The Rebbe’s advice - Rabbi Chaim Wolosow

The Rebbe emphasizes that while unity is important, the fixed communal nusach must remain Lubavitch, as halacha permits changing to Nusach Sefard/Arizal but not the reverse. Prayer, the essence of the synagogue, is the channel for all blessings.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/015/012/5683

The Rebbe blesses the parents to raise their son, along with their other children, to Torah, marriage, and good deeds with peace of mind and body, citing the principle that those involved in proper education merit the same for their own children. He encloses a talk on Elul for practical action.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/004_igros_kodesh/av/1143

The Rebbe encourages his teaching role in preparing for Mashiach and advises keeping daily Chumash, Tehillim, Tanya, giving regular charity, and increasing Torah or prayer recitation.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/004_igros_kodesh/av/1142

The Rebbe gives a path of tikkun through tzedakah, increased shalom bayis, daily Tikkunei Zohar, and strengthening Torah study. He stresses the importance of peace, especially now, and suggests sharing the guidance with the wife for mutual healing and blessing.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/004_igros_kodesh/av/1141

The Rebbe thanks for the special gift of an etrog grown from Calabria seed and blesses that its spiritual significance be fulfilled. He encourages the writer to continue influencing others, especially during Elul and the Days of Awe, when Divine closeness and personal awakening are heightened.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/015/012/5682

The Rebbe offers a blessing for a suitable match and suggests consulting a Rav about possibly seeking forgiveness from his late ex-wife, especially if past conduct lacked modesty. He encourages keeping the daily Chitas study schedule from now on.

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he Rebbe advises against accepting a position in India, noting concerns about the Jewish environment and its unsuitability for a newlywed. He blesses the couple with peaceful, ample livelihood enabling Jewish outreach, and encourages maintaining daily Chitas and giving tzedakah before candle lighting.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/015/012/5680

The Rebbe comforts a young educator struggling emotionally, reminding her of the immense value of drawing Jewish hearts closer to Hashem. He emphasizes that negative feelings are temporary and can be eased by internalizing hashgachah pratit and living with faith and simplicity, bringing renewed joy and strength in her mission.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/015/012/5679

The Rebbe explains that emotional overreaction stems from a lack of deep internalization of hashgachah pratit. He advises meditating on “לפני המלך” from Tanya ch. 41, continuing with daily Chitas, and avoiding overanalyzing one's spiritual state—instead, following the straight path of Torah with effort and consistency.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/015/012/5678

The Rebbe reports mentioning the writer at the Ohel for success in his mission and encourages organizing a farbrengen to strengthen love of Hashem, Torah, and fellow Jews. He emphasizes the principle of sowing spirituality to increase material success and sends greetings to all Jews connected to Torah and mitzvos.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/004_igros_kodesh/av/1140