Ep 147-Should You Host an Event? How to Plan Events That Actually Grow Your Business
Let’s just get right to it:
Hosting an event is not just picking a date, sending an invite, and hoping people show up.
If you’ve ever hosted one—or even thought about it—you already know…
It takes your time.
Your energy.
Your money.
And honestly… your heart.
And here’s the truth most people don’t talk about:
Not every event that “looks successful” actually feels successful.
Some fill the room and still leave you completely drained.
Step One: Should You Even Host the Event?
Before we get into how to host an event…
We need to talk about whether you should be hosting one at all.
Because events are one of the highest energy investments you can make in your business.
So the real question isn’t:
“Will this help my business grow?”
Does this make sense for me right now? What Hosting an Event Actually Costs
Let’s be honest about it:
Money – venue, food, materialsTime – planning, outreach, promotionMental load – constantly thinking about itEnergy – showing up, holding space, managing peopleAftermath – because you don’t just walk away from an eventSo before you say yes, ask yourself:
Do I actually have the capacity for this right now?
The 5-Question Filter (Use This Before You Say Yes)
1. What is the real purpose of the event?
Lead generationRelationship buildingRevenueVisibility2. Who is this for?
Events are not for everyone.
The more specific you are, the more powerful the experience becomes.
3. What does success actually look like?
Because a full room doesn’t mean a meaningful experience.
4. What is the real ROI?
Money?Relationships?Trust?Content?Define it before you begin.
5. Does this align with my energy right now?
This one matters more than people admit.
Your life outside your business matters:
FamilySchedulesSeasons of lifeIf your energy isn’t aligned, the event will feel heavy—no matter how successful it looks.
When an Event Is Actually Worth It
An event makes sense when:
It aligns with what you already doYou’re clear on its purposeYou can fully hold the spaceNoOr not right nowBoth are powerful decisions.
Step Two: How to Host an Event That Actually Works
Most people jump straight into logistics.
But that’s not what makes an event successful.
Start With This Instead: How Do You Want People to Feel?
Because people don’t remember:
Your agendaYour slidesYour scheduleHow they felt in the room. Do you want them to feel:
Seen?Connected?Inspired?Comfortable?That’s your starting point.
Connection Over Content (This Is Where Events Win or Lose)
SpeakersStructureSchedulesInteractionConversationReal connectionAnd that’s where they fall flat.
Because the most valuable part of an event is often:
What happens between people—not on stage. Keep It Simple (Seriously)
A huge spaceOver-the-top decorA packed schedulePeople are more presentEnergy is more relaxedConnection happens naturallyOvercomplication = burnout (for you and them)
The Follow-Up Is Where the Real ROI Happens
This is where most people drop the ball.
Who are you following up with?How are you continuing the conversation?Where are you guiding people next?Invite them into your communitySend a thoughtful follow-up emailAsk for feedbackHave 1:1 conversationsRedefining Event Success
“How many people showed up?”
Who showed upWhat connections were madeWhat conversations happenedWhat continued afterSometimes a smaller room creates a much bigger impact.
Protect Your Energy (This Matters Most)
You can host a “successful” event…
And still feel completely depleted.
Build space before and afterSet realistic expectationsDon’t overextend just to impressBecause if you’re drained, the event isn’t sustainable.
Final Thought
If you’re thinking about hosting an event, hold both questions:
Should I do this?
and
How do I do this well?
Because this isn’t just about events.
It’s about how you choose to build, connect, and show up.
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