The Key Learning Points:
1. How poor mental health can impact your career and make you reassess your life goals
2. The impact that having children, whilst working at a law firm, can have on career progression
3. The changing discourse surrounding mental health and the importance of removing the stigma around mental health struggles
In this episode of the Risky Mix podcast, we’re joined by Joanne Theodoulou, a lady who has held a number of senior positions within financial services law and is currently general counsel and company secretary at Simply Business. Jo is a mental health advocate and sits on the board of trustees at leading mental health charity, Mind.
We hear more about Jo’s story, losing both of her parents by age 15, her ambition to become financially independent and entering a career in law after university. She entered the world of work as a trainee solicitor at a top City law firm and was lucky to spend six months working in New York. Jo explains that she often worked very long hours with the law firm but adds: “I remember noticing women who were older than me still doing that, and I remember thinking, I don’t want to be doing this, I don’t want to be in the office at midnight on a regular basis when I’m a bit more senior. I’m happy to do it now while I’m still learning, but I’m not sure I want to be doing this forever.”
Jo is married and now has two teenagers. Her original plan was to have children in her mid to late 30s, potentially after becoming a partner. But Jo explains that children entered the picture slightly earlier than planned after she experienced a period of mental illness: “Things changed for me quite dramatically when I was 28. I had a very intense period of being mentally ill. I had a deep depression that then turned into a manic episode. I was psychotic for a while and ended up being sectioned under the Mental Health Act and spent six weeks in a psychiatric clinic before I was diagnosed and then found the right treatment and the right medications.” Jo explains that that experience made her re-evaluate what she wanted and when she wanted it, and so a couple of years later she had her children in her early 30s.
Jo went back to work at the law firm after taking a number of months off on maternity leave. She worked on a flexible basis, still working five days per week, but on reduced hours, which gave her afternoon time to spend with her son. She explains that this was unusual within law firms and says that she did see an impact on her career progression. Jo admits that, after having children, she didn’t put herself forward for the big transactions, the ones that used to excite her, because there was too much risk that she would have to work extremely long hours, which she didn’t want. Naturally, the smaller projects got less exposure, to both clients and partners within the firm.
Jo explains that when she returned to work after her mental health episode, she didn’t talk to anyone about it: “It was 1999, and I can tell you, no one was talking about mental health then, at all. I came back into the workplace and I didn’t talk about it at all, I didn’t tell anyone where I’d been or what had been going on for me.” Jo explained that because she was a junior lawyer, she felt she still had a lot to do in terms of proving herself and her ability and she didn’t want anything to knock her back.
Becoming a board trustee of mental health charity, Mind, was a turning point for Jo: “If I am going to be serious about taking on a role like this, I want to be a real ambassador for the charity. To do that I need to be open about my own story. And I never had been. So that was a little bit of a turning point.”