In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about desire discrepancy in couples, why it happens, and practical ways to address it through communication, scheduling, and creating a positive sexual vibe. 00:38 Understanding Desire Discrepancy – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how desire discrepancy occurs when one partner wants sex more than the other and how it's common but can create tension if ignored. 06:46 Strategies for Scheduling Sex – They explain the importance of agreeing on a sexual frequency, like once or twice a week, to keep couples in sync and maintain intimacy. 14:01 Navigating Desire Discrepancies in Relationships – The hosts talk about balancing differences in sexual desire, helping partners feel understood, and addressing resentment before it escalates. 16:25 The Importance of Communication and Initiation – They emphasize taking turns initiating sex, openly discussing preferences, and creating a safe, non-judgmental environment for both partners. 22:59 Creating a Positive Sexual Experience – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler highlight cultivating a good sexual "vibe," showing passion and connection, and helping lower-desire partners engage fully for enjoyable intimacy. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DesireDiscrepancy #RelationshipAdvice #SexualHealth

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about low sexual desire in women, why it happens, and practical ways couples can restore intimacy through understanding, communication, and shared strategies. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview – In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler introduce the topic of desire discrepancy and why it's a common challenge in relationships. 00:15 Understanding Desire Discrepancy in Women – They discuss how one partner often wants sex more than the other and how this imbalance can create frustration or resentment if not addressed. 00:52 Differences in Male and Female Sexuality – They explain key physical, hormonal, and societal differences between men and women that influence sexual desire and behavior. 10:31 Understanding Female Sexuality from an Evolutionary Perspective – They explore how evolutionary factors shape female sexuality, including why women may experience more "turn-offs" than men. 10:51 Common Issues Affecting Women's Libido – They cover real-life factors that reduce female desire, like stress, parenting, body image, medical conditions, medications, and partner dynamics. 14:26 Strategies to Increase Sexual Desire – They share practical approaches for boosting desire, including scheduling sex, alternating initiation, cultivating good sexual "vibes," and reconnecting with past arousal experiences. Resources: Dual Control Model (Kinsey researchers): Kinsey, A., Pomeroy, W. B., Martin, C. E., & Gebhard, P. H. (1953). Sexual behavior in the human male. Philadelphia, PA: W. B. Saunders. Book: Reclaiming Desire (Goldstein & Morgentaler): Goldstein, A., & Morgentaler, A. (2005). Reclaiming desire: 4 keys to finding your lost libido. New York, NY: Berkley Books. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualDesireInWomen #DualControlModel #LongTermSexualSatisfaction

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about premature ejaculation—explaining why it's a common, treatable condition tied more to physiology and confidence than performance, and how communication, training, and medication can restore intimacy and ease. 01:20 The Double Standards in Sexual Expectations – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how society praises women for climaxing quickly but shames men for the same, creating unfair pressure and stigma. 05:02 Medical Treatments for Premature Ejaculation – They also discuss the most effective treatments available today, from topical sprays to antidepressants and other medications that help men last longer. 13:56 Understanding the Effects of Topical Anesthetics – They also discuss how topical anesthetics can safely delay orgasm by reducing sensitivity and boosting control during sex. 15:25 Exploring SSRIs and Their Side Effects – They also discuss how antidepressants like paroxetine or dapoxetine can help manage PE, though some men experience delayed orgasm or mood changes. 16:20 The Role of PD5 Inhibitors and Practical Solutions – Finally, they discuss how drugs like Viagra or Cialis can ease anxiety, improve confidence, and be combined with behavioral techniques for better results. Resources: Raisi, A., et al. (2025). Efficacy and safety of pharmacological treatments in patients with premature ejaculation. Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PrematureEjaculation #SexualHealth #IntimacyCommunication

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how men perceive their penis size, why most overestimate it, and how social pressure, body fat, and even evolutionary psychology influence confidence and self-image — while reminding listeners that satisfaction in the bedroom is more about vibe and connection than size. 01:02 Understanding Penis Size and Measurement – Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how penis size is measured, what affects it, and why losing weight can make it appear longer. 08:04 Psychological and Social Aspects of Penis Size – They also discuss how men often overestimate their size and how shame, humor, and cultural pressure shape male self-perception. 13:52 Evolutionary Theory and Male Hierarchies – They talk about how men's concern about size may stem from deep evolutionary instincts tied to hierarchy and competition. 15:02 The Psychological Impact of Penis Size – They also discuss how men's confidence, relationships, and self-worth can be influenced more by perception than reality. 19:05 Reassurance and Modern Comparisons – Finally, they discuss how doctors can help men feel reassured about their normal size and compare this to how women often feel about their weight. Resources: Zheng, Z., et al. (2024). Visual illusion in male self-assessment of penile dimensions. Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MensHealth #BodyImage #SexualSatisfaction

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about delayed ejaculation—its psychological and medical causes, from anxiety to medication effects—and practical ways to treat it and improve sexual communication. 00:09 Understanding Delayed Ejaculation – The doctors explain what delayed ejaculation is, why it happens, and how it differs from other sexual concerns like premature ejaculation. 03:09 Psychological and Physical Factors – They discuss how anxiety, self-consciousness, and relationship dynamics can combine with biological factors to make orgasm more difficult. 15:25 Exploring Penile Sensation and Neurological Factors – The conversation shifts to nerve sensitivity tests and how neurological or medical conditions like diabetes can affect sexual response. 17:51 The Role of Testosterone in Sexual Response – They outline how low testosterone can reduce arousal and sensation, sometimes making orgasm harder to achieve. 19:41 Medications and Psychological Factors Affecting Ejaculation – The doctors highlight common drugs and emotional factors that can delay ejaculation, emphasizing how both mind and body play key roles. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DelayedEjaculation #SexualHealth #MensHealth

