What's the point of all this labor? 
"Unto us a child is born; unto us a son is given."
 Come to the tree and come to the tomb.
 Surrender your labor and it becomes God's Labor. 
Be born of God.

It's time for a new reformation. 
"It is Finished," means "You are Finished." 
At the tree, in the garden, the Word of God finishes you with Faith.
 You are "justified" (finished, perfected) by Faith.

What is masculinity?
 "Behold The Man" (John 19:5). 
Rules won't change you. The Law can't change you.
 But beholding The Man will "transform you 
from one degree of glory to another" (2 Cor. 3:18).

We don't judge the Truth. The Truth judges us. 
Salvation is accepting (and this accepting is not "of yourself"), the Truth (Jesus is The Truth), that you have been created by Grace. 
"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this not of yourself ...For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus.”

Drink the cup the Lord has for you. It's not "the cup Judas has for you," or "the cup your enemies have for you." 
It's the cup your Heavenly Father has for you. It's your best life NOW.

You have AN Eternal Life. To refuse to live your Eternal Life is to trap yourself in time, in hell. But to live it, is to come home—home to God, and home to who you really are.

The Glory of God is hidden in your wounds. "In my deepest wound I see your glory and it dazzles me." —St. Augustine