Excerpts from: What does the Bible teach us about bullying?
Neal Hardin
Genesis 1:27
So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them
Bullying happens more frequently than you might think. According to the American Medical Association, by the time students finish school, nearly half of students have been bullied at one point or another
What is Bullying?
Researchers who study bullying cite three common characteristics of what makes an act bullying:
· Bullying is intentional and tries to cause harm or distress to the victim.
· Bullying occurs between two students who have different degrees of power.
· Bullying happens repeatedly over a period of time.
There are three types of bullying that occur:
1. Physical: Hitting, kicking, spitting, tripping, pushing, breaking someone’s things, rude gestures
2. Verbal: Teasing, name-calling, threats, inappropriate sexual comments, taunting
3. Social: Leaving someone out of a group on purpose, telling others not to be friends with them, publicly embarrassing them, spreading gossip or rumors about someone.
How should Christians respond to bullying?
How does God call us to respond if we are being bullied or we see someone else being bullied?
1. If you see something, say something.
Reporting bullying to the proper authorities is one of the most important strategies we can use to prevent further bullying. Twenty-eight percent of students grades 6-12 say that they have been bullied at school. Yet only 20-30 percent of those who are bullied actually report when they are bullied.
How should Christians respond to bullying?
How does God call us to respond if we are being bullied or we see someone else being bullied?
1. If you see something, say something.
1. Reporting bullying to the proper authorities is one of the most important strategies we can use to prevent further bullying.
2. Twenty-eight percent of students grades 6-12 say that have been bullied at school. Yet only 20-30 percent of those who are bullied actually report when they are bullied.
** Something extremely important to remember is that it isn’t tattling to report bullying.
Understand who you are in Christ
You need to know that you are special to God and created in his image with immeasurable worth and value. (Psalm 139:13-18)
it’s okay to stick up for yourself if you are bullied.
Sticking up for yourself may be difficult to do, but if you are able to stay calm and respond in a loving manner, then you have every right as an image-bearer of God to defend yourself and speak the truth. You are worth being defended.
Reach out to those being bullied
Lastly, we need to reach out to those being bullied. One of the best ways we can do this is to befriend them and invite them to hang out with us. Not only will this make them feel loved, accepted, and less alone, it also acts as a deterrent to bullying. Bullies are much less likely to pick on someone if they are in a group of friends than if they are alone.
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