chop it up. We talked about, posting on IG and Youtube (we are one video away from blowing up), working at Pink Sails Waikiki as a Captain, working with entitled guests, being ugly before you hit the court and then becoming cute when you get walk off, people don't root for success and only applaud achievement, what do you see first on ig, tagged photos?, playing basketball with the locals and women, and much more!