In this episode we talk about how too much stuff can create conflict; When kids have less toys they have to use their imagination to play games. When we focus on what we value we can find creative solutions that emphasize connections.

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We discuss several second steps in this episode which involves the story of how Rachel`s grandchild takes a step, looses balance, calls out for help, receives encouraging support and then keeps going. 

This podcast is the story of one of our listener`s growing from being a part-time artist to making it her full-time gig. She describes how she was intentional about this choice, and set some larger goals that she broke into small manageable steps. She has been able to transform rejection into seeing it as feedback as she created a community for herself.

The second step often involves taking a risk. We may have to face a fear of hurting ourselves physically or feeling vulnerable. It helps to know that the sweet spot of life is often at the other side of the risk.

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Our society and families often have very set ideas about how children should behave, what are the best types of jobs and education. Unfortunately these expectations can interfere with recognizing and celebrating the unique gifts that children and adults have. Sometimes the second step is to look beyond cultural norms and let people be themselves and pursue what lights them up. 

There are so many demands on us these days. Trying to be the best partner, spouse, parent, employee can feel really overwhelming. It is important to remember that you are one person and have limitations. The second step in big questions is; How doe these choices align with my values and what is most important to me?

Sometimes we get busy and loose connection with others. Rachel discussed the importance of checking in with people and using the green, yellow and red traffic light exercise as a short-cut to identifying where people are at. It can open conversations or let people know to proceed with caution.

We all have fearful thoughts that can create anxiety. The second step may be to remember how faith, love, hope and gratitude cast out fear.

A wish becomes a reality when we take small steps forward. It may begin with an idea, then contemplating the idea, speaking it out loud, getting ready, and stepping out the door.