In this empowering episode of Bent Not Broken, host Deborah Griffiths sits down with the remarkable Kerry Brett — a celebrity photographer turned dating strategist — who has helped thousands transform their love lives and rediscover confidence in the modern dating world. Kerry shares her deeply personal journey of heartbreak, healing, and ultimately, how she learned to take her power back and create the life and love she truly deserved.

From navigating toxic relationships and overcoming self-worth struggles to crafting irresistible dating profiles and believing in the possibility of love again, Kerry’s wisdom is both heartfelt and practical. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone ready to break free from old patterns and embrace a healthier, more empowered approach to dating — and to life.

🪩 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Becoming Your Own Hero: Why shifting from “damsel in distress” to self-reliance changes everything.
• Patterns & Power: How recognizing toxic relationship cycles helps you stop repeating them.
• Rebuilding Confidence: Daily decisions that helped Kerry reclaim her self-worth after heartbreak.
• Taking Back Your Power: How to recognize when you’re giving it away — and how to reclaim it.
• Financial Independence & Worthiness: Why money, self-worth, and love are all connected.
• Red Flags & Gut Instincts: Why early warning signs matter — and how to stop ignoring them.
• Healing & Faith: How surrendering, trusting, and letting go can transform your life.
• Dating Apps Demystified: Expert strategies to create standout profiles and avoid burnout.
• Love is Everywhere: Why reframing love and shifting your mindset is key to finding it again.
• Transforming “Failure”: How to view breakups as opportunities for growth and self-discovery.

✨ Notable Quotes“People will tell you who they are in 90 seconds — we just have to listen.” “Wealth isn’t just money. Wealth is health, creativity, humor, and love.” “You have to put the backpack of bricks down. You can’t move forward if you’re carrying the past.” “Love isn’t something outside of us — it’s something we already have.”
📘 About Kerry Brett

Kerry Brett is a master photographer, dating strategist, and host of the 13× award-winning podcast Shot at Love. She is also the author of Shot at Love, a powerful guide blending pop culture, personal stories, and proven strategies to help people find confidence and authentic connection online. Having helped thousands of clients boost their self-worth, create irresistible profiles, and find love, Kerry is a trusted voice in modern dating.

🔗 Connect with Kerry

• 📖 Book: Shot at Love on Amazon
• 🎙️ Podcast: Shot at Love

New chapters released weekly

• 📸 Instagram: @kerry_brett
• 💻 Website: shotatlovebook.com

🙌 Final Thoughts

Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, stepping back into the dating world, or simply looking to rediscover your self-worth, Kerry’s story proves that it’s never too late to rewrite your love story. Tune in to this inspiring conversation and learn how to drop the baggage, embrace your worth, and open your heart to new possibilities.

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