The Relationship Review with Delsie Martin

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Part two of a three part series on parenting as a team. Today's episode is parenting teens as a teen, the difficulties that your relationship may face in parenting young adults and practical ways you can continue to build a strong connection with your partner.

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Many of us don’t receive proper education about our bodies and we certainly don’t receive education in how to give and receive pleasure. We are left to fumble around in the dark figuring it out or modelling what we see in pornography and major media. Neither of these options are great and can leave people feeling uncomfortable, out of place and sometimes traumatized in the bedroom. This can lead to low self esteem and problematic romantic relationships that affect all areas of our mental well being. I want to give you the sex ed class that we all hoped for in a way that is safe, respectful, professional, and honest. 

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Nummenmaa, L., Suvilehto, J. T., Glerean, E., Santtila, P., & Hietanen, J. K. (2016). Topography of human erogenous zones. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 45(5), 1207–1216. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-016-0745-z

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Winks, C., Semans, A., & Winks, C. (2002). The good vibrations guide to sex: The most complete sex manual ever written. Cleis Press.

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Our season two finale is "Endings" an episode dedicated to breakup, separation and divorce. With beginnings come endings so it's important to understand the pre, during and post breakup processes to help you answer the question of, "Who am I without my partner?".

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 Hatch, Le, Y., & Doss, B. D. (2021). Make up or Break up? Charting the Well-Being of Low-Income Help-Seeking Couples Through the Breakup Process. Journal of Family Psychology, 35(8), 1107–1116. https://doi.org/10.1037/fam0000859

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On this Sexy Saturday we look at all things masturbation! It's incredible mental and physical health benefits. Join me to learn more.

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Winks, C., Semans, A., & Winks, C. (2002). Masturbation. In The good vibrations guide to sex: The most complete sex manual ever written. essay, Cleis Press. 

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On today's episode we take a close look at the different kinds of boundaries that we set in our intimate relationships. How can we set these boundaries in the most ethical way for everyone involved. Boundaries are the solid foundation of every romantic relationship. I invite you to this brave space to look at yours a bit closer.

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On our first Sexy Saturday we take a look at relationships that either have reduced sexual activity or no sexual activity. We also discuss maintaining your sexual wellness and beginning to have conversations about sex with your partner

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