After creating a plan in the Preparation stage, the real work begins. This episode tackles Stage 4 of the recovery blueprint: Rebuilding. This is the profound and often difficult process of letting go of the person you were before your setback to make space for the person you are now. Host Jan Carter explores the psychology of "narrative identity" and explains why grieving your "old self" is a necessary step. Learn a powerful, three-part framework to honor your past achievements, bravely experiment with who you are becoming, and redefine your metrics for success in the present.
References and Further Reading
Dan P. McAdams: A psychologist widely considered the originator of the "Narrative Identity" concept. His book, "The Stories We Live By: Personal Myths and the Making of the Self," is the foundational work on the psychological idea that our identity is the story we tell about our lives.
Narrative Therapy: This is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on helping people separate themselves from their problems and re-author their life stories. Resources from organizations like the Dulwich Centre (a major center for narrative therapy) are a great place to learn more about this powerful approach.
Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross: A pioneer in the study of grief. Her work on the five stages (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance) provides a valuable vocabulary for the emotional journey that follows the loss of one's former health. Her book, "On Grief and Grieving," is a classic.
American Psychological Association (APA): The APA offers numerous articles on the psychological impact of illness. Their resource, "Coping with a diagnosis of chronic illness," is an excellent, credible starting point for understanding and managing the emotional challenges.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): The "values audit" and the idea of redefining success based on your current reality are core principles of ACT. Accessible books like "The Happiness Trap" by Dr. Russ Harris provide a great introduction to these concepts.
The CHIME Framework for Recovery: This model, often used in mental health, highlights five key processes for a fulfilling recovery: Connectedness, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. It provides a great structure for thinking about the new "metrics for success" in your life.
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