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about new research showing that low testosterone is linked to higher mortality in men with prostate cancer, challenging decades of belief that testosterone fuels the disease and highlighting its role as a vital factor for overall health. 00:23 – Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about testosterone's early link to prostate cancer; they also say this belief shaped medicine for decades. 08:45 – They talk about new data showing low testosterone ties to higher death rates; they also say it overturns old thinking. 15:32 – They talk about testosterone's role in prostate growth; they also say cancer is rare when men are young and levels are highest. 18:31 – They talk about studies on testosterone and outcomes; they also say low levels are linked with worse results. 22:52 – They talk about the future of testosterone therapy; they also say keeping levels normal may support better health and survival. Resources: D'Amico, A. V. (n.d.). Low testosterone level and mortality risk in patients with prostate cancer. [Study referenced in transcript; specific journal details not provided]. Huggins, C., & Hodges, C. V. (1941). Studies on prostatic cancer: The effect of castration, of estrogen and of androgen injection on serum phosphatases in metastatic carcinoma of the prostate. Cancer Research, 1(4), 293–297. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ProstateCancerResearch #TestosteroneTherapy #LowTestosteroneEffects

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how new research on "mom brain" and "dad brain" suggests parents experience brain changes after childbirth—once thought adaptive for bonding, but possibly tied more to sleep loss and stress—raising important questions about how science interprets these shifts. 00:14 Exploring Mom Brain and Dad Brain – Discussing how parenting may shrink brain volume and what that means for bonding. 04:52 The Impact of Sleep on Parenting – Looking at how sleep loss, not biology alone, may explain brain changes in new parents. 12:09 The Importance of Sleep – Highlighting how disrupted sleep affects brain health, mood, and long-term functioning. 12:38 Testosterone and Sexual Behavior – Breaking down how testosterone levels influence libido and relationship dynamics. 17:38 Risks of High Testosterone and Steroid Use – Addressing the dangers of anabolic steroid misuse, from infertility to health decline. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #ParentingBrainChanges #SleepDeprivationEffects #TestosteroneMyths

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler discuss how the definition of cheating is shifting in the digital age, from porn and OnlyFans to chatbots and sexting, and why clear boundaries matter more than ever. 00:26 Exploring Modern Cheating: Survey Insights – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler break down new survey data on how people define cheating in today's digital age. 09:06 Debating Digital and Emotional Cheating – They discuss the blurred lines between sexual red lines, emotional intimacy, and partner expectations. 16:56 Exploring Sexting with Chatbots – The conversation turns to whether sexual exchanges with AI cross the boundary of infidelity. 20:54 The Ethics of Subscribing to OnlyFans – They examine how money, real human interaction, and online platforms complicate trust in relationships. 25:49 The Complexity of Digital Cheating – The episode closes on how technology, from avatars to VR, makes defining cheating more difficult than ever. Resources: Cadet, L., Brooks, A., & Castro, L. (2025, August 26). Digital affairs are here: 61% of singles say sexting or falling in love with AI crosses the line [Survey, DatingAdvice.com & Kinsey Institute]. DatingAdvice.com. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DigitalCheating #RelationshipBoundaries #OnlineInfidelity

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about how AI chatbots are rapidly transforming therapy, potentially replacing many jobs, and why therapists must focus on uniquely human skills to stay relevant. 00:00 Introduction and Article Overview – Dr. Brandon shares a bold new article warning that AI chatbots could soon dominate psychotherapy. 00:35 AI's Impact on Jobs and Therapy – The doctors discuss how AI is already taking over jobs and may soon replace many therapists. 02:12 Concerns About AI Dependency – They explore fears that people are becoming too dependent on chatbots for decisions and emotional support. 04:04 Real-Time AI Demonstration – A live demo shows how empathetic and human-like AI therapy responses have already become. 08:32 Future of AI in Various Fields – The conversation expands to AI in medicine, law, and other jobs, predicting massive workforce changes. 16:23 Concluding Thoughts and Advice – They encourage therapists to focus on work AI can't do, using human connection as their edge. Resources: Frances, A. (2025). Warning: AI chatbots will soon dominate psychotherapy. The British Journal of Psychiatry. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AIinPsychotherapy #FutureOfWork #HumanVsAI

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about studies reporting parental brain “shrinkage” and lower testosterone in new fathers, arguing these are likely effects of sleep deprivation and stress—not adaptive evolution—and usually rebound as life normalizes. 00:11 – The doctors introduce today’s topic, exploring how becoming a parent can literally change your brain and hormones. 00:41 – They break down the research showing brain volume shrinks in new parents, comparing fathers and mothers and what that might mean. 11:08 – A lively discussion about testosterone drops in dads, why it’s probably sleep deprivation, and why calling it “evolutionary” is a stretch. 17:52 – They share honest stories about those hazy newborn months, feeling “brain-dead,” and how things eventually go back to normal. 19:52 – Wrapping up, they reassure listeners that brains and hormones bounce back and encourage enjoying parenthood without fear. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #NewParentBrainChanges #EvolutionaryAdaptationDebate #PostnatalHormonalShifts