Today’s episode is a full-on DATING DEBRIEF. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in dating burnout 🙃, ghosted someone because you weren’t sure how to say “I’m not feeling it,” got ghosted and spiraled hard, or stared at your phone thinking “Do I even want to be dating right now??” 😒 This episode is for you.

We’re talking:

• Why online dating feels so bloody different to meeting someone IRL
• How to tell if you actually want to date or if you’re just “should-ing” yourself into it
• First date nerves and how to keep your power
• The ghosting epidemic - why it happens and how to handle it.
• Getting over the ick (yes, even when he’s wearing marathon sunnies)

AND I’m dishing out a little tough love (as always) for my friends who say they want love but can’t even tolerate a slightly awkward voice note. (That’s not an ick, that’s emotional unavailability in disguise and we need to talk.)

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If your dating life feels like a never-ending loop of ghosting, confusion, and anxiety… you need this episode. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m breaking down the subtle, yet game-changing, difference between dating from scarcity vs. abundance. This conversation was sparked by a real-life moment from a 1:1 client session that I knew I had to share with you. If you’re sick of overthinking every text, afraid to speak your truth, or constantly worried you’re “too much”… then my love, this one is a must-listen.

We dive into:
• What it really means to date from scarcity vs. abundance (and how to spot which one is running the show)
• How to shift from people-pleasing to radical self-respect in your dating life
• Why clarity and directness don’t scare off the right person - they magnetise them
• A real-time reframe that helped my client go from anxious to empowered (and got her the exact clarity she needed)
• Why filling your own tank is the foundation for healthy love, and how to actually do that

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Ever caught yourself planning your wedding playlist after one flirty date? 👀 Already imagining what your couple selfies will look like before you even know their last name? You’re not alone, my love—and you’re not crazy. In today’s juicy episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, I’m answering a question I get all the time: “How do I stop myself from spiraling into fantasy land and imagining my whole life with someone I barely know?!” If dating has you exhausted from mentally fast-forwarding every new connection… this one’s for you.

We dive into:
💭 Why your brain creates elaborate fantasies after a first date
🧠 What’s actually going on in your nervous system when this happens
🚩 How fantasy attachment blocks real connection and leads to burnout
🔥 My signature 4-step Anti-Obsession Method to stop spiraling and stay grounded
👑 How to stop abandoning yourself in dating and show up secure AF

PEACEFULLY ATTACHED
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If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “I’ll be happy when…” — when I find my person, when I make more money, when I finally feel chosen — this episode is your wake-up call. Fresh from my Europe trip, I’m sharing the biggest shift I had around what it actually means to live fully — without waiting for the relationship, the job, or the external milestone to give you permission to enjoy your life. We dive into why so many women (especially those with anxious attachment) press pause on their joy, and how that mindset is quietly keeping you stuck in low self-worth and disconnection. You’ll learn why living a full, joy-filled life right now is not only healing for your nervous system… but also one of the most magnetic things you can do in dating. No more waiting. Let’s go.

🔥 In this episode, we cover:
• The trap of “I’ll be happy when…” thinking
• Why anxious daters hyper-focus on relationships to feel worthy
• How society conditioned you to believe love is the goal
• The self-worth, confidence, and identity you gain when you start living for YOU
• What actually makes you magnetic to secure, healthy love
• Tangible steps to start living fully today — without waiting for a partner to make it happen

🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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You think you’re searching for a relationship, but what you’re really craving is relief. A break from the spiral of overthinking and the constant need to feel “enough.” In this episode, I’m sharing a truth I learned the hard way: When you haven’t learned how to regulate your own emotions, you’ll unconsciously make your partner responsible for doing it for you. And that, my love, is where anxious dating patterns are born. We’re diving deep into why love isn’t the fix you think it is—and how chasing a relationship to soothe your anxiety will only leave you feeling more alone. 

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

✨ How to spot when you’re emotionally outsourcing 

✨ The real reason relationships don’t “fix” your anxiety

✨ What it actually means to create peace from within

✨ And the question you need to ask yourself today if you want to feel truly secure in love.

