Leading by Example: Navigating the Digital Age for Our Children's Mental Health"

In today's episode of the School of Custody podcast, we dive deep into a pressing issue facing parents and children alike in the digital age: the mental health crisis exacerbated by excessive smartphone and social media use. Join us as we explore alarming trends affecting tweens and teens, as evidenced by the countless headlines proclaiming that "The Kids Are Not Okay."

Reflecting on a simpler time — when climbing trees and exploring nature were common childhood activities — we discuss the stark contrast with today's tech-immersed youth. How can parents set a positive example in a world where screens often replace face-to-face interactions?

Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, we emphasize the importance of modeling the behavior we wish to see in our children. From putting down our own phones to creating family policies that encourage unplugged time, we explore strategies that prioritize the mental well-being of our kids.

We also address the challenges of co-parenting in separate households and offer insights on how to establish consistent rules across homes, advocating for children's health through communication and collaboration with ex-partners.

Our goal is to spark reflection, offer practical advice, and empower you with the tools to prioritize your children's well-being and lead by example. Whether you’re co-parenting after a divorce or simply striving to create a stable, nurturing environment, we’re here to help you build a stronger foundation for the future.

💡 Please note: Our content is for informational purposes only and not intended as legal or therapeutic advice.

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Are you spending endless hours documenting parental alienation—just in case you end up in court? You’re not alone. But is all that effort helping, or is it draining your energy and keeping you stuck in a state of survival?

In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the emotional, legal, and personal costs of documenting alienating behaviors. While protecting yourself and your children is important, it's just as vital to consider what this documentation is costing you—and what it may be costing your relationship with your children.

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💡 Plus, we’ll explore quotes from spiritual leaders, athletes, and artists on how focus shapes our reality—and how redirecting your energy can help you show up as the parent your child truly needs.

📢 This episode is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal or therapeutic advice. Please consult an attorney or mental health professional in your area.

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🎙️ Identification with the Aggressor: When Your Child Turns Against You

Is your child acting aggressively, violently, or with hostility after you’ve left an abusive relationship? You're not alone—and there’s a psychological explanation that might help you make sense of it.

In this episode, we explore Identification with the Aggressor—a defense mechanism in which children unconsciously adopt the behaviors of an abusive or manipulative parent. We break down how and why this happens, especially in the context of high-conflict custody battles and domestic violence.

In this episode, we cover:

Whether you’re a parent, survivor, or professional working with families in crisis, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and actionable steps.

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🎙️ Are You Being Falsely Accused of Falsely Accusing?

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🎙️ Are You Being Falsely Accused of Falsely Accusing?

In this compelling episode of The School of Custody podcast, we confront a damaging and all-too-common narrative: that survivors of domestic violence fabricate abuse to gain custody or control. If you’ve been accused of lying about abuse—or if you're fighting to protect your children in a high-conflict custody case—this episode offers clarity, validation, and critical insight.

We explore:

How domestic violence cases are handled by police and prosecutors

Why it's the state, not the victim, that presses charges

How abusers and their attorneys shift blame to discredit victims

What to expect in criminal vs. family court

How to safeguard your children from alienation and misinformation

While not a substitute for legal or therapeutic advice, this episode is grounded in lived experience and professional insight. You're not alone, and your story matters.

🔗 Visit schoolofcustody.com to suggest future topics or access support resources.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of domestic violence and legal proceedings.

We explore:

How domestic violence cases are handled by police and prosecutors

Why it's the state, not the victim, that presses charges

How abusers and their attorneys shift blame to discredit victims

What to expect in criminal vs. family court

How to safeguard your children from alienation and misinformation

While not a substitute for legal or therapeutic advice, this episode is grounded in lived experience and professional insight. You're not alone, and your story matters.

🔗 Visit schoolofcustody.com to suggest future topics or access support resources.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of domestic violence and legal proceedings.

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⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses real-life domestic violence incidents witnessed in public settings.

In this powerful and emotional episode, we recount a disturbing moment that unfolded in downtown Philadelphia — an act of domestic violence in a public plaza, witnessed by bystanders and, heartbreakingly, two small children. Through this firsthand account, we explore what it means to witness abuse, how society often reacts (or doesn't), and the deep impact it has on young observers.

We talk about what coercive control looks like, how abuse can shape a child's worldview, and what you can do — safely — if you witness violence. Whether you’re a survivor, a bystander, or an advocate, this episode provides clear and compassionate guidance on how to respond, seek help, and protect vulnerable children.

👂 Listen in to understand how we can shift the norm and create a safer world, one act of courage and compassion at a time.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, reach out to local resources or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE (7233).

DUI with kids in the car? Discover the life-changing consequences of custody battles. A must-hear.

🎙️ Episode Title: Help Alienated Kids

In this episode, we reflect on a powerful video from the Anti-Aliénation Project titled "No One Is Helping the Kids Because the Experts Won't Work Together." Hosted by Madison McCain in conversation with Dorsey Pruder—both adult survivors of parental alienation—the video highlights the frustrating reality: children are being harmed while professionals argue over definitions.

We dive into the divide between two main schools of thought—those aligned with Richard Gardner’s Parental Alienation Syndrome and those, like Dr. Craig Childress, who advocate using established psychological abuse criteria found in the DSM.

This episode also explores the importance of elevating the voices of adult children who have lived through alienation, recognizing them as the true experts in this field.

Drawing from my own background in crisis intervention, child abuse prevention, and legal advocacy, I share insights into why the system is failing children and what reforms, especially in legal education and training, could make a real difference. 

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If you care about child welfare, family court reform, or the psychology of family trauma, this episode is for you. Don’t miss this critical conversation.

In this episode, we explore how traditional discipline methods can backfire in high-conflict divorce situations and how understanding intergenerational trauma can shift parenting approaches. Inspired by the Family Separation Clinic and Karen Woodall, we focus on awareness, healing, and growth.

In this powerful episode, we uncover the hidden trauma of parental alienation. From a moment of reflection in Golden, Colorado, to Amanda Sillars’ inspiring work with EMMM, and “Lynn’s story” of abuse and legal failure, this is a call for awareness, advocacy, and change.

In this episode, we dive into the intersection of mental health and divorce—how diagnoses can be weaponized, the risks of untreated issues, and the emotional toll on both parents and kids. Learn about parentification, emotional regulation, and creating safe spaces for children. This is awareness, not advice—always consult a professional. #DivorceSupport #MentalHealthAwareness