The Resilient Mind

This week, in solidarity with the black community, we share some resources we think are worth listening to/reading.

- On Being with Krista Tippett: https://onbeing.org/programs/resmaa-menakem-notice-the-rage-notice-the-silence/

- The Secret to Success with Eric Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cxwOQn2lrA

- My Grandmother's Hands by Resmaa Manakem: https://www.resmaa.com/books

This week, we simply wanted to express our solidarity with people of color in America.

     - George Floyd Memorial Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/georgefloyd

     - Justice for George Floyd Petition: https://www.change.org/p/mayor-jacob-frey-justice-for-george-floyd

     - Donate to Black Lives Matter: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/ms_blm_homepage_2019

Books:

     - White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism: https://www.amazon.com/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism/dp/0807047414

     - The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration In the Age of Colorblindness: https://www.amazon.com/New-Jim-Crow-Incarceration-Colorblindness/dp/1620971933/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+new+Jim+crow&qid=1591063103&s=books&sr=1-1

     - How to Be an Antiracist: https://www.amazon.com/How-to-Be-an-Antiracist-audiobook/dp/B07TT85KLQ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=26TGPAON4LMFT&dchild=1&keywords=how+to+be+an+antiracist+ibram+x.+kendi&qid=1591063157&s=books&sprefix=how+to+b%2Cstripbooks%2C150&sr=1-1

In this episode, we discuss the roll of the therapist. Particularly, Natalie talks about expectations of both therapists and clients, and the importance of understanding the roll each plays in the healing process.

In this episode, Natalie discusses the importance of separating the past from the present, particularly in the context of present-day triggers. She shares some helpful tips on how to recognize when you are responding to situations in a reactive way that is rooted in your past difficulties. 

In this episode, Sam interviews Natalie about Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Particularly, Natalie discusses how she became interested in working with DID, what makes working with DID unique, and some of the challenges people with DID can face when trying to find a professional to assist them on their healing journey.

ISSTD Website: https://www.isst-d.org

Beauty After Bruises: https://www.beautyafterbruises.org

Treating Complex Trauma and Dissociation by Lynette Danylchuk and Kevin Connors: https://www.amazon.com/Treating-Complex-Dissociation-Lynette-Danylchuk-dp-1138838276/dp/1138838276/ref=mt_paperback?_encoding=UTF8&me=&qid=

In this episode, Natalie discusses what it means to be resilient. She affirms that resiliency is not just an attribute one is born with, but one that can be learned as well. Everyone has resiliency factors, and Natalie shares some steps you can take to grow and develop your resiliencies. 

Links:

- https://lisadanylchuk.com/books/

- https://drarielleschwartz.com/books-by-dr-schwartz/#.XrC1Zy2ZNhF

- Resiliency Questionnaire: http://www.traumainformedcareproject.org/resources/RESILIENCE_Questionnaire.pdf

In this episode, Natalie discusses several different types of body-based therapies that help trauma survivors to feel more safe in their bodies. Additionally, she talks about how somatic therapies can help you to befriend your body. She specifically talks about sensorimotor psychotherapy, which she is currently being trained in, and Becoming Safely Embodied, which she is also being trained in. 

Links:

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (Pat Ogden): https://www.sensorimotorpsychotherapy.org/home/index.html

Becoming Safely Embodied (Deirda Fay): https://dfay.com

Janina Fisher: https://janinafisher.com

In this episode, Natalie Bowler interviews her husband, Sam, about the healing power of music.

In today's episode, we are joined by Danielle Ryder. Danielle is a licensed professional counselor in Nashville, TN. She discusses some of the challenges that medical professionals and first responders are currently facing, including secondary or vicarious trauma. 

To access the pandemic plan discussed in the episode, follow this link: http://safehaventherapy.com/pandemic-plan

In this episode, we discuss telehealth. In particular, Natalie explains some of the challenges that remote therapy presents to both clients and therapists. She shares some helpful tips on how to navigate doing therapy remotely and how to walk through some of the triggers that telehealth can present to some people.