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In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, I welcome special guest and Human Design expert, Hilary McVeigh. Hilary shares her journey from being a burnt-out lawyer to a guide helping people reconnect with their authentic selves through human design. We dive into what human design is, how it can help you understand yourself better, and how you can align your life and relationships with your true energy. Hilary opens up about her personal experiences with hitting rock bottom and the transformation that led her to where she is today. We also discuss the different human design types and how each type can thrive both individually and in relationships. This episode is packed with insights and tips for anyone looking to live more authentically and in alignment with their true self. 🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

CONNECT WITH HILLARY! You can connect with Hillary on Instagram, stream her Designed As You Podcast, and find out more about working together here.

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Ever wonder why you keep repeating the same patterns in dating — like chasing emotionally unavailable people, feeling like you’re “too much,” or constantly questioning your worth? In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re going deeper than surface-level dating advice. Because often, what you’re experiencing in love today has everything to do with the environment you grew up in.

You’ll learn:
• How your nervous system was shaped by early attachment experiences
• The link between childhood emotional neglect and anxious attachment in adulthood
• Why you feel more chemistry with people who are inconsistent
• How your inner child might be running the show in your love life
• Practical ways to start healing and breaking the cycle

This episode is here to help you connect the dots — not to blame your past, but to free you from patterns that are no longer serving you. When you understand where your patterns came from, you finally have the power to change them. 🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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Have you ever met someone new and immediately felt hooked? Like one great date has your brain spiraling with “What if they’re the one?!” and then panicking when they take hours to reply? In this episode of the Secure Love Club podcast, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and confusing) experiences for anxiously attached daters: the difference between genuine excitement… and anxious attachment.

You’ll learn:
• How to tell the difference between real connection and nervous system activation
• The signs you’re anxiously attaching (and not just “really into them”)
• Why you spiral when someone pulls away or doesn’t text back
• How your early experiences shaped this pattern — and what to do about it
• Tangible tools to ground yourself and stop overfunctioning in dating

If dating tends to leave you feeling obsessed, dysregulated, or like you’re losing yourself — this episode is your permission slip to pause, regulate, and come back home to you. 🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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My friends… this one is a soul shaker. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to stop tolerating the bare minimum — from yourself, your life, your relationships — and finally take radical ownership, this is it. Today I sat down with the powerhouse that is Dijana Djukicc, and you’re about to get your entire mindset rearranged in the best way.

Dijana is a coach, personal trainer, nutrition practitioner, and the woman behind a multiple seven-figure business that helps women become hot, healed, and high-performing — without the burnout. But what makes her so magnetic is that she’s not just preaching the work, she’s lived it. Her story of transformation — from trauma, binge cycles, and emotional dysregulation to deep healing, powerful love, and massive success — is raw, real, and ridiculously inspiring.

In this episode, we talk all things:
• What true self-discipline really is (hint: it’s not punishment — it’s self-devotion)
• How discipline, regulation, and self-respect are the holy trinity of transformation
• Her full-circle journey from trauma and toxic coping to a wildly fulfilling life
• How to catch yourself in your own BS and stop outsourcing your power
• The difference between productive vs unproductive shame
• What most people get wrong about femininity, and why her version triggers the internet
• How to navigate old patterns and triggers without sabotaging your future
• Why radical honesty (with yourself and others) is the real flex

🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

🔥 CONNECT WITH DIJANA
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Ever feel like you always fall for the person who sends mixed signals, keeps you guessing, and never fully commits? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Secure Love Club Podcast, we’re diving deep into why emotionally unavailable people feel so magnetic—and why breaking this cycle feels nearly impossible. I’m sharing my own journey from anxious attachment to security, unpacking the real reasons you keep getting stuck in this pattern (spoiler: it’s not your fault!). We’ll talk about: how childhood experiences shape your attraction to unavailable partners, why the emotional rollercoaster feels like love (but isn’t), he nervous system’s role in keeping you hooked on the chase, and practical steps to break free and start choosing healthy, secure relationships. Let’s break the cycle together. 🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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